Hello! I want to share with strangers, because the topic is delicate enough and I can not discuss it in my immediate environment. I have a sexual attraction to a colleague, I think she also shows some interest in me. We are both married, I even have two small children. I am aware of the irregularity of the situation, at least I have always been of the opinion that intimate contacts are not for the workplace, but it just drives me crazy just seeing it. I have always had an attraction to women, but my objects of desire were heterosexual and there was no doubt at all that something would happen and my desires gradually faded. However, now that I see that she is also interested (looks, comments, some other "so-so" kiss), I go crazy. I think I am in a stalemate and in any case I will be disappointed with the course of events. If it all ends unfinished I will be sorry; if we give in, I don't think I'll have enough one day ...
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Quite interesting..I think there is nothing wrong with that! I personally some time ago, I had a threesome with a woman..it happened by chance and since then I am attracted to women.Honestly, only a certain type and not always, but at times.Unfortunately at work my place, there is no way to talk or act, and I have not been in such a situation..I envy you straight haha Go on and see what happens;) As more inexperienced and because there is no one to ask..how to recognize such women? I've tried to make light jokes and tease them very delicately, but they seem to recede.
I'll tell you what I think. I want to know if you have an orgasm during sex and if so, what kind of orgasm you experience, only vaginal or only clitoral. If you only experience a clitoral orgasm, I will tell you that almost every such woman is a potential lesbian. If your colleague only experiences a clitoral orgasm, then you become a couple. First you have to talk about these things and if you are from the same "party" well .... you can try. And I believe that you will like it a lot, especially if you do not receive such caresses from your husbands. Hmmm, just thinking about what you would do and what you would experience and I start fantasizing. Try it, such an act is not like doing it with a man. I do not consider it infidelity, and your spouses, if they know each other, are unlikely to allow such a relationship between you. Try it but don't forget to tell us how it went or how it all goes on between you. Good luck and head up.
Author, look after your family and especially your children, and do not listen to those who encourage you to follow your animal instincts. A pedophile also has such perverted instincts, is it right to be encouraged to "follow his heart"? What if he attacks your children tomorrow? The mind has separated us from the animals, and its absence brings us back to them, and it is the mind that must dictate to us what is right and what is not, what is good and what is bad, not instincts and hormones.
Hmm ... Nothing personal, but I advise you to try! I am a man and my girlfriend tried in front of me with another woman. Even with the kiss you can see the passion with which they throw themselves into the endeavor;) I assure you that if you approach properly you will like it, and you will want your husband to know about it, but you must know at the same time and where is the limit to don't overdo it. Let me just add that I am just an observer of what is happening and it excites me terribly. Then we fuck like crazy;)