I Am Bulgarian And He Is Turkish ...

   To know what it is, I am also a Bulgarian and I had a relationship with a Turk, but it was shorter than your 2 months. But the fact that we profess different religions did not stop us. Even if we had to hide, we still saw each other. In my opinion, it is more important to have love and understanding than to fight and be of the same faith. So don't worry, over time your parents will get used to it and you won't have any problems.

   I am the girl who wrote this confession .. I want to tell you that I am not bothered by his faith .. And it will infuriate my relatives .. and they will never accept it .. and his parents - they will not accept me .. and we see each other - to the dismay of all who do not like us .. but obviously we do not have the courage to admit the truth to our loved ones .. And please tell me how to escape the lie that is for my loved ones ..they know that I'm still with my ex-boyfriend..what can I tell them..that I left him..and what is the new boy I'm dating - a new lie? ... oh..my story is very confused. .: ((((

   The blood must not be mixed ... the Bulgarian and the Turkish ... sin ... is that why thousands of Bulgarians died during the centuries of slavery, so that you can make fun of their memory! Shame on you !

   Hello! Since I am experiencing the same, I decided to write. I don't know if you will take my advice, but I sincerely hope my words will help you. I have been in a relationship with a Turk for 8 months. Someone will reproach me and say that I have no right to speak because only 8 months have passed and I have not seen anything yet. Everyone has the right to express their opinion, but I know one thing. There are things in life that only happen once, and if you miss them you run the risk of regretting your whole life. I often enter forums that discuss relationships between people of different religions and beyond, and I often come across confessions like, "I'm with him, and I love and dream of another," "How can I forget my first love?" I don't want the same thing to happen to me after a while, I don't want to go to bed with someone and dream of someone else, I don't want to ask myself the words that are too expensive: ... if only ...! If only I were braver ... I know it won't be easy for me, but not always the easy choice is the right way, rather it is always a compromise option, and the worst thing is when we compromise with ourselves so that we can others to be well. It may sound harsh, but parents are up to date. Respect them, but don't let them make radical decisions about your life, so that you don't regret one day and ask yourself: ... if only I had a little more courage ... Fight for this love, but above all you must know is it worth. If the person against you is also ready for what you are for this love, do not worry. Because we still need to know what we are fighting for and whether it is worth it. Good luck so that others may be well. It may sound harsh, but parents are up to date. Respect them, but don't let them make radical decisions about your life, so that you don't regret one day and ask yourself: ... if only I had a little more courage ... Fight for this love, but above all you must know is it worth. If the person against you is also ready for what you are for this love, do not worry. Because we still need to know what we are fighting for and whether it is worth it. Good luck so that others may be well. It may sound harsh, but parents are up to date. Respect them, but don't let them make radical decisions about your life, so that you don't regret one day and ask yourself: ... if only I had a little more courage ... Fight for this love, but above all you must know is it worth. If the person against you is also ready for what you are for this love, do not worry. Because we still need to know what we are fighting for and whether it is worth it. Good luck Because we still need to know what we are fighting for and whether it is worth it. Good luck Because we still need to know what we are fighting for and whether it is worth it. Good luck

   Thank you all for the opinions..It is completely clear to me that the parents are there for a while..and then the person stays with you..but there is something else..I don't know if I want my children to wear his religion..and I know that he will not compromise on this..we both love each other a lot, we have been through a lot..but as if we are both reluctant to compromise on religion..I can note both traditions, but I know that over time his religion will prevail..it may sound silly ... there are actually options for that .. Two years ago his little brother was brutally murdered..and his parents rely entirely on him..I don't know if he will be able to fight against them..and I don't want to drive it either..because I understand the pain of people .. I don't know, I don't know..such love is so difficult..and so burning ... And on number 3 I will say no did you lovedon't you know that the heart cannot be commanded? ... love just goes away..and sweeps away everything else ..

   Hi, I'm the man who wrote I fell in love with a Turkish woman without a leg. I've been with many women, I've fallen in love 4 ... 5 times. I have a woman that some men can only dream of, but such a story as mine is only in Indian movies. There must be some innate romantic sentimentality in the Turks mixed with patriarchal modesty and loyalty to men. He gave me exactly what I needed. I am writing this to let you know that if your parents agree to marry you, you will have to live by their rules. I entered a Turkish house. Order purity everything shines. Women are still wiping the feathers of clean carpets and only Turkish kyuchets, Turkish television all speak Turkish and you can't understand anything. I enter as a guest and I have no problem because they speak Bulgarian to me, but you do the math. The men go out alone. They take down Bulgarian women. You will be constantly monitored and controlled if your husband is not there. Your girlfriends will be different daughters-in-law and cousins. My son has a fellow student and he calls me that they warned her to do her homework if she went wrong. I can write to you for many more examples but I hope that someone else will complement me. As a Bulgarian, you do not have their mentality. Even if you work for a prestigious government job, you will not be allowed to wave your flag and command the parade. I can't give you a reason. I just know that there is a lot of pain in such love. As a Bulgarian, you do not have their mentality. Even if you work for a prestigious government job, you will not be allowed to wave your flag and command the parade. I can't give you a reason. All I know is that there is a lot of pain in such love. As a Bulgarian, you do not have their mentality. Even if you work for a prestigious government job, you will not be allowed to wave your flag and command the parade. I can't give you a reason. All I know is that there is a lot of pain in such love.

   ? WHAT SHOULD I TELL US THAT I AM NO LONGER WITH MY EX-GIRLFRIEND OF 2 AND A HALF? THAT I'M GOING OUT WITH A NEW BOY.. SHOULD I FROM ANOTHER LIE TO ANOTHER .. OR SHOULD I TELL THE TRUTH..And THEY LOSE TRUST IN ME? ..And AFTER DEATH ..;))

   Hi, I'm number 6. You still have to have a girlfriend. Print your letter so that yours cannot read the comments. Let your girlfriend go to yours and tell them literally. DO YOU KNOW YOUR DAUGHTER HOW MUCH SUFFERING, SEE WHAT SHE WROTE ON THE INTERNET. Based on their reaction, you will choose how to behave. The site is anonymous and you can always deny that it is not you. I live in the boyar area where the Turks do not show their horns very, very much, that I see what is happening. I do not want to think about Razgrad and Kardzhali. YOUR SUFFERING IS BEGINNING NOW. Even if you run away together abroad, you will still find yourself in a gypsy. They themselves are timid and vulnerable, so they are everywhere in heaps. I'm in love too but I'm trying to change my environment. As soon as my Turkish friend forbade me to deal with the cripple, I should not tell you about the Bulgarians. If I start writing to you, your hair will stand on end. Get 2 spare Bulgarian boyfriends. This is what the sword shows. I envy you that you are young and one day your story will be just a pleasant memory. Take action immediately and call what happened. IF THERE IS NO SUCH LIKE US, WHAT WRITERS WILL WRITE.

   I will write something on the subject. Not all Turks are as described by you. There are those who live quite normally, just like you, and more. Tell them the truth, don't they deserve it ...? Instead of hiding like kids, I guess you're big people and you can take responsibility. You also have a child. Few people would be inclined to raise another's child. I'm turkish. Success and most importantly a lot of courage.

   Hello, I have never mentioned that I have a child number 9 ... where did he come from ... :) I love him..I love him very much..and I do not divide people like that..and I do not claim that they live in the Middle Ages most Turks..we are not all people .. ??? And my parents deserve to know the truth..but they won't understand me..and they will scold me, scold me..and I want support and understanding..and so number 6 to you I tell you that I know what the attitude will be, especially to my father..for this and I consult with you ..

   You want to be his mistress, but when he cuts you off, I don't want to hear your screams. There is a very big difference between a Turkish man and a Turkish woman. I have seen Turks drooling in restaurants, but I have not seen Turks.

   Number 11, I want to tell you that I know and feel that he loves me ... even if you drool ... won't I drool too ... won't I have someone else?

   I just want to tell all of you that a Muslim remains like that and I don't know when he leans on a wedding whether he won't give up or start "defending" his opinion aggressively as we know about most of them, I hope this person isn't like that just not stay disappointed. If you are sure of him and he loves you, do not be afraid to go through these worries with your parents

   Hello dear! I also went with a Muslim for two years. I don't care what people say, this was the only man who loved and supported me. The only man I will never stop loving, but I stopped because of my parents. His accepted me, but mine failed. I tried to erase it from my mind and start a relationship with someone, but with each I realized that I could not find a man like my ex-boyfriend. Now I'm sorry we're together, but in the end how much longer would we be together — while she's an American woman of the ego religion. I would be rejected and hurt. Believe me, it will be the same with you. He will cheat on you and you will suffer. I don't know, you decide, but I think it's better sooner than later.

   :)))) what can I tell you, you will suffer a lot if you do not leave him, you know the saying about the wolf ... I went with a Turk and I know what they are ... if you want to stay with him and create family prepare your children to be Muslims and to bear Turkish names, to learn Turkish ... they do not speak Bulgarian at home and a bunch of other nonsense, not to mention that they will constantly kill their complexes, saying how stupid Bulgarians are and how Christianity is a super rotten religion ... success, and I forgot you will eat a fight and you will be to blame for it :))) good luck

   I just want to say that here some are in a big mistake, don't you make a difference between Turks and gypsies? I can't understand ... I'm Turkish. My sister has been dating a Bulgarian for 6 years and they experienced many things together. His family didn't accept her well, but mine accepted him as a son ... because they never had one and will never have one..and I won't tell you what kind of love it is..Only one thing I can tell you darling if you love him really tell the truth to your parents ..they are you parents and no matter how much they can't accept it, they love you and they will hardly leave you alone, they will support you in everything, just give them some time to understand it, accept it and love it like you ... you can't hide this forever .. It is an unbearable burden..overcome the obstacles and if you succeed then you will be happy..and together what is most important I wish you success! :)

   Apparently they don't make a difference. For them it is the same. For them we are 2nd quality people. But we will continue to prove to them that this is not the case

   Abe, you live it now and then again

   Very familiar story .. only that I am from a small town and my parents very quickly found out about my relationship with the boy they made many attempts to separate us and now a year after our separation I still love him .. but it's different for me because I'm younger than you and my parents can still influence me and have the right to do so .. but she is already a woman with her own life, don't let anyone fix it for you, even if it's your parents !! because they will not be unhappy after making the wrong choice and you !!

   Well people check it out ... aren't you ashamed? what if he is a Turk, maybe they are not people ... I have been in a relationship with a Turk for 3 years, we already live together and I am very happy! he loves me, i love him and i am ready for anything for him! at first my mother was a little skeptical, but after meeting him the opinion changed radically and now she adores him and can't accept me being with someone else. I know many of his friends who are also Turks and I can only say that they are wonderful people. who wants to think and tell you anything if you are happy you should not care what others think. and your parents will get used to the thought one day ...

   Hello, I want to take an opinion on this topic. I have been in a relationship with a Turk for five and a half years. And we love each other a lot, but really a lot. We have a very strong connection with each other. But ... Some time ago his parents did not accept us. I have heard all sorts of insults in my address, they have persecuted me. But in time they realized that this would not happen and now they have calmed down a bit. My parents haven't figured it out yet. My mother may suspect something, but I avoid talking. The problem is not whether he has another faith. The problem is that when we talk about our lives ahead, about our future children, he says, "I want my child to know Turkish, you have to accept my religion." It's a lot of rubbish, but it doesn't work for me. I don't mind knowing my father's language, but somehow I don't understand words like gyauri and nasty things about us. Most Turks (not to say 99%) talk about us such filth that it is as if we live in their country and not them in ours. And sometimes I listen to him say that all Bulgarians were what they are, only I am not. Well, of course - he loves me. But I'm thinking. Well, tomorrow I will tell my child about slavery - he will hardly understand why, having done such things to these Turks, his mother is Bulgarian and his father is Turkish. (Although today's Turks have nothing to do with those offspring.) The other option is to say nothing to him. then what a Bulgarian it is not to know the history of his homeland, to bear a Turkish name and to speak Turkish. hey that's the question. I love him too, but it torments me. I'm big enough now, but when I was an 18-year-old girl I didn't think so. And now I see that the girls do not choose. It is important to have understanding, but they are all the same. And I'm actually going to give you a link to something that will make you think. Just watch them: http://www.vbox7.com/play:7b66d984 and http://www.vbox7.com/play:d3ad62d3 Emmy this is from me and good luck to everyone in love with a Turk!

   Dear girls, do not repeat my mistake! It is one thing to have a Turk as a friend, it is another to be his wife. During the relationship, they will be very kind, but then they will turn your life into hell! The Turks are extremely conservative, I would even say primitive about the woman in the family, the woman is just an incubator for his children and nothing more. His family and relatives will never receive you well, whether you are educated or cultured, they need a maid and a cleaner. If you want your husband to treat you like a thing, your mother-in-law (without primary education) to hiss in Turkish behind your back for the slightest offense, and his relatives to behave as if you are not at the table with them, then do it. I wish you success, I didn't have it!

   Hello :) I want to say something too :) I am much smaller. . I am 17 years old. . I have been in a relationship with a Turk for 4 years. But we are not in Bulgaria. . we are in Belgium. We speak the local language, sometimes a little Turkish / which I learned /, a little Bulgarian, everything is okay. . except that his parents do not accept me. . separate my him. . Anyway, they will not separate us, because they think that everything will end sooner or later. . however, for us things are very serious. We've known each other for a year. . I don't know, the only problem is that he wants to accept his religion. . to some extent I think I agree / if it comes to marriage, etc./, but on the other hand, I do not want to hurt my parents in this way. . my mother will just give up on me. . : С :(

   Hello! Your story reminds me a little of mine - I am Bulgarian and he is Turkish. The difference is that we do not pay attention to our different religions, but to the fact that we give each other security and love. Concerning your worries about your parents - there is no parent who does not want the best for their child, so follow your heart. If you're going to break up, it's better because you want it, not because someone is forcing it on you. There are no limits to love, only fears and prejudices.

   He has been trying to break up with me for 2 months, but he also feels very sick ... it's just awful ... and I ruined myself, I lost a lot of weight, I was 50 kg. now I am 45 kg, I can't sleep more than 4-5 hours, I don't go out anywhere .. absolutely nowhere .. I have no desire for anything .. When we see each other and we are together I can't be happy with him either, but even then I go crazy out of fear for how long it will be..even trying to quarrel to separate, but it doesn't work out, I see that it's on purpose and I keep fighting..then he gets very sick when we talk about it..as much as it hurts me his even for 2 days 100 times more hurts me that he thinks it would be better to separate because of our relatives..if we are loved as a 1n parent should love his child even after a few years if they will accept our relationship ..is the most important thing to be happy..only I know how much I gave, in order to win it and after all I can't lose it..speak and if you love each other you fight so much .... besides you don't need other advice, that's why I told you that I'm not looking for advice..I just wanted to help you ..share with your friends, with the close people you trust, and I do it, but think .... when you are in pain only you know what is wrong with you, when you are terribly happy only you know exactly how it is ... .no one will experience your pain for you if you are without him and no one will be as happy as you are with him, right ?? So share and listen to what your loved ones tell you, but only you know and only you decide, do not be influenced .. talk to him and explain this to him, if you think I'm right ... I think so precisely because as much as people painted me..friends, relatives to love me, when I'm without him I can't be happy about anything..his lack is much bigger ....

   Hello lovely girl! I am a Bulgarian and I have been with a Turk for about a year! Our love is huge! The fear that we will separate is great! His parents accept me very well, mine accept him too, but the fear remains to some extent! We can't separate and we both know we can't do without each other! We have decided to live our lives, and if we are destined to be together and create a home and a family, everything will happen regardless of that! because even if your mother and father accept your relationship, if theirs doesn't accept it again, it will be hard for you! I wish you luck and do not listen to people, listen to your heart, so that one day you will not regret that you listened to those who tell you that the Turks are nasty, cheating, beating or treating their wives! I believe that even today there are such Turks,

   And I am one of the Bulgarian women who have a relationship with a Turk. Although it's not much of a connection because I haven't decided to get into it yet. He is almost 2 years younger than me. Do a lot of things for me. He is ready to be together, to live together, to look after me and to change his name to Bulgarian. He doesn't care what their people think. He just wants us to be happy together, he would change religion, even though he is not religious. He gives me everything - love, understanding, attention, tenderness ... I also have feelings for him but I am afraid to embark on something like that.

   Long live love!

   True feelings prevail!

   Dear girl, I think you should tell yours about this relationship! And you shouldn't put it off any longer. The later, the worse, I think you saw for yourself. I know very well how you feel. True, I am much younger than you, and my friend (a Turk) and I have only been together for 6 months, but I understand you perfectly. I hid my relationship from our whole 4 months. Every night when I came home we were always going to tell them and I still couldn't, not for anything else, but because I was very afraid that they wouldn't accept him precisely because he was a Turk. And in the end do you know what happened? Our people found out, but not from me, but from some colleague of my mother's who knew about us. Believe me, it is better for you to learn everything from you, and not from some informer who can decorate things as he wants. And the age you're at, you can decide for yourself who to be with and what to do. Even if your parents are against it, don't let them interfere with you, because then you can be very sorry! I'm really annoyed when someone very competent speaks like "did thousands of Bulgarians die for this during the centuries of slavery"! Today's Turks have nothing to do with those then, but most of you cannot understand it. As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) don't let them interfere with you, because then you may be very sorry! I'm really annoyed when someone very competent speaks like "did thousands of Bulgarians die for this during the centuries of slavery"! Today's Turks have nothing in common with those of that time, but most of you cannot understand it. As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) don't let them interfere with you, because then you may be very sorry! I'm really annoyed when someone very competent speaks like "did thousands of Bulgarians die for this during the centuries of slavery"! Today's Turks have nothing in common with those of that time, but most of you cannot understand it. As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) when someone very competent speaks like "did thousands of Bulgarians die for this during the centuries of slavery"! Today's Turks have nothing in common with those of that time, but most of you cannot understand it. As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) when someone very competent speaks like "did thousands of Bulgarians die for this during the centuries of slavery"! Today's Turks have nothing in common with those of that time, but most of you cannot understand it. As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) As it was said above, there are Turks who do not respect their wives and treat them badly, I do not deny, but are there no such Bulgarians ?! Are only the Turks bad and we are angels ?! Come on, please! Everyone decides for themselves what kind of person they want to be with! Of course, it is more important to love and understand your loved one than what religion you are from! For me, any opinions like what I quoted are opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) what I quoted are the opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :) what I quoted are the opinions of stupid and limited people! This is from me! Good luck :)

   and I have a relationship with a Turk and I can say that he is just the boy I dreamed of .. I told my mother, he told me to leave him .. because bad .. I tried ,, 2 times .. I could not .. he is in Istanbul and we are making plans for him to come to me ... but something is very complicated ... he doesn't speak Bulgarian. his parents have lived in Bulgaria before and know Bulgarian, they are not religious, nor am I .. my problem is how to make him come to live with me ,, I do not live with my parents. anyone have like my problem?

   Go with him to the end of the world and be really happy!

   There is a difference between Turks from BG or Turks in TR. I have been married to TR for almost 10 years, we have a child who speaks both mine and his, and 2 other languages. English is spoken at home. We go to BG when we want, our people come here when they want. It is not ethnicity, gender, nationality, religion or sexual orientation that determine a person's mentality, but his education and desire to learn new things, albeit different ones. I think I am the greatest among you ... and although the proverb says "don't ask an old man, but a patil" - I win because I both 'suffered' him and I'm older than you;). So far I have not seen a single meaningful piece of advice or comment. If you have questions about a religion, ethnicity - sit down and read BOOKS and FACTS to me, and do not rely on who heard what somewhere, that someone else. heard from his aunt. It is a sin nowadays to walk young uneducated people (I'm not talking about having a diploma, because it does not make anyone educated), who believe that the wife of a Muslim (TR, Arab, Persian, Maghreb, Berber, etc.) is beaten, beaten, cursed, used for breeding, etc. .This only shows the lack of a rich general culture and what is the knowledge of different traditions and cultures. A man is a man (or an idiot is an idiot) regardless of whether he was born in BG, TR, China or on the moon! Good luck to all and let's not forget that work is required in any relationship; i.e. the relationship with a Turk is no different, bad, good, scary, beautiful, from which, etc. connection. :-) prehebvana, psuvana, used for ra3plod etc. .This only shows the lack of a rich general culture and what is the knowledge of different traditions and cultures. A man is a man (or an idiot is an idiot) regardless of whether he was born in BG, TR, China or on the moon! Good luck to all and let's not forget that work is required in any relationship; i.e. the relationship with a Turk is no different, bad, good, scary, beautiful, from which, etc. connection. :-) prehebvana, psuvana, used for ra3plod etc. .This only shows the lack of a rich general culture and what is the knowledge of different traditions and cultures. A man is a man (or an idiot is an idiot) regardless of whether he was born in BG, TR, China or on the moon! Good luck to all and let's not forget that work is required in any relationship; i.e. the relationship with a Turk is no different, bad, good, scary, beautiful, from which, etc. connection. :-)

   It's been 4 months since we broke up ,, he last wrote to me a month ago after I told him I could dump everything ,, 4e is bad for me ,, we would have forgotten ,, and still when I wake up and my thought of him climbs .. what is it I don't know ,,, I don't know if you did something like harakiri to check if fate is on your side // should I go there again ,, in Istanbul .. and if it comes come ,, if not ,, I don't know ,, I will wait for the bus to return ,, I worked 2 jobs, I see a lot of people, but I can't and can't forget it ,, I saw a lot of people, but I haven't met a person like him ,, what should I do?

   Dear girl, let me get involved with my opinion on the matter. Like most women in this forum, I have had a relationship with a Turk, if that is really the factor that determines the man I was in love with. It was more than 7 years ago ... And then I thought that his ethnicity was so important ... I was influenced by the public opinion that reigns in Bulgaria. I know what's wrong with you, it's not easy at all. What's worse is that you fly on the wings of love and at the same time a worm bites you inside. And that the reason you feel bad is lying to your parents is just a pretext. You know it yourself, as I knew it, but you don't want to say it out loud. You want the blame to be on you if you decide to separate. And you say to yourself that you are sacrificing yourself for the sake of parents, friends, and even the whole Bulgarian people, because you cannot pass on the memory of your ancestors ... But do you know what the truth is? You love it with every particle of your body and soul. I guess he loves you too ... And even if you're right, it's better to break up now before it's too late, if you give him up, he'll always be a part of you. And even if you marry another, you will always compare the other with him. You will remember the good moments you experienced together and over time you will blame yourself more and more for giving up your true love. If she really is. I can't give you advice, because I know what it's like to give up your love, I don't know what it's like to continue side by side with the person you love and he loves you. 7 years have passed and over time, instead of getting lighter, it gets harder. I may have made the right choice, but the fact is that I surrendered without a fight and will never know if he was right. I have many Turkish friends, I am aware of the traditions and culture, I even speak Turkish, but fear is sometimes our biggest enemy and it is very bad when it is planted in us for years and we cannot soberly judge what is best for us. The factor that determines him is not a Turk, start from there, if not for others, then try to accept it for yourself. Only then will you be able to answer the question that really bothers you. Be happy! start from there, if not for others, then try to accept it for yourself. Only then will you be able to answer the question that really bothers you. Be happy! start from there, if not for others, then try to accept it for yourself. Only then will you be able to answer the question that really bothers you. Be happy!

   It depends on where the Turkish friend is from, if he is from Turkey, they would accept a Bulgarian there, but ours are old-fashioned. I had a short relationship with a Turk from Turkey, it was a very beautiful story, but unfinished. I just thought, thought and decided that better to end before it's too late, there is no point in falling in love with a person so much that he then fights and suffers for this love. That's why I extinguished the spark before it ignited. I don't know if I'm sorry, maybe it's good to see the end of every story. Life then subjected me to such trials, I did such bold deeds, I ignored so many patriarchal understandings, I surpassed myself through perseverance and will and desire to be happy with the next Bulgarian hero in my life. So leave let every spark ignite, let every love ignite, and you fight whatever happens.If you are said to be happy, you will be happy with both a Turk next to you and a Bulgarian next to you. If a Turk is of another religion, your parents do not want you, then Bulgarians are timid, not combative and leave everything in the hands of women. a Turk will want you to send and meet him as a woman in his house, then a Bulgarian will want you to get up for work with him in the morning and come back. So both positions, in my opinion, are both extremes, there is nowhere perfect. Fight for each love, experience it, and it will only show if it was the right direction for future life.so the Bulgarian will want you to get up for work with him in the morning and come back. So both positions, in my opinion, are the two extremes, there is nowhere perfect. Fight for every love, experience it, and it will only show if it was true direction for future life.so the Bulgarian will want you to get up for work with him in the morning and come back. So both positions, in my opinion, are the two extremes, there is nowhere perfect. Fight for every love, experience it, and it will only show if it was true direction for future life.

   Live your love, and time will show if this love was real. When the time comes to fight with your loved ones to agree on their life together, then you will see how strong your love is.

   Hello!!! my story ended in failure .. maybe in another life .. :) if there is one ... can you support me in this endeavor .. if I win I want to dedicate it to all those who understand what it is to love real ,, but alas ,,: x fate ,, support me .. please!

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   I am a Turk and I love a Bulgarian woman, with all my heart my heart. I am 20 years old, this year a first-year student, I saw the girl in question at lectures, when I saw her my heart would jump out, I thought such things only happen on film, but here it happened to me. For the first few weeks we didn't know each other, but we flirted with each other's eyes, he kept turning to me during lectures, and when we passed we touched our hands. I decided that I should meet her, so I did, but when she heard my name immediately and her eyes changed, I asked for a phone number and number, but she refused. She hasn't looked at me since day one, and I pretend she doesn't see me, but I'm sure she has feelings for me too. You Bulgarians, why don't you hate people so much, I personally have a lot of fun with Bulgarians, even with some of you I get along better than my relatives. For some things you are right, some of the Turks are very evil, when they get married they look at the woman as a cleaning robot and a babysitter, but this is also the case among the Bulgarians. I respect any religion. That you were in slavery, what does it matter now, that was in the past, look at the present, as long as you paid attention to the stereotypes, the Turks were like that. Look at England and France, you've heard of a 100-year war between them. But they have turned their backs on the past and are looking at the present, as evidenced by the political assistance they provide. It's the same with England and the United States, before the Americans were slaves, but now ... hand in hand with the Americans. That in one family to consist of Turks and Bulgarians, in my opinion, is only a plus, because the more cultures there are in one family, the better. Tired of this division, you have no idea with what emotion I am writing all this. when they get married, they look at the woman as a cleaning robot and a babysitter, but this is also the case among Bulgarians. I respect any religion. That you were in slavery, what does it matter now, that was in the past, look at the present, as long as you paid attention to the stereotypes, the Turks were like that. Look at England and France, you've heard of a 100-year war between them. But they have turned their backs on the past and are looking at the present, as evidenced by the political assistance they provide. It's the same with England and the United States, before the Americans were slaves, but now ... hand in hand with the Americans. That in one family to consist of Turks and Bulgarians, in my opinion, is only a plus, because the more cultures there are in one family, the better. Tired of this division, you have no idea with what emotion I am writing all this. when they get married, they look at the woman as a cleaning robot and a babysitter, but this is also the case among Bulgarians. I respect any religion. That you were in slavery, what does it matter now, that was in the past, look at the present, as long as you paid attention to the stereotypes, the Turks were like that. Look at England and France, you've heard of a 100-year war between them. But they have turned their backs on the past and are looking at the present, as evidenced by the political assistance they provide. It's the same with England and the United States, before the Americans were slaves, but now ... hand in hand with the Americans. That in one family to consist of Turks and Bulgarians, in my opinion, is only a plus, because the more cultures there are in one family, the better. Tired of this division, you have no idea with what emotion I am writing all this.

   And I have a similar problem only that I am 18 and I am Bulgarian and he is 30 and he is Turkish ... I just don't know what to do, and the thing is that I fall in love ... :(

   Number 40, you England and France don't look at them. We are in the Balkans and we have a different mentality. Let me tell you, I also had an affair with a Turk, and I still remember her father's words (passed on to me by her) - go with whomever you want, but in the end I want you to bring me a Turk. So, don't ask the question one-sidedly. I also have a lot of Turkish friends who are more people than many Bulgarians. I have nothing against such Turks. I will also quote the words of a Turkish woman to a Bulgarian woman (again my friends) - NEVER take a Turk as a man, you will be very sorry. The reason why society does not accept such mixed marriages is not only 500 years of slavery - different religions, cultures. And the names, have you thought, if you take a Bulgarian woman, what will your children be called? Of course, your family will want Turkish names, and her Bulgarian. This is a brother - many differences. But

   My dear, I am writing a book about a love similar to yours, it is a real case. And it is thanks to this book that I empathize with your pain. My heroine is also Bulgarian and is in love with a Turk but does not find the strength to fight with her family. She leaves and marries another. But he does not forget his love. After 10 years, she returns to him, leaving everything even to her children. Well, don't be afraid to follow your love, if you have the opportunity, even go somewhere with this person. But don't leave him because you will hardly be able to forgive him. I believe that you are a strong woman and you will succeed. The most important thing is to be together so you can handle everything.

   Is this story true in a real case ????? after 10 years ????? really?

   The whole story is true, even the woman is my friend

   I am in such a situation too. I have been with my friend for 2 months, he is a Turk, we love each other very much and I can't imagine what it would be like to be separated. A few hours ago he told me that his mother insisted on returning to his ex-girlfriend, who is Turkish (and they are friendly families). I cried a lot and finally he told me "our people will never accept you just because you are Bulgarian, but I love you. and I won't listen to them "I want him to get along with his parents, but I love him very much; (I don't know what to do ... His mother doesn't know me, he only knows that I'm Bulgarian and even if he sees us talking on the phone He is 20 years old, but still she is his mother ... It is very difficult for me, it is so early and it is so complicated, I can't think what will be in the future ...

   Hello, I have been married to a Turk for 2 years and we have been living together for 4 years. There is nothing better than knowing that you live with the person you have chosen. We are expecting a baby and for now we have no problems imagining that we live with his parents. Everything we do together helps me for absolutely everything no matter what the job. And as for the fact that their wives were servants, it is a great stupidity (xaxaxa) whether the Bulgarians (men) cook their own feathers or clean themselves just by hearing a Turk and shouting at him and he just lies and turns his rosary so it is For 50 years the current young people are not like that, there are Bulgarians who do not let their wives go anywhere. My advice is to be with the person who makes you smile every day with whom you feel good and most of all loved and whether you will hit the person is not certain with the Bulgarians.

   And why, after parting with a Turk, for these reasons that are not accepted by society (religion and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah tell me - why did you fuck my life? why do you still want to fuck him while continuing to look for me (I'm still suffering - it's been 8 months) and I've already been beaten obviously .. He made no effort to take matters into his own hands and come to Bulgaria even for 1 day, and he seemed to love me very much .. I would have been his future wife..drun drool and dance .. I was very tormented .. and after a lot of thinking I decided to fuck everything here and tell him that I will go to Turkey..and what happened. .we'll forget .. after 7 months of contacting him in another way-- why do I keep fucking his life .. and so // END why did he hate me the moment I was ready?

   I want to tell you ... BE STRONG .. at the moment, I don't know how things are, but the time will come and you will have to make a decision .. Darling, you will hear a lot of reproaches, a lot of disapproval .. but is it a sin to be with a person you love and who makes you feel good ... Time will not heal this wound, on the contrary it will give you more hope, but it will hurt you the most when you realize that you will not see it again, you will not you touch him, you won't kiss him ... One morning you will just wake up and he will be gone .... this will be the biggest pain you will experience ... I wish you success ... I don't want you to be disappointed ..I tell you from personal experience, believe in yourself and you will succeed. Good luck GIRL ... I wish you a lot of happiness, I hope everything is ok :)

   Now the statistics have become clear to me: one Bulgarian child has two Turks and four gypsies ... a bunch of future Bulgarian mothers here want to give birth to Turks ... Did the sons of Bulgaria end up that much? Mother Bulgaria, complain to us that you will remain childless ... And from Bulgaria you will become Mangalia or a province of Turkey, if not both ...