Hello! I saw that there are other topics about sexual orientation, but I did not find what I was interested in. Straight to my problem. I am an 18 year old boy and I am confused about my sexual orientation. I can't tell if I'm straight or bisexual, I'm not gay, I'm 100% sure. I have had these hesitations for a long time, but I have not paid attention to them. I am emotionally and sexually attracted to girls and here comes a BUT I am also sexually attracted to boys. I only want to have sex with boys, they don't attract me emotionally, nor do I want to have a relationship with them, I just want to fuck them or they fuck me. I also like to push, kiss and hug a lot with the girls, this with the boys makes me reciprocate. Well, that's my problem, but I don't want to have any attraction to the same sex, somehow it's not normal (it's against the laws of nature), therefore there are men and women. I forgot to mention that I am a virgin, I want to lose my virginity with the right girl. I would be happy to hear your views on my problem and whether there are others with this problem. I think maybe my hormones are rampant and that's why, but the truth is I don't know. If it turns out I'm bisexual, I'll abstain from it for intimacy with boys and so on. Also, if you are fighting in your chest that you are against gays, please do not comment, I am also against LGBT activists. LGBT activists do not protect people of different sexual orientations, but promote and encourage people to be gay and lesbian.
I am waiting for your opinions. I think maybe my hormones are rampant and that's why, but the truth is I don't know. If it turns out I'm bisexual, I'll abstain from it for intimacy with boys and so on. Also, if you are fighting in your chest that you are against gays, please do not comment, I am also against LGBT activists. LGBT activists do not protect people of different sexual orientations, but promote and encourage people to be gay and lesbian. I am waiting for your opinions. I think maybe my hormones are rampant and that's why, but the truth is I don't know. If it turns out I'm bisexual, I'll abstain from it for intimacy with boys and so on. Also, if you are fighting in your chest that you are against gays, please do not comment, I am also against LGBT activists. LGBT activists do not protect people of different sexual orientations, but promote and encourage people to be gay and lesbian. I am waiting for your opinions.
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Hi boy, I have a similar problem! Usually when a boy does not have a boyfriend around him, such thoughts come to him. I can advise you to try not to become gay. Can't you get a girl to let you go ?! You're very young, if you can't have sex on a dick right now. The advice I can give you is: talk to a parent, brother, sister, someone close to this issue or seek professional help from a psychiatrist or psychologist! I would ask you if you watch porn and if so what category is your favorite gay or someone else. If you watch and prefer gay porn, you are more likely to become gay. I personally visit the site for sex incidents, there are gay incidents, but I don't know if they would help or confuse you if you read them. On the other hand, I'm currently without a girlfriend and I want to try a man to some extent. I'm not exactly gay either, but since there is no girl around me, I want to try a boy like you. Seriously, would you be willing to do it with me? I will be curious to see the churk of another boy, for example, as well as you mine! But I'm a little older than you, I'm not exactly your age, and I'm not sure I'd try someone older than you? And I would try with someone your age! In the end, I want to tell you without confusing you, if you want so much, try with a boy for the thrill and pleasure once or twice to find out if you are gay or bisexual, but even if you try, please don't become gay, be normal boy and look for girls! After all, I don't want you to be another gay man! This is my advice! I hope I am useful to you and I hope I helped you because we are in similar situations. If you like my comment or not, hit a comment too! I hope you make the right decision for yourself and solve your problem! Good luck and bye! From another confused boy!
What is the acronym LGBT activist that I do not understand thank you?
And I'm a woman and I only like men. You are a very confused person. I just wonder why so many people like chili have no other job and just wonder if they are gay or lesbian.
Nachi, you have nothing to think about - at least you would. If you feel any, no matter how small, sexual attraction to the same sex - then you have such a tendency. However, I didn't understand, do you want to fuck the girls? There's the key to the shed. If you want to fuck the girls, you'll be fine. If you just want to push them like a little more intimate friend, but you don't want to put it on them. is a "problem" (in quotes because it depends on the point of view). Otherwise, LGBT activists can't encourage people to be gay and lesbian because, as I guess you found out, we humans have no conscious control over it.
I have similar fluctuations. Except I'm a girl. I feel emotionally attracted to women, and sexually I am mostly attracted to men. I will follow the topic with interest. 21-year-old girl
Stop watching porn
2, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transsexual. Those who are queergender / non binary put a "Q" at the end. Black Sabbath
№4 I haven't been with a girl before because I haven't found the right one and most of my relationships haven't lasted very long. And the fact that I look at boys as sexual objects, I don't want it to be like that at all, and I'm trying to get rid of it, but so far without success. from the author
Virgin, you want to fuck or be fucked by a boy ... You have no idea what this is first, so get some experience first with girls, and then the answer will come by itself without writing nonsense here.
Well, author, try to eradicate this tendency from yourself, because this is the most common disease, only of the soul! No matter how many people give me a star on the comment, that's the truth, I absolutely agree with comment number 2. Now it's just fashionable to be a fagot, a lesbian, a transsexual, a space transvestite woman, etc. and all this propaganda comes from your great America, where most garbage lives. The purpose of these societies, on the contrary, is to corrupt people and destroy family values. No smart person succumbs to their manipulations. People who develop homosexuality or attraction to both sexes have usually had childhood problems or lived with only one parent (they are not aware of the roles of man and woman), very few are reversed, the rest become, because it is so modern or for economic reasons. A common feature of almost everyone is that they are hellishly obsessive and vindictive. I would advise you to convert to the Christian faith. Attracting to the same sex is a sin. Not to mention that it is inherited. F19
from 4 to the author 8: As I said, the question is do you look at girls as sexual objects?
Man was created for woman, and woman was created for man. Please stop watching movies, please.
From the author to №4 I only look at boys as sexual objects, otherwise I want to spend my life with a girl.
One is sexual orientation, another is sex. There is no bisexual orientation, there is bisexual sex. Gay / lesbian is a person who lives, loves, dreams of a partner of the same sex. If you are bisexually oriented, sooner or later you will understand it, because this thing is developing.
Um ... 14, the author wrote that he is attracted emotionally and SEXUALLY by girls. I'm sorry about the capital letters, but I can't emphasize it in any other way. Author, and I think your hormones are just raging. Things will probably get better if you are with a girl for a while. And sorry for the question, but what kind of guys are you attracted to? More feminine, more masculine? Black Sabbath
What you are is nature and you will not be able to eradicate it. At least I couldn't. I am 50 and a few years old. Although I, like you, wanted to try men, I never tried it. I found a girl, when we started having sex with her regularly, the idea of boys evaporated. The kids showed up, etc. and I thought I got rid of it. Over time, sex with my wife began to become less frequent, and then the desires in question returned. Masturbation helps to some extent. Try to accept it and find a girl - between 13-18% of men in different countries are determined to be bisexual to one degree or another, not just you. Find a girl ...
To comrade 10. Comrade, don't scatter nonsense, type "Russian gays" on Google and see what comes from Putin's country!
Bisexuality is as natural as the sunrise. Diversity is a wonderful thing. Moreover - so you have a much larger choice of partner - de facto all men, not just half, that is, women. Enjoy and be proud of your bisexuality - it is very modern and chic. Great personalities would be - e.g. Al. Macedonian. And if you love do not insult the gay community. Try both sexes and see which one you like best. But do not close your doors and do not suppress your inclinations because of human prejudices. Fall in love with PEOPLE, with souls, not with the genitals!
To what 27 said, I want to add that love should not be limited to people of the right age. One can fall in love with a small child or an animal and this is as natural as sunrise and sunset! (I'm sarcastic, I hope 27 too)
Try a man, if you are disgusted with kisses, you may not succeed, as some people throw the cigarette the first time.
I'm 27 and I'm not sarcastic, I don't see anything wrong with sexual diversity if you have certain tendencies, of course, except for the deviations and crimes you listed. Distinguish between an act of mutual consent and violence.
I have had detailed torments thousands of times because of the complexes that porn has filled me with, that every man there has a thick and big penis, and I thought I had a small one and I can't satisfy a woman. From an early age I started to like other people's penises in photos and videos and I got aroused by them and sometimes imagined that I was the woman. Not to mention that my first time with a woman was horrible (except for the whistles) because she was fat and a companion, not with the girl I was in love with. I've changed thousands of times in front of men in training, in front of friends and a man has never aroused me, but when it came to sex I always thought more of men than the real excitement when I saw a girl, as if I melted and had no problems and complexes until it came to sex, of course, where I thought she'd like it, instead of having fun. Unsuccessful months when I caught my boyfriend when he was 23 years old. Then I had my first readable sex, before that I had tried a blowjob with a man, I was wearing thongs and so on, and now, when I have been without a girlfriend for a long time and without sex with a girl it can happen to me, I accepted it. Is it bisexuality or what? I didn't fuck from behind, I swallowed slingshots 4 times. Nothing compares to the thrill I feel for women, but the complexes have brought some of this bisexuality anxiety, too, the lack of women. About a month ago I was firmly focused on men, now, now I have contact with 4 women, with whom what is happening and what will happen we will see, but in general I am hellishly sexual and I have no problem, but I have not reached the real sex. He really only got along with my ex-girlfriend with whom I had a long relationship .... Dudes, watch your life, but generally relax and be yourself. I realized and felt that a man can't arouse me like a woman, he can't attract me emotionally and it's not mine in general, but I realized that I can try some things with men without my sexuality being completely there. , the desire for women is even stronger. Strange, but a fact
I have had detailed torments thousands of times because of the complexes that porn has filled me with, that every man there has a thick and big penis, and I thought I had a small one and I can't satisfy a woman. From an early age I started to like other people's penises in photos and videos and I got aroused by them and sometimes imagined that I was the woman. Not to mention that my first time with a woman was horrible (except for the whistles) because she was fat and a companion, not with the girl I was in love with. I've changed thousands of times in front of men in training, in front of friends and a man has never aroused me, but when it came to sex I always thought more of men than the real excitement when I saw a girl, as if I melted and had no problems and complexes until it came to sex, of course, where I thought she'd like it, instead of having fun. Unsuccessful months when I caught my boyfriend when he was 23 years old. Then I had my first readable sex, before that I had tried a blowjob with a man, I was wearing thongs and so on, and now, when I have been without a girlfriend for a long time and without sex with a girl it can happen to me, I accepted it. Is it bisexuality or what? I didn't fuck from behind, I swallowed slingshots 4 times. Nothing compares to the thrill I feel for women, but the complexes have brought some of this bisexuality anxiety, too, the lack of women. About a month ago I was firmly focused on men, now, now I have contact with 4 women, with whom what is happening and what will happen we will see, but in general I am hellishly sexual and I have no problem, but I have not reached the real sex. He really only got along with my ex-girlfriend with whom I had a long relationship .... Dudes, watch your life, but generally relax and be yourself. I realized and felt that a man can't arouse me like a woman, he can't attract me emotionally and it's not mine in general, but I realized that I can try some things with men without my sexuality being completely there. , the desire for women is even stronger. Strange, but a fact