Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years, we have had problems, we have overcome them, etc. Our relationship is good now, but I'm too jealous of him. When he looks down the street, I get annoyed and I think he looks at someone and thinks what he can do with it, for example, if an acquaintance on the street talks to him and I go crazy and get annoyed, on TV, if they give any women more challenging and I also give him a problem that he almost thinks about having sex with her. Sometimes I think and say to myself, he thinks of other women, that he wants to be with them, that he wants to diversify. When I meet an acquaintance on the street and he asks who she is, I start calling him and getting annoyed again and again. I am constantly jealous of him, I even get to a nervous roar, but not always. I don't want to be so jealous, my jealousy is quite unfounded. Help me shake off this thing, I don't know how !!! :(
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Maybe he does it on purpose to irritate you. This gives him pleasure and raises his male ego. I have experienced something similar, but I stopped paying attention to him and he gradually weakened his attention to other women. Start looking at other men - the game will turn in your favor.
If he didn't want to be with you, he wouldn't be. 4 years is a long time for such jealousy. Believe in yourself first, then seek faith in him as well.
Jealousy is a disease state and it is unlikely to pass. You feel your property is violated. My wife was not like that, but lately something is wrong. I am also jealous of the Internet
He is jealous of the one who wants to be loved. If you feel loved, you have nothing to be jealous of. It's all just flirting, flirt too.
Same here. I am constantly jealous of my friend, with whom we have been together for almost 4 years. It wasn't like that at first - I trusted him. But once I realized that he had cheated on me, despite his assurances that he only loved me, nothing was the same. I constantly doubt, get annoyed, staring at someone on the street. Why do these men think we don't see them ?! They just turn around, how do you think this goes unnoticed ??? I get annoyed when I talk to my colleagues, when I make "supposedly innocent" jokes, when I write to myself on Skype, in general .... I think I will never be able to trust him again .... Doubts kill everything good that has been. ....
Same here. I have a boyfriend of 16 and I'm 12, and I'm constantly checking what he writes to the other girls. For example, you are unique and (inloves) a lot of girls write like that and I'm very worried that there is no other or I'm just tired of him but I don't believe because we've been together for a week and he says he only loves me I don't know what to do if I tell him I will we quarrel