Hello, I want to share what weighs on me. Only my brother and mother are left in this world, I have no other relatives. I am 23 years old and I have been looking for a job for 2 years. Mom takes BGN 300 and my brother takes BGN 400. We have loans to banks and accounts, which are huge - I know we are not the only ones, but somehow I am not doing well. There is almost nothing left of their salaries and I feel very bad that I can't help. I try to do everything I can at home, but it's not enough - I need money. I send St. I go to the ads and still pay nothing or not. I'm not doing well. I tried to study - I read a lot at home with a friend. Wherever I try to go - all the doors are closed, I can not go abroad - it is not possible to go to another country without someone to help you. How to handle I'm constantly sad, at 23 I can't vomit from life ... what's the point ... how much more to wait and look for .... ??? Is the reason in me .... I'm starting to despair of myself ... all my sets have settled have cars working ... and nothing happens to me ....
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You are a classic case of self-hatred. Probably all day long you (are) repeating how useless you are, etc. - read the scriptures, only negative things, just why things do NOT happen. You never obviously say to yourself - I can, I will succeed, I will do this and that, always - this will not happen, because ... Read Louise Hay's book "Heal Your Life" here http://www.scribd.com/doc / 19371954 / Louise-Hey-Cure-Your-Life-This will help you a lot, believe me!
Darling ... I'm a 23-year-old man and I'm in a similar situation. I earn 1000-1500 BGN per month, but I support 5 people and we pay for heating and my life is ruined by work, nervous stress and no time and money for pleasures. Indeed, self-help books, which are important in the West, help a lot - and the right ones will help you. If you want I can give you a list - after reading them twice my income is doubled to the current amount (I deal with small businesses, I started from scratch) And you need a man to support you .... If you're nice it's easy, as long as you overcome depression.
Honey ... Number 1 - don't you think that reading a book and the girl will get along ??? Chick, make some change with yourself, smile more often, set aside money to change something in your appearance ... finding a job is not very easy, people evaluate you by your appearance. Not that this is the basis of everything, don't get me wrong, but if you have neglected yourself and given up on life - people see it and do not want such people. Try to be at least a little optimistic ... post job ads, you will still be approved. Run abroad ... they don't give you money here ... go and ask what you have to do to go to work abroad. Seriously, here with 1 salary, you can't pay for electricity ...
Why should someone help you? My acquaintance left alone, with strangers on a brigade in Germany to pick strawberries. According to some program from the labor office. I stayed there for 3 months and came back with BGN 5,000 clean. With them he changed the windows of the house and made repairs. Don't think that anyone has to help you. I was also out of work for 1 year, and I have a university degree, an excellent diploma. But I knew that if you didn't help, there would be no one to do it. You call, go to interviews, send SVs, etc. And what does "Don't pay" mean? Do you only find out from interviews? Apparently he didn't put his knife to your bone, so you refuse a job on the pretext that you heard that they don't pay there. It's hard, but no one said it had to be easy. Looking for a job - cleaning entrances, household help, etc. Save yourself. There is no one to come and give you anything. I live on BGN 500 a month, and I pay for accommodation and I still manage somehow. Head up and take yourself in hand.
And I was out of work for more than a year, and I live on rent, I don't want a man to support me, but I was afraid that I would find myself sooner or later, and that's what happened, it was really hard for me. np I did not stop believing, life is an endless struggle, fight for what you want, not everything happens as we want it, but still fight and do not stop believing.