Hello everyone, I am 14 years old. I am a boy. I am so desperate and unhappy. My mother and father are divorced. I find this very difficult to accept. I even cry and sometimes I do. I'm not ashamed to say. I have no siblings (only a half-sister who is small and we do not live together). It's very difficult for me because I can't find friends all my life. They insult me everywhere, they make fun of me (I was gay, I was a bison, but that's another topic). The only area where fortunately I have no problems is teaching. I have nothing to do, I hang on to stupid lessons all day. The only person I'm friends with is my cousin.
However, she has friends and can't go out with me every day. Animals and plants are my only friends. (I know you will find it funny, but please insult me.) I am also shy, weak, tall, gentle, and ugly, so you remember the issue with boyfriends that there never was one. Come on, as long as I've been busy and wasting my time with my congested stories. I am only asking for advice because only here is the place where I can find help. Thanks in advance and thanks to the moderators if they decide to post this
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I'm the same age, but I'm a girl and I don't have your problems ... (and the exception is that ours are divorced). So I want to give you advice - if you study so much, then you are not a traffic jam, on the contrary - you can be talked to on various topics, you are probably much smarter than our limited peers. Ugly, ugly no matter how ugly you are, everyone has their own charm, and boys don't need much beauty. Besides studying, you can start training something. (I dance and sometimes do home fitness; e) You will both gain weight and shape your body, you will gain self-confidence, and it is unloading - you do not think about problems. Build character, don't give others the opportunity to decide for you, to crush you ... Be conscious and don't let them make fun of you. Girls like fun guys relaxed. Respond to insults with a chat. ; e Try to find someone similar to yourself, make friends, do not show yourself as an outsider in the class. Be real and good and there is no way someone will not like you. Now all the girls are complaining that all the boys are bloody, etc .. You be something different. Although your clothes are not branded, make sure you dress well, do not walk like a pair of pants. Maintain good hygiene and don't be too sensitive. This is a trait of women. I know it's hard for you with divorce and other changes, it's still hard for me. Now the second term I will move to another city with my mother, my father doesn't want to look at me anymore ... but a long and wide one and I don't like pink. :) I wish you success and I hope I helped you. If you are interested in anything else, ask, I will follow the story. :) Be real and good and there is no way someone will not like you. Now all the girls are complaining that all the boys are bloody, etc .. You be something different. Although your clothes are not branded, make sure you dress well, do not walk like a pair of pants. Maintain good hygiene and don't be too sensitive. This is a trait of women. I know it's hard for you with divorce and other changes, it's still hard for me.
Now the second term I will move to another city with my mother, my father doesn't want to look at me anymore ... but a long and wide one and I don't like pink. :) I wish you success and I hope I helped you. If you are interested in anything else, ask, I will follow the story. :) Be real and good and there is no way someone will not like you. Now all the girls are complaining that all the boys are bloody, etc .. You be something different. Although your clothes are not branded, make sure you dress well, do not walk like a pair of pants. Maintain good hygiene and don't be too sensitive. This is a trait of women.
I know it's hard for you with divorce and other changes, it's still hard for me. Now the second term I will move to another city with my mother, my father doesn't want to look at me anymore ... but a long and wide one and I don't like pink. :) I wish you success and I hope I helped you. If you are interested in anything else, ask, I will follow the story. :) not to walk like an extinguisher. Maintain good hygiene and don't be too sensitive. This is a trait of women. I know it's hard for you with divorce and other changes, it's still hard for me. Now the second term I will move to another city with my mother, my father doesn't want to look at me anymore ... but a long and wide one and I don't like pink. :) I wish you success and I hope I helped you. If you are interested in anything else, ask, I will follow the story. :) not to walk like an extinguisher. Maintain good hygiene and don't be too sensitive. This is a trait of women. I know it's hard for you with divorce and other changes, it's still hard for me. Now the second term I will move to another city with my mother, my father doesn't want to look at me anymore ... but a long and wide one and I don't like pink. :) I wish you success and I hope I helped you. If you are interested in anything else, ask, I will follow the story. :)
search the internet for clubs and activities in your city and sign up for something you like. So at least there will be a place to meet people and leave the house.
Why don't you tell your cousin to take you with her company?
I am also 14, I am a girl, if she wants we can be friends, although online just leave coordinates :) I hope the moderators will book the comments with the coordinates despite qi in the rules of the site it is clearly stated that this is forbidden :) Moderator: You alone you said it with the last sentence. This site is not for dating, but to share your worries and joys anonymously.
Say a site where we can share our concerns openly and seek help from strangers?
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Up to number 4: we can't exchange coordinates here. If I remember to find ourselves in any way, I will write
Author to number 1: I know that being sensitive is not very masculine, but I'm not used to being rude to Whigs, I try to be polite and kind. :(
You can ask who is from which city and where you would meet. For example, if you are from Sofia, I can ask you if you can come to the National Palace of Culture on Saturday at 5 o'clock in the afternoon, etc. "The Gray Fox"
I am a 15 year old girl and I had almost the same problems. My parents broke up at the most inappropriate age for me, but anyway. My advice to you is not to stop believing in yourself, guys like you are rare. As long as you are very polite and kind, don't change that quality. This is from me, I hope I helped you! :) good luck going forward
Yahoo answers, but if you speak English.
I am the author and I am from Plovdiv, in the meantime I thank everyone who helps me, and if anyone has more ideas to write I will follow
From number one ..; n I don't mean rude .. I don't like rude people, or any other girl .. I don't find sense in being rude. I wanted to say, do not show your sensitivity to others, because they always use it to your detriment .. I was even surprised when he said "I'm used to being polite and kind .." .. it just filled my heart .. :))