Hello 34-year-old woman, I have two daughters and one son, the eldest daughter is 16 years old, the youngest is 7, and my son is 1 year old. So my problem is ... that I'm pregnant by my daughter's boyfriend. He is 22 years old, very handsome, but why should he be exactly my daughter. Only he and I know I'm pregnant. He makes me tell my husband and children, but I'm not ready. He threatened me that if I didn't tell them in a few days, he would tell them I was going crazy! I love him I love him more than anything, but I can't take such a step My daughter will hate me and my husband will kill him. At first it was all a joke and he even told me, but then he fell in love with me and I fell head over heels. It used to be just pushing kissing sex, and now it's about a baby. Please give me advice on what to do.
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When did you have time to have sex with your daughter's boyfriend? Aren't you ashamed of yourself, of your husband, of your children? And she went to raise children - not in vain they said that children do not choose their parents. Well, I didn't understand that "everything was a joke at first - just kisses and sex" ... Ehooo infidelity is just that, sex and that, and on top of everything you ask what to do. I will tell you - if you still respect yourself, take it and explode, so that your husband and your children do not do it alone.
Number one, that's rude! I advise the author to reveal the truth to her husband and children before the lover does this nonsense. Still, they better hear the truth from you. In addition, if there are no serious intentions (possibly marriage to the lover), it is better to have an abortion. It is reprehensible to take your child's boyfriend. It is a betrayal, but people make mistakes and those who allow themselves to attack here have no right, because they could make mistakes. If you love your daughter, protect her from someone who would cheat on her in the future. Tell her the truth about him and you. Be brave and ready to endure much pain and sacrifice in the name of truth and perhaps lose that love. Thumbs up everything in your life to be fine, darling! Just don't do nonsense like suicide. Nobody needs it.
To number 1 - The woman asks for advice because it is difficult for her. He doesn't judge her so much ... it's true that she made a HUGE mistake, but should I even shoot myself? Aren't you overdoing it?
Wow, what a mother to get pregnant from your daughter's friend who, on top of everything, is younger than you. If my mother did such a thing, I would NEVER look at her again. Your daughter will do the same (upstairs is my age, I'm 19). You don't deserve your husband or your children. Think about what you will do to them with your child.
I came across this site by chance and this story by chance. I'm shocked!!! I am also 34 years old. and my brain can't perceive what happened and I think something is wrong me! But that doesn't matter. I think that whatever decision you make, you will have a painful period in your life, and you must be very strong to overcome it! In my opinion, you should not waste time and reveal the truth to your loved ones, no matter what it costs you! From then on, it depends not only on you, but on everyone else. May reason prevail over everything else. I am not a Lord to judge people, but everyone must think about the consequences before taking a step. I have a son and he is the reason to move forward, to develop, to love, to raise him properly. Children must not be hurt by us! I wish you luck!!
I have a different opinion from the others. You better not say anything to your loved ones. You will lose them forever. You better tell the 22-year-old that you have no future - which, no matter how hard you try, is. 1. Imagine how his parents would react. 2. In a year he will find someone younger. 3. How he will support you to look after you and the baby. 4 How will you live without your children. If he understands the above reasons and if he really loves you at least a little, he will not tell anyone anything. And other times, use condoms and don't make the mistake of telling someone you're pregnant if you don't keep their child.
Did you finally think about abortion !!! Come on ... I'm squeezing my thumbs. But it is not true how with 873429 children you can afford a lover ... God forbid!
Fake history. She gave birth at the age of 18, started an adventure with a baby in her arms / when did she find the time / ...
You will lose your daughter and your husband - forever. Even if your husband forgives your infidelity, he will hardly forgive the fact that he is with your daughter's boyfriend and separately - the pain you caused her. And your daughter? How do you think it will feel? In addition to being injured, he may start asking himself - what's wrong with me? What makes my mother prettier and better than me, etc. You better not tell them. For the child - as you decide - either abort or give birth to him (I guess you are still sleeping with your husband ...) it will not be fair to him - to lie to him that he is from him .. but if you decide to give birth to him and still to you explain that he is from a lover .. think about that very well. And for the lover - I agree with number 6. - he is 22, he will get tired of the roaring baby and the "old lacquered" (do not touch, please) mistress and will catch a boyfriend his age. He better leave your life. Good luck.
Have an abortion faster and don't say anything to anyone, dump this young man, deny anything he says. Do your best to break up with your daughter.
Numbers 2 and 3 you obviously support the "poor" woman and it is completely normal for you for the MOTHER to cheat on her daughter's boyfriend. What if she hadn't gotten pregnant, she would continue this relationship, and if one day they were crushed, then what? "Maybe it'll be easier for the wounded then." This woman has no morals and does not deserve to have a family, because the behavior of a failed woman. And in the smallest case there are condoms, they are used against contraception and infections.
Listen to number 6. You go tomorrow and have an abortion. If you don't have money, borrow it. Don't procrastinate. Shut yourself in for a few days until you recover. You will not explain yourself to anyone. YOU pretend to be a dead fox. This squirrel at the age of 22 has such a fight, let it cloud your head so much. And don't make these oriental mistakes anymore, that I am very, very much against your gypsy behavior. Shame on you. If you don't do what I tell you, you will kill yourself. GS1
I absolutely agree with № 6 This gentleman still has no idea what life really is, today you have a thrill, and even love, tomorrow as jealous of this child, will be different. Everything is very rosy for him, but you who are a mother of older children, another one a little 1 year old, I do not understand why you did not take measures to avoid pregnancy, there are pills, IUDs, condoms, we live in 21st century, not the 17th century. With what intelligence did you allow this to happen, ok you like, you made a mistake / towards your daughter this is monstrous, you can break her life and faith for life /. And have sex as soon as you do, but take action people. At least you are not 22 years old, you should be a smart woman, and not behave like a peber ..
You deserve to come back and it hurts to realize what it means. Moreover, you become a disgrace to your children, you are not a person, one day you will be very sorry.
This is a fabrication.
It really sounds unreal ...
I think that the story is a complete fabrication, and if it is true, I fully support № 1.
There can't be such a stupid woman :))) I don't believe it ...
I read the story, I read the comments. Whether it is fictional or real - there are such cases in our lives. If this is not true, at least we will give advice to people who do not dare to write about their such story. Don't judge the woman! She herself realizes the mistake she has made. This will weigh on her for life. Whatever he does. My opinion is: FOR GOD'S SILENCE. Have an abortion and forget. Otherwise - to say or choose your lover will still be your losing side. You will lose everything you have created for so many years. Your life will collapse. Take stock of what happened. Weigh the scales and make the right decision. And on that "sofa" where he is 22, cut his receipts. When you have an abortion, go and tell me he had something to do with you. You can tell your daughter that he's pretending to be flirting with you and things like that, to convince her it's not for her, because he's really not for her. Then tell your husband the same. And let the kid go and tell what he wants. YES, YOU WILL LIE, BUT YOU WILL NOT FEEL BETTER. BUT AT LEAST YOU WILL NOT HARM YOUR PEOPLE LOVED. And !!! Remember: INNOCENT TO PROVE THE EXPRESS !!! I wish you success.
Everything is a fabrication. Sounds like a Latino series to me, complete nonsense. I had an abortion and that's it. What you went to beat a drum, as if you did something to brag. These things are not said left and right, solve the question yourself, see how many people gave you advice.
You have only one way out - abortion !!!!!!!!!
SHUT UP AND HAVE AN ABORTION.
№1 you are simple! You're 100% a 20-year-old kid who thinks that everything a kite eats. I sincerely wish you to start a family and your wife to turn 34. Why? there are books about it. but you're so dumb you think you're smart enough. on the topic: honey, I'm 35 and I know what's wrong with you because I'm in almost the same situation. but not with my daughter's boyfriend. I'm not pregnant and I can't give you anything but moral support. be strong ip think. I am sure you will make the right decision!
How do you protect her in the first place? Don't you have mothers? Can you imagine your mother sleeping with your boyfriend ?? How will you feel, huh ??? What is this nonsense ?? It does sound like soap, but nothing prevents it from being true. If my mother does such a thing, it is very clear that I will never forgive her. Come on, my boyfriend may be rubbish (like the one in this case), but MY OWN MOTHER - it's TOO! And be pregnant on top of everything! What feelings, what jokes and games ?! This is vile and disgusting! Neither your children nor your husband deserve this! I would have an abortion in your place, I would pack my bags and I would be gone! How dare you look your family in the eye Have you thought about that? And before you judge me and spit on my opinion, think again whether what the author did is normal.
You know, I am not God to judge you, but I will allow myself, because what you have written, if it is true, I am shocked. My mother would never do that, my boyfriend is like a son to her. She would never cheat on my father either. Now, as I read your story, I thank God directly that I have such a family by my side and such a friend. Aren't you afraid? Of course, your daughter won't forgive you ... You're going to drive her crazy, you know? This will traumatize her for life - her boyfriend (who may love) has cheated on her, on top of that she is pregnant. Your daughter will immediately say who this bottom bitch is ... and WHO she will be - her own "MOTHER". The man who gave her life. The poor girl, what a betrayal, what a disappointment, a real trauma. Even the family will be broken. You know, no one should feel sorry for you. You are 34 years old and you are hardly an irresponsible teenager who made the mistake of advising you, we can only blame you. This is a great sin, I hope you will understand soon ... I really want to order you, but I will refrain, I still try to keep some control. But you're really mean, you know. Everyone is wrong, but it's awful. I'm just keeping my fingers crossed for your daughter and husband, I hope they get better. You ... shake your head, you deserve it, and you can come to your senses, you know;)))) Good luck anyway;))) I'm just keeping my fingers crossed for your daughter and husband, I hope they get better. You ... slap your head, you deserve it, and you can come to your senses, you know;)))) Good luck anyway;))) I'm just keeping my fingers crossed for your daughter and husband, I hope they get better. You ... slap your head, you deserve it, and you can come to your senses, you know;)))) Good luck anyway;)))
I DON'T AGREE WITH NUMBER 1, maybe because I'm not a saint either, I have a relationship with a married man, which I don't regret. Don't judge the woman who fell in love with her daughters' boyfriend, that's right, but we all have feelings, dear, you can't help but tell them, but unfortunately it will be quite difficult for you. good luck love yourself!
Mother, but you have seriously messed up .. you have no right to cause it to your family .. have an abortion and forget it because in this way you hurt everyone!
If the story is not a fabrication, tell the young man that you have gone astray and are not pregnant.
I support №34 tell the young man that everything is fine, that you came to keep quiet. And you go have an abortion. Then get him out of your family so I don't set foot in your house again. He is not the man for your daughter, and it will be better for you not to see him again.
Have an abortion urgently and don't explain anything to him. Tell him that you were joking ... and in front of your relatives deny everything he said ... in case he knocks you out. Otherwise you will lose your loved ones. Play it now.
To number 36 this topic is: 2 years, 5 months ago, And an elephant to wear it gave birth. : D: D: D watch a little before commenting.
Number 37, and what of it, she just wanted to help ... There must be a lot of women in this condition ...
number one right of all ..
And yet what happened? Sorry for the late reply, but in 2009 I didn't have a computer yet.
the child is already a girl / hero for marriage, there is nothing to comment on no, now seriously, this topic is a complete fabrication !!!
I look at Oleya and I can't believe my ears! I am not surprised by the story but by those who defend and understand the author. So if a person cheats as it is his turn with a normal lover and does not lead to having children and various complications, no one understands, it does not lead to divorce, broken hearts and tears. Everything stays where it happened and the survivor decided to share it here on the site, just to make it easier for him. Lame and crippled, he attacks him with stones, insults, teaches, and here in this perverted film story, there are people who show understanding and solidarity.