First of all, hello to everyone who reads (if they approve of this at all) I'm a boy in 16th, 10th grade. It doesn't matter where I'm from. So to start straight without turning ... as is already clear from the title - I'm supposedly in love with a classmate. Not really in love (too strong a word), but I like her. Somewhere in 2-3 months I feel this feeling. I don't even know how I feel ... am I in love, do I like her, is it just a hobby, I don't know intimacy. The bad thing is that I can't understand how she feels about me. Because one day she is super close to me (she is constantly looking for me, she wants to be with me, to be by my side, to talk, to write to each other, etc.). The next day he pulls away and hardly even talks to me. Come to think of it, I do the same with her ... The other thing, however, is that when she's a little closer to another boy, I'm very jealous of her, although I don't have any and I get a nasty situation And I just don't know how to deal with it anymore. I feel like a fool. What to do Should I get even closer to her? Should I come to her? Or to sit and what will happen, will happen ... but it doesn't make sense to sit ... to do nothing ... I don't know ... say ... Thank you in advance and I hope the moderators approve the topic.
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Slowly he came closer to her. When you get even closer, you will understand how she feels about you, and maybe even she will like you. From personal experience I tell you we (the girls) are always waiting for the boy to take the first step (with exceptions of course). I hope I helped!
Try to get closer to her, ask her how she is, try to get to know her. If after getting close you still like her, just act and tell her. As she said number 1, we girls are waiting for the boy to take the first step in 99% of cases.
Invite her to coffee, to the movies. It's as if you accidentally touch her hand ... court her. And hold on to it with perseverance.
Do something crazy and memorable together. For example, if you get on a block supposedly about adrenaline and up there you will talk and at some point just try to shorten the distance between you. You don't have to pounce on her - on the contrary, but a friendly hug over the shoulder or something will surely change the situation. And now, in my opinion, the girl will tell you, I'm sure! Well that's the situation, the boy has to take the first step. Good luck and you know - if you try there are two options - it will either work or not. If you do not try - there is only one option. Act!
I think I remember who you are, maybe we're from the same city, because there are a lot of coincidences in your history, but I'm not sure. Tell me more :)
-From the author Thank you all for the advice. to number 5: I'm from Ruse. What more do you want to know?
So you're not who I think I am. Thanks, I don't want anything more :)