Hello, first of all, I don't want you to attack us. I am here to pour out my soul and ask for advice. I am 29 years old, I have a friend of 2 years and 3 months. But I feel that things are not going at all. We are simply not in love, but as roommates. He lives with us. We sleep in the same bed, but we have not had an intimate relationship for 1 month. I just have no desire. Many years ago we met a boy from Varna, that is, 9 or more years ago. Before I left with my current one, we met with him - I am from Plovdiv. He liked me, I was stupid. But now for some time we have been writing to him again, talking on bodies. I can't explain how I feel, but when he sees that he wrote, my smile is close to my ears. I like talking to him. He is studying law. He is one year younger than me. I have nothing to talk to my current friend about. I just don't know what to do!
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If he lives with you, then he has no money and is not successful. Drop without blinking, how did you even take it to live with you. A man must be successful, fight, get a good income, have a nice home, a classy car, opportunities for vacations abroad. You are caught with a torn slipper without money, in time you will only feel negatives and click your tongue when you see on insta or Facebook how your friends take them around Dubai, Phuket and similar places. Drop it.
The answer is very simple. Break up with your current friend and try the new one.
Well, you're not small, things aren't going well. But stop hanging on the branches before you make a decision, it's stupid of your partner. When it doesn't work, stop and be left alone, I've seen that it doesn't lead to death, so. If you are attracted to the other young man, go ahead, at least don't put horns on this one, even though you have already put little ones on him.
Let me guess: since you wrote to the man from Varna, you have no desire to have sex with your "pet"? :) So: THE INTERNET approves of breaking with the current one. He considers the decision worthy. Is that better?
If you don't love someone, don't waste their time. But if you don't learn some lessons, history will repeat itself.
How come you don't know how to act? That it is extremely clear from what is written that you do not want to be with your current friend, but you want the other. Well, drop one and stick with the other if you think it will be different with him, but I guarantee you that in 2 years and 3 months with this other you will be in the same situation as with this one. But you are looking for something, wander, change them, what if you are 29 years old and you have crossed the threshold of youth and very soon you will beat your head at home alone.
Online chat, you wait for him to examine your tonsils and when you finish 5-6 times, ask him if he will take you.