I will probably be banal and boring, but something is wrong with my love. I have everything - a home, a car, money, a cool job. Even my work is very good. I am traveling on a ship and I am gone for 15 days. Then I am with us for 15 days. The problem is, I can't find a girlfriend. Everyone I know wants us to be just friends. I've tried everything - with money and without money. I've made all sorts of presents, I've written all sorts of poems, but no. I'm cute, smart, I don't miss anything. This alone weighs on me that there is simply no one waiting for me at the port when I return from a flight. There is no one to call you on the phone - to ask how you are.
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"friends only" is a very good solution. Why don't you accept it? Unfortunately, you can't buy love, as the song says ...
Try to be a little crazier if you understand me, more unpredictable, a little worse if you will. In fact, if what you've written about yourself is true, I'm surprised most women are looking for the security you can offer. I am a man, also with my own home and car, but again I have no girlfriend for a long time. This is because I can't like myself, and I think that at my age the next commitment may take longer, so be careful who I take home. I believe you will find someone to call you. Success!
You know, I think people have changed. They are afraid of a more serious commitment, of promises "I will wait for you", etc. Most people live for the moment, for the party and turn their backs on the real things, try to erase them or just lie to themselves that it is not important for someone to think of you to live through you, to want you to be happy so that he can be happy . These things somehow shifted. I don't know if you understand me, but I also feel very alone at times, I also have a good job, my own home, but I miss the person who comes home from work a bad night, or when I'm happy that I've achieved something long desired, there is no one to share it with, no one to say HELLO. It is difficult, but I am convinced that there are still people who are looking for just that. GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOU GET TO THE MAN!
I understand you both - the man with the story and you, from number 3! Me just like you! It sucks! I don't want to say that life is like that, but really, it's as if people have changed! I love security and warmth in people, and that seems to have evaporated! I go out and go crazy, but everyone is incredibly uninterested! It is very sad! I hope people like us get together one day! Good luck to both of you!
It seems that, among all the information and freedom or liberty, there is no moral and sober thinking people left! I hope you find someone when you travel! Only the failed remained here! At least when you go out, there are all of them! And the right ones are distancing, inaccessible and disinterested!
Don't worry! You know - and after the darkest night the sun rises. Everything will be fine, as long as you have the necessary patience! Love has it, and in spite of everything else, it will make you smile :) good luck ...
When you really want something, you find the right way to achieve it. We live in a busy time and there is not much free time for casual contacts, which can grow into a serious commitment. But there are many ways to set the requirements for what kind of woman you are looking for and how you want to live with her. Be honest when talking about yourself and set the exact requirements for your partner on dating sites and do not forget to always be yourself with your positive and self-critical assessments. Patience, sincerity and faith that you will succeed you should always wear them with you. Change your worldview and believe that a woman is waiting for you to find her.
I read twice what you wrote and the following things come to my mind: you have money - this is good, because nowadays there are many women and girls who look at the richer and in most cases only look to take advantage of this thing. , which I am completely against. You should not be with the man for his money, but for himself. As for your work, the fact that you are gone for 15 days and the other 15 are on solid ground is also a problem. Given that most girls / women are very frivolous and I deeply doubt that if you have a girlfriend, she will stay true to you for these 15 days, despite your money. I keep thinking she won't stand and think about how much she misses you and count the days until you get back. I'm single too and I'm sorry because most people around me have boyfriends, and it is a pain for me to look at them from the side and my heart to be torn by pain. I really hope you find a suitable girl who really deserves you! People say, "he who seeks finds." I still can't agree with this statement, because I see a lot of nice men, but we're not suitable for each other. And the fact that there are passengers for each train - I do not believe it at all. I keep thinking that either my train is not built yet or it is stuck on the road, because rattled wagons are always passing by me. It's funny, though. I can only wish you success, but not like mine !!! since I see a lot of nice men, however, we are not suitable for each other. And the fact that there are passengers for each train - I do not believe it at all. I keep thinking that either my train is not built yet or it is stuck on the road, because rattled wagons are always passing by me. It's funny, though. I can only wish you success, but not like mine !!! since I see a lot of nice men, however, we are not suitable for each other. And the fact that there are passengers for each train - I do not believe it at all. I keep thinking that either my train hasn't been built yet or it's stuck on the road, because rattling wagons are still passing me. It's funny, though. I can only wish you success, but not like mine !!!
I want to know if you were able to find what you were looking for? I hope you are!
I am a woman and I will tell you what I think about your story. Judging by what is written, I accept it as true, I think that women appreciate the man in you when they like you as a friend. If even commercial women accept them that way, it means that they do not appreciate the MAN in you, they do not like the man in you. There is something they do not accept, despite your money and manners. I can say for myself that if a man makes such gestures to me and I like him, he will drive me crazy, but if I don't appreciate him as a man - whatever he does, it just won't matter.
Abe, I'm a man and I have the same problem as you. I've had enough boyfriends. I'm sick of one of them. I am already 33 and I haven't had one for 7 years. At first I accepted it with great pain. But I got used to it. I don't even remember what it felt like anymore. At first I hated beautiful women, but now I find them somehow pathetic, funny and insignificant with their eternal posture and arrogance. They always fuck with rich people, and then - how unhappy we are, but how no one loved them, that they made a chalga genre on the topic, ha-ha, can you imagine. Avoid Bulgarian women. Believe me - a Russian, Indian, Gypsy, Arab, Turkish, Iranian or Chinese will truly love you. Don't deal with women - a waste product of declining civilizations - they don't understand us. They are just pieces of ice in a great package, but don't be fooled, otherwise you will hear advice from them. Start a family with a woman who is brought up for this. Avoid smokers and those with driver's licenses. Calm down, everything comes for the one who knows how to wait, forget about the right thing, there are no rules in love. And don't listen to women's advice - you will completely sink :) Bye, my, and follow my instructions, good luck! Fight to be respected!
I'm sorry, but I'll tell you straight: loving is the best thing and I'm the same. I don't have a girlfriend I don't have any friends I've ever had but you know ... I'm an engineer but I'm not older than you remember the best thing for a man is to want to make the girl happy
ST1: If you are looking for help to find a girlfriend, you don't need it. You have everything you need not from the material side there with cars money and good work with this you can attract some superficial rusk and you want something else so my advice is the following wake yourself up literally not when you face someone and think how to be you decorate the personality to make you like it more. Be the one you are and don't argue because I think you have this habit, be honest and kind, be yourself and it will pay off: D
Unfortunately, in BG value women are isolated cases. If he has a slightly better appearance, then in 90% of cases he wants to get material benefits from his body. Unfortunately, poverty and low education have these moral values. You say you are traveling abroad. You can look for a foreigner. Unfortunately, I do not think that the Russians are a commodity either. So look further west and further north. Everything is better there. It is a pity that we were born in BG.
To number 16, why is it a pity that we were born in Bulgaria? Is it because of the women? Wonder if only women are like that or men too? And why are you so sure that foreigners will be better in all cases (without the Russians in your words) ?? Very ill-considered comment on your part, at least in my opinion !!
ST1: Number 16 you talk hot nonsense I agree with 17 women are to blame that automatically every man in bg when he sees a beautiful woman is included in the whores in my opinion and even no one can deny it it always happens. And maybe women have given up engaging in feelings and love because there are no such men here. I just hear some of the wonderful typically masculine terms in Bulgarian like "glei ta puska" and I feel sick. If women had the right to choose between a decent boy and a paralytic, some would still choose money, but most would go with love. But they do not have such a choice because at the moment they can choose between the money and some incompetent pass for which the woman is a "pussy". Draw your own conclusions about who you are.
Dude, if that calms you down a little bit, it's not just you, I'm also a cute boy who has everything without the most important things, and I feel this emptiness in life, and I can't find the meaning of many things related to the fact that there is no one waiting for you on the other shore when you come home ..... I don't know what to tell you :) It's hellishly difficult without a person next to you. I understand!
You are not the only one who feels lonely. But why don't you accept friendships, sometimes it is friendship that gives birth to love, so when they tell you that you can only be friends, accept them.
I am also single, do not have a car and live with my parents, but I am good and nice. I suggest we get together and not be lonely anymore :) If you agree leave your email to write
TO NUMBER 11-E, girls, Cinderella is wanted! Come on, try on the slipper! The condition is that you don't have a wheelchair, a chariot, a car, a cart ... And don't smoke cigarettes, grass, hay, tea and anything else! to be good, beautiful and hardworking! Skillfully handle the hoe and the plow! Do not have a phone, that he, like the car, is a means of communication - do not cheat with phone sex! Even in a monastery you will not find such a woman, my man, you are looking for a submissive soul ... Ama-yok!
To number 22 - Don't worry, I've already found it and it's great! :)
To No. 22. I decided to get involved too. Because you are exactly one of those women who should not have them, but unfortunately BG is full of them. Your chalga has degenerated, and shiny cars and the noise of money are the only conditions for your orgasms. In fact, darling, you write in a lot of posts here / it's time to stop interfering / and your handwriting is obvious! Don't you think that this is easy to notice, for your value system and your criterion for men. I hope I don't come across a woman like you again. Safe from chalgarki and light women, for whom only luxury is a prerequisite for a relationship. And I must tell you that if one day Bulgaria adopts the model of developed countries and returns again, MORALS, such as you, will have nowhere in the world, a field for expression. Hope this happens faster that aman!
And so NO 22, as they wrote above, you are a waste product of our declining country!
Drop into a disco or find one on a dating site. mine and I are both very cool, but those around us have always accepted us as friends and we found him on a dating site :) good luck
I also think that the way out is with a foreigner. I have lived abroad for a long time - several of the "developed countries" including the United States, and I am convinced that their thinking is far different from ours. They are much more human and largely realistic. They love to receive, but they can also give! They know how to appreciate. Most of ours are so primitive and mercantile - so pathetic. And because they don't realize it, a vicious circle ensues ... Find a foreigner from a better world :)
I hope everything in you has already taken a positive direction! :)