I'm a girl and I'm 17. I don't know where to start. Maybe I've been feeling like this for 2 years. But I realized this winter when my best friend didn't leave me because of the new student in our class. We talk but it's not like before. When I hear them that they will have a party or when I see photos on Facebook on both I feel redundant. I'm not engaged, I haven't had a serious relationship and I haven't kissed but I'm not ashamed of it, I'm just tired of crying and being alone. I went to a psychologist but it didn't help me. The effect was short-lived. I was a much happier person before. Plus no one understands me. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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Everyone goes through such stages in their life - be they long or short. I was the same at one time - I was redundant - two of my friends went out, took pictures and so on without calling me. In those moments, I felt, to put it mildly, bad, but I kept telling myself that at some point things would get better, that I would find real girlfriends for me. Almost a year has passed since this period, which lasted about a year or so. Now one of the girls and I are very good friends, and I also found other friends. For not having a boyfriend is not a pain to die. Looking at my peers with their chicken brains, I wonder how one of them can be my friend if he doesn't impress me with anything. The only advice I can give you is to think positively. You are only 17, many things await you: you will go to study, you will meet new people, you will find a boyfriend and girlfriends. GD
It's very simple, you have to find new friends and I am like that and for the moment I am focused on other things so that I can not notice that I am lonely too
Dear girl, nowadays people are lonely (most). Find activities, a hobby that gives you pleasure. Find another girlfriend. Life is in front of you, you will meet other people. Study, read ... When you look at photos on Facebook, you become even sadder. Wanting to have fun, to have fun. Don't think of them at all. Forget them, they don't deserve your attention. You are a valuable and valuable person and you will find other friends. Do not despair, fight. Good luck and head up!
1. You can become a little 'more superficial' and easily fit in with the crowd. 2. To preserve your uniqueness and keep patience for the person you will like :) you go through puberty, emotions and thoughts boil ... it is normal at some point to feel like a dead end, but this period will pass. smile :)))) M.
I think there are real friends in life, but just this girl who left you so bad, was not a real friend:) ... In no case do not become cruel and nasty to other people (because there are people who become such: () !!! This is just a dead policeman: D who you have to cross..a hindrance in life..from which you stumbled a little, but you have to get up and move on :) From a little girl: )
This is the period of self-discovery, ie. when you are alone you kind of realize what you want you call with goals and it just starts working this period is called maturation and rejection of people who are not for you because you are on another level so to speak and as everything in this world passes so and this period ... and how short the period will be depends on your psyche
To tell you the truth, only if you have experienced an event like yours can you really understand how much pain you have experienced and how difficult it is to swallow the bitterness. In fact, the weather seems to be rejoicing, and the tears to some extent. There are times in life when we feel rejected by the whole world, lonely, wandering. There are so many people in our lives, most of them fake, but there are valuables somewhere among them. And rest assured that you will find such people. Your girlfriend is definitely not one of them. But remember the most important thing - be yourself and never betray yourself, because only when a person respects himself, he can demand respect from others. Keep yourself the way you are, even sad and cute. It is better not to have friends than to have those who will make you change and be alien to yourself.
Thanks for everyone's advice.
In fact, they've done this to me before. My previous classmates. from the author
Don't worry, everything will be fine, I'm in the same situation as yours at the moment, only I'm abandoned because of one ... which doesn't deserve to be spit on, but believe in what is happening to you because it's certainly not accidental, just don't think about this has other people you can go out with she is not the only one :)
Kofti and I are like that
Look, I'm a boy, I'm 18 and I haven't had a girlfriend so far. I'm sorry, but what to do and it's a little difficult for me. Few people understand me
Hi darling, I am a 13 year old girl. I don't have your problem, but I know it's not nice to be alone. I don't have a boyfriend either, but that's because every time I understand what an idiot my boyfriend is and I dump him ... anyway ... ... be confident, don't worry if you don't like others they won't like you, and vice versa - if you like yourself, others will like you too. :) Wear shorts. :) There is something beautiful in every person :)