Hello, I am 30 years old, I am married, I have a 4-year-old child, but I am not very happy with this marriage, I do not receive the necessary caresses from my husband and it makes me feel lonely, sometimes I even think of infidelity what should i do
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Well, as much as you can't believe it, sometimes, that is, in most cases, conversations help a lot! Why don't you sit down with your husband and talk about what's wrong with your relationship. One thing is for sure, both are to blame !!!
Well, there's nothing wrong with cheating, if he doesn't know that cheating doesn't exist. This way you will feel that you are still wanted and you will not be lonely!
It is written by a woman of 42, fortunately happily married, but she sees a lot of sorrow and bitterness in the eyes of others. There are men who are a bit like bears, wild, and their caresses are like that or they don't exist at all. But it's not so scary yet if this man cares for his family and takes care of him. Then you really need to talk a little, but every day less so that he doesn't get too much. And during this time you treat the person less / as you want. The infidelity option forgets it, unless sex is the most important thing in your life. But believe me, there are many more valuable and valuable things in life than sex. So if you throw yourself into an infidelity, it would only hurt yourself. However, if your husband is away from you, try to check him to see if he has embarked on a love affair. So did my sister's wife, with one gypsy, and he was well applauded in general, that he took the child of the other, that he confessed. And although my sister stupidly and stubbornly wants to save her marriage, the rest of the world sees that everything around them has collapsed and sees no future. Pity in the end for the children, because they are always the ones who suffer the most from separation. But no matter how much it hurts in such cases, separation seems to be the best / best solution, and whoever has crushed it to itch it bitterly!
YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE, DEAR. BETRAYAL WILL HELP YOU FEEL BETTER, I TELL YOU FROM EXPERIENCE, BUT DON'T LIVE INTO YOUR OUT-OF-MARRIAGE. YOU NEED FAVORS AND SEX - THE WORLD IS FULL OF MEN, FROM WHICH YOU CAN TAKE THEM, BUT DON'T FORGET WHAT IS IMPORTANT IN YOUR LIFE. IF YOU MARRY ANOTHER MAN, YOU WILL GET THE SAME SITUATION AGAIN, SO TAKE FROM LIFE WITH FULL HANDS AND BE HAPPY!
Dear girl, really try to talk tactfully and carefully with your husband, but don't push him against the wall, because you will scare him and he will become uncontrollable! If, despite everything, things do not work out - I would advise you to part with him and arrange your life on your own, no matter how difficult it is for you, but at least you will be honest especially to yourself and your child! I would not recommend infidelity and I do not agree with № 4, because you will come across someone who will give you a lot of caresses, attention, tenderness, will fuck you nicely and you will fall in love! From there, your life will become a nightmare! Trust me! I sleep mainly with married women and with many women, and I know what it's about! I've always told them that I don't want a commitment and it's all a matter of sex, but I have many cases in which, when I fuck a woman hard - she falls in love and suffers! I never wanted to hurt anyone, but it happened many times! While, if you are alone and fall in love - at least there is a chance that everything will be fine! And if you don't continue with the right person, at least you won't hide, play and protect yourself! Think carefully, but, this is my advice!
Don't give a shit, don't worry about what happens to many women, so find a lover and let him give you what you want. But never admit it, even if you suspect something. I say it from my own experience and I feel very well already wanted.
Mr. Number 5, since I am 30 years old, with a child of almost 4 years, married, unhappy in my marriage to a loving and devoted man, and sober-minded .. your comment totally intrigued me. I don't think that a person after a certain age can fall in love, no matter how strong this "knocking" is :), but I would try;). I still remember the thrill and the fire, so I wouldn't mistake them :). As for you, my dear, do not cheat! Because in this way you will only cheat on yourself! Infidelity means betraying your faith ... and since only you will know ... so you will betray yourself! You better break up with your husband ... and give yourself a chance to be happy alone or with someone else! I would rather be alone, but my daughter and my husband adore each other, and I would not share them for anything in the world. That is why I am faithful and unhappy! But it is not known until when :).