I Am Over 50 Years Old I Have Been In A Relationship With A Woman 16 Years Younger

   Doesn't she want to be with you? Are you or she married? And actually what is the problem? The only thing that can be considered a problem from what you wrote is that the woman is much younger than you, but in my opinion this is not such a problem. I also have a relationship with a man 15 years older than me, but the problem is that he is married. If you tell us more about you and your relationship, you will get answers about things you are interested in!

   Yes, she doesn't want to be with me. We are both divorced. In many ways we approach each other - dancing sex in general at the party we are a good tandem. Yes she wants us to stay friends by occasionally having a party from and to! I don't understand that - I'm not a sex machine to be used just for that, I'm not just for a party. I LOVE HER !!! She has the freedom on my part for the simple reason that for now we can't be together all the time because I take some care of my mother - after a stroke, but I also have enough time for her!

   I am over 40 years old and I have a relationship with a man 16 years older than me. He adores me. I feel normal, I am happy with him - we can talk about all sorts of topics, share good and bad, do sex. However, he worries about his manhood, which is normal at his age. It should not be talked about, because it puts extra strain on the psyche. I don't think it's an abnormal age difference and it has its charming moments like any other relationship.

   We are both divorced. She does not want. He wants us to stay friends and be together from time to time - that includes sex. I love her infinitely and for now I have agreed to her terms!

   Look ahead to the future! "Sex from time to time" aren't you in high school? When a man, no matter a man or a woman, wants to be with another man, he is only with him — constantly and without reservation. I know it's a hell of a lot harder to love and do your best for a relationship, and on the other hand to hear, "I just want to be friends," but if this woman wants that ... Don't agree to her terms, which at the same time they do not satisfy you. I don't think she loves you and she has never loved you as she should with all her heart and soul. Aren't you a gigolo ?! Right now, your mother needs you more than anyone! Take care of her! I believe in love, in true, burning and passionate love, and in the fact that there is only one particular person for everyone to be happy with! You have had many beautiful moments with this woman, but they are over. Keep them in your soul and open your heart to new, even better experiences with another woman! You can never be sure where love is ...

   Yes, in words, everything is nice and easy! How is it really achieved when you LOVE terribly?

   I don't know how to achieve it! I wrote you comments 1 and 5. It is difficult for me too, because the man I live for and adore and am ready for anything for his love is married, and he is 15 years older than me ... Maybe to talk and feel sorry for ourselves, and maybe take our lives into our own hands. Unfortunately, I seem to be of the first type, I really hope you are of the second ... Maybe you don't think I can give you adequate advice, and even more that I am 22 years old, but believe me, I have experienced so much I have shed so many tears that I am at least 35 years old ... I believe in the future and in true love! I wish you with all my heart to be happy!

   I have a similar problem. Things went wrong, but I think philosophically and I know that life goes on. I am 42 years old. he is 56 years old - a colleague. We are both married. He left for the United States a few months ago. Until then, I secretly liked him. When he got there, he realized he loved me. He wrote to me and that's how it started. However, by mistake he sent 1 text message to her colleague instead of me and so we were discovered very early. After three months he returned, we were happy, but the colleague began to harass and jealous him. It turned out that she had been wearing it for a long time. She won't let him come in and she seems to have reported his wife to us. I love him first as a person and mental attitude, refined, polite, considerate. He offered me platonic love, but I did not accept it, given that we are both still fine. I love him anyway and I will accept his decision, whatever it is, and I will continue to love it. This is my attitude towards him. I will enjoy the moments when I see him, when we can steal our happiness. He is very kind and I do not want to suffer, I do not want to cause him trouble, but I do not want to lose him. We both care about our families, even though we miss some things and suffer. And I don't know what to do and I have no one to consult. I miss him and I don't know what will happen.

   I read each of the comments. Such stories are not uncommon. And unfortunately he didn't miss me either. I am 41, a woman divorced with a child. I had a relationship that lasted 3 years, with a man 12 years older than me, married but with a sham marriage. He had undergone several surgeries and was not in good health. This, of course, affected his sexual activity, but it didn't bother me. I needed him more as a friend than as a man. And after I gave him three years of my life, hoping that I would at least have a friend to support me in difficult times, and ... Surprise! He left me because of an old mistress he had broken up with about 4 years before he met me. It's just that the lady, who already lived in another city, found out about our relationship from common acquaintances and did everything possible to get it back. To be alive and healthy! And this summer I had a love affair with a man 17 years younger than me and too sexually active. What an irony! I didn't want anything from him. But unfortunately he fell in love with me. I realized that I had no right to steal his youth, and after a few painful conversations with him, I left. I offered to stay friends, but he refused, it hurt. Where is the truth, then? It must be somewhere in the middle! It is difficult for such a relationship to be accepted by the public and sooner or later it always comes to an end. It is! So my advice is to look for a woman who will want to stay with you, she has obviously found another, and she is trying to tell you in a very tactful way - with a proposal for friendship ... Accept it! But unfortunately he fell in love with me. I realized that I had no right to steal his youth, and after a few torturous conversations with him, I left. I offered to stay friends, but he refused, it hurt. Where is the truth, then? It must be somewhere in the middle! It is difficult for such a relationship to be accepted by the public and sooner or later it always comes to an end. It is! So my advice is to look for a woman who will want to stay with you, she has obviously found another, and she is trying to tell you in a very tactful way - with a proposal for friendship ... Accept it! But unfortunately he fell in love with me. I realized that I had no right to steal his youth, and after a few torturous conversations with him, I left. I offered to stay friends, but he refused, it hurt. Where is the truth, then? It must be somewhere in the middle! It is difficult for such a relationship to be accepted by the public and sooner or later it always comes to an end. It is! So my advice is to look for a woman who will want to stay with you, she has obviously found another, and she is trying to tell you in a very tactful way - with a proposal for friendship ... Accept it! Such a relationship is difficult for the public to accept, and sooner or later it always comes to an end. It is! So my advice is to look for a woman who will want to stay with you, she has obviously found another one, and she is trying to tell you in a very tactful way - with a proposal for friendship ... Accept it! It is difficult for such a relationship to be accepted by the public and sooner or later it always comes to an end. It is! So my advice is to look for a woman who will want to stay with you, she has obviously found another one, and she is trying to tell you in a very tactful way - with a proposal for friendship ... Accept it!

   I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY, BUT KNOW ONE THING - SHE IS MUCH YOUNGER THAN YOU AND IN THIS CASE THE LOVE SPEECH HAS NO BOUNDARIES, ETC. IT'S VERY IMPORTANT BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW WHY IT'S WITH YOU. LOOK FOR SOMETHING OR JUST TALK TO YOURSELF AND SEE HOW THINGS SIT. THEN DECIDE WHAT TO DO. GOOD LUCK!!!

   I CAN'T MAKE A DECISION WHILE I LOVE HER SO MADLY, UNFORTUNATELY !!!

   Honey, I think you're obsessed ... You think that with this relationship with a woman much younger than you, you're getting younger too, but it's not. Therefore, do not become too attached, otherwise the end, when it comes, will be terrible for you. I even think he's already come, but you don't want to realize it. I hope I'm wrong. I wish you success. Look ahead, women are not over :)

   It is strange after a long period of your relationship that no plans for a common future are clarified. And the "I love" argument sounds immature to me. Think about whether it is not an illusion that you nurture. I am a woman of 50 years and it seems to me that you are mistaken and there is no way to keep the peak of the relationship, because it has already passed.

   Hello, I am a lady from a small town on the subject, I think there is nothing wrong with a bigger man, but I also think that men over 50. age they are looking for a lot of younger women than them to prove themselves as men, correct me if I'm wrong but I think so it's still you are 50 and she is 35 - 36 it is normal to look for a man with whom to start a family you still can not to make her be strong with you I have a relationship with a married man but we both want it is good when things happen willingly do not make her strong to be with you give and a little time you may love success .... ... !!!

   I really liked this whole dispute. And as you can guess, I have a relationship with a woman my age and I live with my ex-wife and to tell you I love them very much and both my ex-wife doesn't know about the other which is reassuring. At one time I was tormented, but then I came to the conclusion that my peace of mind is dear and so I stopped thinking about the problem and continued to love them both. I feel good like that and I don't know if it's normal but I even look and occasionally look at some old friend ha ha ha. I am 48 but to share with you my sex life is now in full swing and I like it much more than at 20 or 30. My advice to the gentleman is to look after his mother because she is his only one and to find girlfriends his age . I personally never expected to be so good with a woman of 50 ... they are great !!!

   I really liked this whole dispute. And as you can guess, I have a relationship with a woman my age and I live with my ex-wife and to tell you I love them very much and both my ex-wife doesn't know about the other which is reassuring. At one time I was tormented, but then I came to the conclusion that my peace of mind is dear and so I stopped thinking about the problem and continued to love them both. I feel good like that and I don't know if it's normal but I even look and occasionally look at some old friend ha ha ha. I am 48 but to share with you my sex life is now in full swing and I like it much more than at 20 or 30. My advice to the gentleman is to look after his mother because she is his only one and to find girlfriends his age . I personally never expected to be so good with a woman of 50 ... they are great !!!