Hello, I'm a 15-year-old girl. 3 months ago I went with the boy I have liked for a long time. Before moving on to a creature, I will describe it. She is 17 years old, terribly beautiful and the dream of every second girl from school. He is terribly rude to everyone except me and the boys in his company. I know that before he went with me he was with a bunch of muffins, to which he first behaves like the perfect one, and then seeing some "more pecan" he throws them away. I didn't particularly care when we left. I was happy, he had chosen me from all the other girls and he was mine. I was in a difficult situation and he was the only person who understood me and that was the only thing that mattered.
I never once wondered if he was doing it for his own benefit or because he really cared about me. Just in case, I had one thing in mind, if things don't go well, I'll be the first, which will end our relationship from being subjected to humiliation to being thrown away like a handkerchief, like his ex. Even when he was with his ex-girlfriend, I had fantasies with him (I'm very perverted) and the time had come to make them come true ... We were both satisfied and for a very short time I had the dream life, but of course, something had to happen. to ruin everything ...
I got pregnant ... I'm convinced because I have all the symptoms and I did a few tests that turned out to be positive. I know that after my mother screams at me, she will hug me and help me get through it. My father died 5 months ago and since then my brother and I have been more united than ever. I'm only afraid of my friend ... Will telling him everything stay the same? In principle, he has a freedom-loving spirit ... how will he perceive it? Will he try to escape the problem or will he show some concern for me and the baby? I've been postponing the moment he'll learn for a week ... I just have a feeling I'm going crazy ...
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A handsome 17-year-old with a 15-year-old pickle, who has lost her mind ... Darling, you're healthy! Dude will dump you! what concern are you talking about? : D He just broke me, honestly! Watch your school! Where did you go to eat? I had a friend, a very handsome man. He changed 3 times a month. When he opens the cans for them, there will be no smoke. It will happen to you, but I wouldn't worry about it. Drop it and watch your school! I just don't know with what intelligence and shame you will stand in front of your mother and brother. SHAME AND CUT!
If he is 17, it means that he is still a clean paw, he will reject you, it seems to me, because believe me, no one but no boy wants to deal with children at 17. And where was your mind when you did it, why doesn't he use protective equipment? these are not joking things, in a word dear BURNS;)
Honey ... you're in a difficult position, but ... in this case, you can't do undo. Don't tell him directly that you are pregnant - ask him what he would do if you got pregnant, isn't he afraid of getting pregnant and the like. Understand his opinion. But I think that unless you are Roma or Turks, it will lead to abortion, which is bad, but it's better at this age to have a child, believe me - it would radically change your life, not to mention 15-16 year old single mother.
As you describe it, you're all in line when one passes and goes to the other - no, it'll dump you. Tell yours. I know it's hard, but you just have to say it, because otherwise it will get worse. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that everything will be OK. Write what happened. Just so you don't lose hope - it's everything. Good luck, darling; (
When I read it, I just wonder at the corner ... what is this nonsense ... a 15-year-old baby? I think of all his girlfriends you are the biggest muffin! If you are Roma .. this is another question .. they marry and give birth to younger ones! If not bad! Catch your mother and the doctor, to remove the fetus, I hope he did not stick to you and something else! But you young people have no idea! In 15 years, when you become my age, you will understand what your current situation looks like from the outside - TRAGIC!
Wow, your poor mother !!! A woman alone to look after you both with your brother, and now a baby !!! How will this woman go to work? You will bury her, girl. Doesn't it occur to you that money should support you, not grow on trees?
It smells like a fictional story here ...
Your poor mother. What baby will you give birth to when your mind is still childish? And that your boyfriend will not be happy about the pregnancy, be convinced. At most to help you financially for the abortion and then he will beat your jester.
She shared it with her mother first and then with him. You are only 15, what do you expect from him. But you still have to tell him because you both messed it up. Good luck and write what happened.
Oh childish work ... Not knowing what you're doing, where you're pushing. If my daughter, who is now also 15, comes and tells me she's pregnant with a 17-year-old squirrel, just ... Tell your mother and go have an abortion!
From the author: We used a condom, but the protection is never 100% secure. :) Besides, my mother already knows, but she is not one of the people who will make my mistake endlessly, because she knows that I already feel bad enough. She will just try to help me.
To the people above me - And there is no point in criticizing her! What happened is like a couple writing to you at school, there is nothing to do. Author, in the end, your friend is very shaken by hormones, there is a chance that he has decided to change with you, or that he is not so pathetic, but we are talking about a percentage below 50. In the end, you are in a dead end and you have to to tell him. Your mother's reaction will be more disturbing, if she is not angry, she will be devastated. It's good that you're supposed to be united, because that's very important right now. Go to the boy, tell him, if I break up with you, curse him, then march to your mother to tell her ... the interesting ... news. But be prepared for any reactions, we are human, we are different. When my mother told me that she was pregnant again, I stood like a stump and did not make any special reaction. However, my grandparents just didn't dance, other people immediately with,, KVO !? But how? "If he yells at you and then apologizes to you, don't soften. Zu-za
Author, you scare me ... how did you use a condom and get pregnant? What brand was it, did it break ... how come?
Why did this site become teenage?
Author, now how do you imagine things will develop? Do you feel mature and responsible enough to look after a child or will you leave it to mom for easier? How do you plan to raise him with primary education only? What are your plans? and are you sure your mother will support you? Life is not as easy as in the baby movies
I don't think you should spit on a girl like that. She wants advice! True, 15 years is quite an early age to raise a child, but still everyone decides when to start their sex life. On the topic: Talk to your mother in more detail and ask her for advice. According to the description you gave him, I don't think he will take it normally.
Invite him to a guest house. Ensure your mother's presence without your brother. Tell them both at the same time, it will make it easier for you, and he will behave more adequately than if you are alone. Otherwise, it may convince you to do stupid things without your mother's knowledge and make it worse.
Of all the comments I read, I think that number 19 is the most correct and adequate. Listen to the above comment and I am almost convinced that you will not go wrong. Write what happened!
Soul, it's good that you're worried about the "hero" because he obviously doesn't care about you when he's pregnant at this age and ruining your future. If you ask me to go immediately to your mother and the gynecologist with her, you have nothing to wait for. I will not give you advice about the drill, if you have at least a little bit of intelligence in your head, it will dawn on you what to do with a person who manages your life without caring about you at all.