Hello, I will be brief but clear, I have a big problem with jealousy, I love my girl very much. We've been dating for a long time, and every time she writes, talks, looks at some, I literally go crazy and she doesn't like it. jealous, but not as I am jealous of her, and also told me that with this great jealousy I repel and suffocate her .... could you help me in any way I do not want to lose her because of my jealousy ..! Thanks in advance to the commenters and I really hope this will be published ... :)
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if she really loved you, she wouldn't write, talk and look at other men ...!
You just don't have self-confidence and you think that every man is better than you. That is why you are afraid that she will choose another and that she will be stolen. But she chose you, not someone else. There is certainly a reason for this, no matter how much you underestimate yourself. Even the fact that she dumped you despite your behavior shows that you have qualities and she cares about you. Be more confident. Everyone is born with perfect and incredibly good qualities. It is up to us whether we keep them or allow our fears to make us aggressive, insecure, insecure. In essence, each of us has incredible qualities, do not waste them with stupid and primary emotions. Think about what you like about yourself and thank yourself for these traits every day. for me, this gratitude, expressed every day in my mind, was the turning point in my life because I was extremely unrealized,
think very well why you are actually "crazy" - you don't trust her, you think she is too good for you, that she is with you just not to be alone, that others are at a much higher level or something. if you do not trust her and you are at the beginning of the relationship, you can discreetly and carefully observe her, but without nonsense like "writing to someone, then cheating" or "drinking coffee with a colleague, so sleeping with him." Boy, no one's life starts or ends with you - people have classmates, friends, acquaintances, friends of friends, fellow students, colleagues, neighbors and many more people with whom they communicate. if you really repel and suffocate it, you are very likely to lose it, as are the next ones. so think carefully and work on your attitude. F43
Realize that the girl, and the man in general, is not and cannot be our property. The other is to trust her. If you don't have it, as in your case, just keep telling yourself that you are licking it until you believe.
"If she really loved you, she wouldn't write and talk to other men ...!" Are you kidding us? You have no self-confidence and you are afraid that anyone else may take it away from you. Think about what you need to change in yourself when you are good to yourself. Do not be like the other bullies without a drop of mercy, but do the right thing! Mr. Dangerous
to 1. - Are you okay? I don't know how the moderators judged your comment to be a post (with an apology to them). What you are saying is absurd. Now that we have a friend, let's send her to a woman's world, eh? Or put on the veil and ... Guys - both the author of the post and the first comment ... you're sick, it's a disease, again with an apology, but it's the truth. In fact, you can only be healed by becoming aware. But not everyone succeeds. I am a woman. I recently ended such a relationship and believe me - I am happier since I am alone than with this tyrant. It really suffocates and repulses. In fact, I was very happy with him at first, but those traits were still too pale. With each passing day they intensify. And this is felt. A lot. Even in the eyes of such men it is clear what is in their heads. Author - realize that you do not own this girl and I do not know about anything else, but this is a 100% way to lose her, even if she hates you. I lived with mine, now I don't even want to hear his voice. In her eyes you look complex, insecure and funny. She can't help but communicate with men - well, that's half the world. I guess at least that's what you realize. If you don't get along, I don't think you'll ever have a full and happy relationship. I don't think a self-respecting woman will tolerate you. What can I tell you ... suppress it, hide it ... there is hardly a way not to feel it - it is inside you. Have a little more self-confidence and trust in you. Jealousy kills even the greatest love. Don't forget it and good luck! :) now I don't even want to hear his voice. In her eyes you look complex, insecure and funny. She can't help but communicate with men - well, that's half the world. I guess at least that's what you realize. If you don't get along, I don't think you'll ever have a full and happy relationship. I don't think a self-respecting woman will tolerate you. What can I tell you ... suppress it, hide it ... there is hardly a way not to feel it - it is inside you. Have a little more self-confidence and trust in you. Jealousy kills even the greatest love. Don't forget it and good luck! :) now I don't even want to hear his voice. In her eyes you look complex, insecure and funny. She can't help but communicate with men - well, that's half the world. I guess at least that's what you realize. If you don't get along, I don't think you'll ever have a full and happy relationship. I don't think a self-respecting woman will tolerate you. What can I tell you ... suppress it, hide it ... there is hardly a way not to feel it - it is inside you. Have a little more self-confidence and trust of the person next to you. Jealousy kills even the greatest love. Don't forget it and good luck! :) What can I tell you ... suppress it, hide it ... there is hardly a way not to feel it - it is inside you. Have a little more self-confidence and trust in you. Jealousy kills even the greatest love. Don't forget it and good luck! :) What can I tell you ... suppress it, hide it ... there is hardly a way not to feel it - it is inside you. Have a little more self-confidence and trust in you. Jealousy kills even the greatest love. Don't forget it and good luck! :)