Hello. I don't know what happens to me, whether it's my age or myself. If it has to be defined in one word, it will be 'uncertain'. I don't know anymore, I don't even trust myself ... I constantly imagine some things about myself ... that I have something, that I'm not like the others. I don't like myself and I know I'm not ugly because a lot of people tell me I'm pretty and I don't care, I'm constantly depressed and I think about something disgusting. I am 17 years old and so far I have not had a friend which saddens me because I do not want to be alone anymore but the problem is entirely in me I do not trust anyone and I do not allow anyone next to me there is always a problem for everything .. still something will be wrong . I have complexes for every part of my body EVERYONE .. you just don't have progress .. at the moment I'm immersed in the fact that I'm fat I'm 157 and I weigh 50-51 kg I'm disgustingly fat ... in my eyes. I constantly look at how people look and I wonder why something with them (shoulders for example) is not like mine and am I wrong. Before I was not like that, now I am a young lady immersed in my complexes who sinks into her own simplicity and I don't know how to change my stupid thinking. For boys, let me say ..princes, dreams only that we live in the 21st century and there are no such as in movies and dreams and I want movies ... that's the problem. I want to change but I have no idea how .... everything is so confused ...... dreams only that we live in the 21st century and there are no such as in movies and dreams and I want movies ... that's the problem. I want to change but I have no idea how .... everything is so confused ...... dreams only that we live in the 21st century and there are no such as in movies and dreams and I want movies ... that's the problem. I want to change but I have no idea how .... everything is so confused ......
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You will have peace of mind in 5 years and your current headaches will be replaced by others. Get a fitness card and have to walk 3-4 times a week. Emphasize aerobic exercise. Things will start to change on their own. It is not bad to lose 2-3 kilograms in some areas. In addition, after training you will feel very good and with better self-confidence.
Oh, I'm the same. And I'm 19, and I haven't had a boyfriend yet! I always look at the other girls and think: eh, why don't I have such breasts, legs, etc., and I don't think that I have, for example, very sexy lips and a nice ass !! Look around her! Think of the good things in you, not the ones you don't like! And even if you don't like them, know that when a cutie falls in love with you, and this will happen soon, he will adore your shortcomings! Just don't distance yourself from the boys and don't push them away because of your stupid complexes!
Darling, men are much more attracted to women with self-confidence (even if they are ugly) than to curvy and timid people who feel ugly, even if they are not! So keep telling yourself how beautiful and beautiful you are and stop thinking about who has what body. Yours is the best! Point!
Hello! I was the same age ... I always found something in myself that was not right ... I wanted to be like others, I wanted to experience things that I thought would make me happy. You may have heard it many times, but in time you will realize that these things, which now seem very bad to you, will be funny to you in time. Look inside yourself and try to highlight the good, because there is one, but now you are only immersed in the shortcomings. Put the positive on a pedestal and believe that what is not "right" you will change or love. Love yourself, because you have something that is unique, respect yourself .... Then self-confidence will come only and you will see that others will appreciate the change.
Calm down and I think I have big ears but others tell me I'm a dude sometimes I wonder if they say it out of pity but I think I'm not ugly everything will be fine calmly and to be angry is not to be angry this is the situation accept the way you are. :)