I am a 15 year old girl living in a small town the next year I move to a big one to study. Everything is terrible in my city so far! I am very anxious 2 years ago I was severely depressed and with minimal self-confidence, I did not show up from home, I was afraid of people, but I overcame it with great difficulty! Now I have girlfriends, but the problem is that they are sociable and constantly find new friends and boyfriends, and I can't and haven't had and aren't planning to have a boyfriend! They talk to everyone calmly, and I start to stutter, or blush, and when I'm like that, people stop talking to me and think I'm crazy, or I respond stunned, but unconsciously as a defensive reaction, and people think I'm inflated. My friends talk to everyone and I stand alone on my side and I don't have a story with anyone and I'm angry with myself that when I talk to people I look at the ground or aside! I'm stupid, I even envy them nobly! With this behavior, even if I want to find a boyfriend, no one will like the smotla .. You say that it has changed, but what to do I keep telling myself in my mind - as long as you say this or that and laugh, don't be so stupid and don't be silent. stop killing you .. They even insult me and I'm silent! I'm so stupid, stupid, very stupid, I hate myself ...! Give me advice and without killings please offend others enough and thank you for your attention to a stupid! Ah, and let's not forget that when I go to the new big city, I relax and become different! They even insult me and I am silent! I'm so stupid, stupid, very stupid, I hate myself ...! Give me advice and without killings please offend others enough and thank you for your attention to a stupid! Ah, and let's not forget that when I go to the new big city, I relax and become different! They even insult me and I am silent! I'm so stupid, stupid, very stupid, I hate myself ...! Give me advice and without killings please offend others enough and thank you for your attention to a stupid! Ah, and let's not forget that when I go to the new big city, I relax and become different!
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Well, you're stupid because you're panicking about such nonsense. Instead of wasting time with stupid friends, read a book to be less stupid and be able to strike up a conversation like people. At chitankata.info you will find enough literature. However, I doubt that you have even read a love novel in your life. If you even want to start from there, just read that your spelling is bad and you are a very naive person. Come on, the puberty years will pass, you're almost pushed!
you are not stupid
Well start reading books really! 1. In order not to be able to communicate normally with people, there must be some reason. If you have family problems, childhood trauma, they have insulted you before, YOU HAVE NO SELF-CONFIDENCE! From what I have written, I can judge that your self-confidence is under any criticism, sit down, read, take care of yourself. Inside and outside. Change what you don't like and the most important thing is the books. Don't look at your "girlfriends", don't be jealous! Be strong and stand out. What about the fact that your girlfriends have caught "boyfriends" and have other "girlfriends"? !! Don't do nonsense. 1. Read books; 2. Take care of yourself, externally and internally. ; 3. Do not look at them and do not be influenced by them! ; 4. Find decent, literate people who will not use you just to fill the number of "friends"
In my opinion it is up to the character in society there are two types of people extroverts-1 and introverts-2 1-Unbalanced Sociable Anxious Optimistic Innocent 2-Balanced Shy Anxious Pessimistic Offensive in your case you seem to fall into the 2nd group of people not bad and I'm her - it saves you a lot of trouble, even though you feel a little isolated from society, but at the expense of our society, introverts find it harder to choose friends, but if we choose, we know that they are real and not some who are ready to shoot you when they see your back. It's not you who is stupid in this case, but they :) because they can't realize what's going on, you just have to find the right type of company / people to move with and everything will fall into place sPinneR ^^
"When they see your back, they are ready to shoot you" .... my tears flowed with laughter, man: D A lot of laughter. Not that it's not true, but it was very funny to me, and maybe it's from the grass I don't know, but I liked it :)) Easter egg
Let's not deviate from the author's problem and use the post for a general discussion as you don't like my comment, read it:) and the expression - well, just translate it as friends-traitors because in this life there are few real friends. No more arguing about who had his comment :) sPinner ^^
As nasty as it sounds, if you don't change, it will get worse. I was the same as you - uncommunicative, I didn't know what to say ... it was kind of horrible. Maybe you had some childhood problems? I was bullied by my class for 3 years, they forced me mentally and physically every day .. the teachers did nothing .. it made me closed, lowered my self-esteem to -1000. Now that I had gone to high school and met other people, little by little I began to come out of the "hole." You also need to increase your self-confidence, you are interested in people's opinion much more than you should. You have to understand that not everyone will like you, there will always be people who will not like you, people who will be indifferent to you and people who will respect you and seek your friendship. Commentators before me correctly wrote to read more, so you will have more general culture and you will have more things to say. If you are so worried, then first learn to communicate on the Internet, it helped me. Find friends on the Internet, communicate with them for a while, but don't forget the real world! In the real world, find people who are more like you and try to strike up a conversation in some way. You must overcome this shame at all costs. If necessary, at home alone in front of the mirror, imagine that you are talking to someone, talking. This can also help you. And the first time it doesn't happen, try again, you don't have to be afraid, this is the only way to get better. For there to be evolution, there must be a revolution! Success! * Yasa Find friends on the Internet, communicate with them for a while, but don't forget the real world! In the real world, find people who are more like you and try to strike up a conversation in some way. You must overcome this shame at all costs. If necessary, at home alone in front of the mirror, imagine that you are talking to someone, talking. This can also help you. And the first time it doesn't happen, try again, you don't have to be afraid, this is the only way to get better. For there to be evolution, there must be a revolution! Success! * Yasa Find friends on the Internet, communicate with them for a while, but don't forget the real world! In the real world, find people who are more like you and try to strike up a conversation in some way. You must overcome this shame at all costs. If you have to, at home alone in front of the mirror, imagine that you are talking to someone, talking. This can also help you. And the first time it doesn't happen, try again, you don't have to be afraid, this is the only way to get better. For there to be evolution, there must be a revolution! Success! * Yasa This can also help you. And the first time it doesn't happen, try again, you don't have to be afraid, this is the only way to get better. For there to be evolution, there must be a revolution! Success! * Yasa This can also help you. And the first time it doesn't happen, try again, you don't have to be afraid, this is the only way to get better. For there to be evolution, there must be a revolution! Success! * Yasa
HAHA Up to 3 ExtraOverts are written, at least check your things before you shine with knowledge. M20
Up to 8 - haha, laughed stump on stork - shine is better than shine Tnesh, don't you think?
Spinner, do you differentiate between what I liked and what I didn't like? Easter egg
Easter egg, as I said the end of the dispute to whom what was his comment. :)) and make a difference but your comment is ambiguous. The idea can be taken as a mockery :)). Please, without any more reproaches on my comment, then write 8 in google. bg "extroverts pl. h" and then tell me if it's right or not :) Come on, stop by clicking on the topic, it is assumed that you will help and not start blaming people's comments. And 9 why do you pay attention to him, don't you see that he is not more than 13-15 ... to speak dumb prevents these are the so-called "haters". And up to 7 :) I somewhat agree with you, but not for the conversations on the Internet. Precisely because of the internet there are people who you say have harassed you, forget this internet, go out if you have to ... walk around a forest or a park I don't know ... but don't stay in front of computers for days / hours. Next to the author, look around for others like you and try to talk to them so you won't worry so much because you will know that they are like you and they will understand you correctly. Come on, success. And please don't comment on the comments (sounds a bit silly but there seems to be no other way ...) sPinneR ^^