Hello dear friends, I love reading your comments and I am glad that you are helping people solve their problems. At the age of 30 I have a child and a husband who respects me very much and is valuable. I think I look very good, at least that's the opinion of the people around me. I am a cultured and educated woman. I don't know what happened to me, but I started flirting with a man, two years older than me, I liked his green eyes, I wanted him, I had a crazy passion for him. What can lead a woman to such passions I do not know. He did not shine with much intelligence, upbringing, education, etc. but it fascinates me a lot. He passed, and I rather fell for his lies. At first we started talking on gsm sms, he was very kind and caring to me and we got to sex, we had crazy and very cool sex, but all this did not last long. After a week the visions decreased, he started to find excuses that there was work, then the calls decreased, and I am very surprised that there was no work the first week. I had fallen in love with him a lot, I liked him, I wanted to be with him, I stood by the phone and waited for him to call me, but alas. I experienced a lot of disappointment, I wonder why, not that I compliment myself, but I am a beautiful and elegant lady, and he also does not want to offend him, but like him next to the trash can is complete even though I was crazy about him. He's only looking for me now and only when we have to have sex. Please give me advice, I am tormented by the thought that an unassuming man is doing this to me WHY .......... I had fallen in love with him a lot, I liked him, I wanted to be with him, I stood by the phone and waited for him to call me, but alas. I experienced a lot of disappointment, I wonder why, not that I compliment myself, but I am a beautiful and elegant lady, and he also does not want to offend him, but like him next to the trash is completely even though I was crazy about him. He's only looking for me now and only when we have to have sex. Please give me advice, I am tormented by the thought that an unassuming man is doing this to me WHY .......... I had fallen in love with him a lot, I liked him, I wanted to be with him, I stood by the phone and waited for him to call me, but alas. I experienced a lot of disappointment, I wonder why, not that I compliment myself, but I am a beautiful and elegant lady, and he also does not want to offend him, but like him next to the trash can is complete even though I was crazy about him. He's only looking for me now and only when we have to have sex. Please give me advice, I am tormented by the thought that an unassuming man is doing this to me WHY ..........
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He does this to you because you let him. You can see for yourself that he only uses you - then what else do you do with him ??? .....
You let him, that's why. And you let him because you like him. Because when you have peace of mind and everything is normal and you are doing well at home, it starts to be monotonous and you are looking for diversity. Men in the same way - even if they have the most beautiful wife and the best wife, they go and wave aside for fun. That's life! Who is right, who is wrong, everyone has a head, some use it! F24
You obviously like yourself sexually, for men this is very important, that's why he keeps looking for you, but he runs away from a more complete commitment - meetings, dinners, etc. Many men nowadays value their freedom, whether they are married or not, they are looking for fast, non-committal, easy and good sex, if you can provide terrain - you are number 1. I do not want to offend you, I have experienced something like this, I must realize that you love him and he is with you only for sex and either accept it as a fact and continue if you are good with him, or break off this relationship. You know yourself, you know your feelings and you have to make your own decision. I will be happy if I helped, although I do not say anything new. I wish you success, whatever you decide.
He does so because you shine for him in such a light. A man who is taken down by a woman with a child and a husband ... will never trust her and want something serious from her. Look, if he had taken you down, he would have had more respect for you. You acted like a whore and you get attention and treatment as such. God how can you be so bad women ..... his green eyes ....... fuck the argument. And if sex with him is good for you ... that means you are bad with your husband. If you had fixed your husband instead of whistling for one eye. Most likely your husband keeps your honor his not. The other feels it. Otherwise, have fun, but don't look for happiness. With such shallow self-confidence you will receive shallow happiness. I am very good.
To number 4 thank you for the comment you wrote and I just admire you for what you answered me, I agree that the truth hurts but it is true I accept that it is very true that I treated him like a whore and he responds to me, but you know I'm beautiful, an intellectual with up, down a good profession, and he is a very simple ordinary and stupid man and I, driven by some family problem at home, looked at him because of these things that I listed above and decided that he being so backward in some respects compared to me will be at my feet but alas, what happened I really came out a whore.
Hello, I want to tell you my story, which is very similar to yours - maybe together we can understand the essence of the problem and help each other. If you want I can give you my skype :) Head up!
You are k ***, you do not trust your husbands.