Hello! I want to share my problem. I feel unhappy about my appearance. Don't get me wrong I'm not ugly. On the contrary, I have always enjoyed great male attention. I am a normal girl with my strengths and weaknesses. I know I can't be perfect or be the best, but when I see a girl who is more beautiful than me, I go crazy. I'm constantly chasing perfection, I have no peace, as if I can't accept that no matter what I do, there will always be a cooler chick than me. Maybe this is due to the fact that as a child my parents constantly teased me that I am the most beautiful girl, there is no second like me, now that I have grown up and realized that it is not so I feel unhappy. I don't know if I need a psychologist and you might find my problem funny,
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As I see no one else has commented on your problem, they probably consider it really insignificant :) But still: try to improve intellectually in addition to the appearance you are chasing, because this is what will make valuable people want to be close to you, not your appearance. I can write a lot on this subject, but you will understand it in time. The most telling example I can give you is that you remember what happens to appearance after a certain age, so do not rely so much on it to make a good impression.
It is good that you have realized what nonsense your parents have done, and you do not repeat it with your children. You are looking for the perfect. There is no such thing. Only God is ideal. There is nothing stopping you from talking to a psychologist, even if you do, there is nothing shameful, but stop comparing yourself to others. And for the one that is more beautiful, leave that to us men. Keep in mind that many will put you before the other. Keep in mind that outer beauty is a transient thing, you will not always be what you are now, so look at what your inner beauty is. It is far more important and valuable. And remember that "I don't know", "I don't", etc. is written separately.
Darling and I have the same problem as you and I think that no one but you can help you, so think really, are these beautiful girls really as beautiful as they look? And everyone has beauty in their own way, in the end there are no perfect ones, but if there are people they appreciate, then you are number 1
Are you normal, and what can all those ugly girls say? He hid her somewhere with his funny problems.
You have to understand that even if you get angry, you will not become more beautiful. You don't need a psychologist.