I am very ashamed of my toes because my second toe is longer than the first (from the big toe). And that's a lot. I find it terribly ugly and abnormal, and I wonder why this happened when my toes, my father's, my grandparents' toes are normally structured and arranged "lengthwise" - from longest to longest. -the little finger. This has always been a terrible complex for me and when I have to undress somewhere I always hide my fingers by squeezing them or asking for slippers. And I've always dreamed, like normal people, of lying in front of the TV and stretching my legs freely on the bed, but unfortunately I can't. It's awful
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it can't be that striking. Rather, it seems to me that you are exaggerating a little. Hardly anyone is impressed, so calm down
This is a living complex, but it is not impossible to eradicate it is very difficult ... the complex is not a disease but it is treated go to the right people ... and success
For each problem there is a solution and specialists who could help in the field. The question is how much we want such a change and whether we are ready to proceed with it. Now I am facing a similar dilemma - for many years I have a big difference of 7 cm in the lower leg, which is striking. All my life I have lived with such complexes, I have not had a chance to wear a sexier sex, etc. and now they offer to help me ....... with another operation, and I do not feel ready for it . There are thousands of questions that torment me and do not give me peace. I am very confused at the moment and I do not know what to do - on the one hand I strongly want this change that will help me become a full-fledged person and have the necessary self-confidence of a beautiful woman, but on the other hand comes the fear of possible adverse consequences after surgery.
Don't get complicated, I also have a longer second finger, but also with curved third and fourth. For a long time I was depressed by this fact, until I realized that it made no sense. It's all in your head, believe me, this is the last place the man looks at you. I am brave about crooked fingers, but this is the situation, it is not the fingers that shape your personality. Heads up, no perfect people and things.
I don't think you should pay such attention to this complex. You don't have to care .. I'm 16 years old and I have a chest circumference of 105 centimeters, I am 165 and 58 kilograms tall. My chest is too big for my size and age .. I am very complex because I can't hide it and I always listen to comments as I passed some .. I'm not happy .. But let me tell you I'm used to it and I even take it as a joke. If you get used to your problem, it will not be difficult for you. Try to make it a daily routine to talk about it without suppressing yourself in funny conversations and in the form of jokes, you will get used to the thought and it will not impress you. As for the others, I don't think anyone would be impressed. Rather, you have to get used to it, because you complex yourself from it.
:) it's not a pain to die. My fingers are the same and at first I was ashamed, but then I came across a documentary, according to which it is normal for the second to be longer than the first (just like with a finger). so up head, our fingers are normal :)
My darling, that's enough nonsense, I'm 60 kilos at 165 cm, and on top of that my breasts are different with two numbers! don't you think that bothers me ??? all the men I've been with are crazy about me after that, why do your fucking fingers bother you and create complexes for you .. tighten it!
I have the same problem with the second toe and when summer comes I get even more depressed :( I'm graduating this year and I don't know what sandals to take I am very worried :( I have the feeling that when I walk they just look at me
I've had enough of nonsense! Hardly anyone will be so impressed by your toes and they are hardly so nasty and crooked that people run away when they see your bare feet. And most people have curves and toes of different sizes. Personally, mine are absolutely correctly structured, but I have other shortcomings ... Don't you care who doesn't want to watch you go home!
Hello from me too. First I want to ask you - when you go out, walking down the street, while passing people at your feet, do you look at them? Think about it, because I've noticed from experience that when a person feels uncomfortable with his appearance in a certain direction, he always thinks that this is exactly what is obvious. And the truth is that those around you look at them and perceive them as a generalized image. And specifically for your problem - be sure that there are people with more strange, wrong, etc. looking legs from yours. So my advice is to like yourself the way you are and you will see that others will like you too :). And one more thing - if there are still those who are joking with you - just get ahead of them. I do this because I am quite overweight to avoid ridicule. I wish you success!
Brother, you better shoot yourself right away, it's awful or cut your fingers so whoever watches TV won't have any problems.
Don't worry, my niece is heavier. She is on one foot with four toes and on the other with five, there are more severe cases. Don't worry.
Man, that's not so bad! My toes are crooked? Big and small are normal, but the rest are distorted. And I think people just look at my flaw, but I don't think so. That's why my head is up.
Hello from me. I am 23 years old from Vidin, I have crooked toes pointing at 75 degrees, bent to the index finger. This is one of the small size shoes I wore as a kid. And now, over the years, this has continued. I didn't pay attention to this problem and now I'm naughty. And for me, not only the second, but also the third finger is longer than the thumb. And the nameless one on both legs is slightly bent below the middle one. It really sucks, but I have to get used to it. Are there professionals who can help me?
I'm also like that and my index finger is much longer than my big toe and my shoes become like calluses on my toes and I also have a lot of complexes, that's why I don't want to wear slippers in the summer, I still think that someone will make fun of me even I was once asked why they are like that, my toes became very naughty, but I answered because they are like that, and that's it.
Well, what kind of nonsense was that and my index finger is longer than my thumb, but I don't care if my fingers don't make a man !!! Everyone has some complexes most often for the body no one is perfect .... so what do you care. Who is looking at your feet. As long as you are exposed and they make fun of my finger, but I do not pay attention to them
Hi, and I have a longer middle toe even slightly curved. I was also depressed at first, but it all worked out. All the boys tell me how beautiful I am and how they want me to be with them and they constantly whistle my cars on the streets and I realized that this is my least problem. And it is said that people with a longer middle toe have the most correct gait.
This is absolute nonsense! It's perfectly normal! My boyfriend's toes are the same and I don't find it striking or unnatural. Don't worry about nonsense! :))) It's very cute even to be different and when we stand next to each other the complexes are transformed into well-meaning jokes ... CALM ...
My fingers are just like yours. But I have never been ashamed of them. I even named them. HAHAHA
Hello, I want to ask you if you can help me, so far I have no problem with my toes but they are my problem when putting on the shoes my toes are more or less equal but my enamel and my ring toes rest on my shoes and that I have a big problem I have a problem with my thumbs and nails, they are not tight, but then: ?????
Abe, look at Anelia's fingers and then tell me that you have a problem, I've been dreaming all my life that my second finger is longer than the first, but alas, mine is shorter and don't tell me what to do.
The simple truth is that you have a complex, based on a really SMALL flaw in appearance. People hardly look at your fingers. Adora
I also have a problem with my toes - my puppies are crooked. But do you know how much I care? Relax your soul, do not be complexed by nonsense. --- Jesse ---
I have a friend who cut off a woman for exactly the same thing .... I'm not saying it's right, but who knows why I always pay attention right there in the summer .... I'm a woman, heterosexual, and I really like my toes and fingers .... I find them sexy and I really think it's important .... and otherwise the easiest is .... walk with closed shoes .... well nail polish, well pedicure ... where do they go ... it's really awful ... and on the occasion of 23 ... I'll tell you ... they look at each other ... I don't want to hurt you, on the contrary ... I'm just honest ... Zara36
The Parable of the Two Pitchers A water carrier in India had two pitchers. He carried them hanging on either side of a long pole that ran over his shoulders. One pitcher was cracked. The sturdy pitcher always arrived full from the long journey from the stream to the master's house, and the cracked one was half empty. This was repeated every day for two years. Naturally, the healthy pitcher was proud to do with dignity what it was created for. And the cracked one was ashamed that she could only do half of what she was made for. One day at the spring she said to the porter: "I am ashamed of myself and I want to apologize to you. "Why?" The porter asked. "What are you ashamed of?" "For these two years, because of my crack, I delivered to the master's house only half the water he poured. You did your job conscientiously, but because of my shortcoming he did not receive full remuneration. Said the pitcher. The porter reassured her and said, "Now, as we walk to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the way. As they climbed the hill, the old cracked pitcher noticed a row of sun-warmed beautiful flowers and liked them very much. But at the end of the road, she was sad again, because half the water had leaked again and she began to apologize to the porter again. And he said, "Did you notice there were flowers only on your side of the road?" This is because I, knowing about your shortcoming, turned it into an advantage. I sowed flowers on your side of the road, and every day as I returned from the stream, you watered them unknowingly. During these two years I plucked from these beautiful flowers and decorated the master's table with them. If you weren't what you are, he would not have this beauty in his home. Each of us has a unique flaw. We are all cracked pitchers. But thanks to our cracks and shortcomings, we live together, complementing each other and thus our life becomes more interesting and fulfilling. Instead of bothering with a longer toe, look at the flowers on your side of the road :)) (some people pray for a foot, for a healthy heart, for a kidney!) By the way, the symbolism of the second toes in divination is - passion, sensuality, ambition, combativeness. What's better if these are your dominant impulses? :) :) :) Instead of bothering with a longer toe, look at the flowers on your side of the road :)) (some people pray for a foot, for a healthy heart, for a kidney!) By the way, the symbolism of the second toes in divination is - passion, sensuality, ambition, combativeness. What's better if these are your dominant impulses? :) :) :) Instead of bothering with a longer toe, look at the flowers on your side of the road :)) (some people pray for a foot, for a healthy heart, for a kidney!) By the way, the symbolism of the second toes in divination is - passion, sensuality, ambition, combativeness. What's better if these are your dominant impulses? :) :) :)
Eh, problems. I know so many people with such fingers. Some say that whoever had such fingers would be the seamstress in the house. But you are nobody impressed, these people are constantly around me. How can you worry about that, complete simplicity.
You're fine but what can I say? My toes are very ugly on my left foot, the penultimate toe has not grown for 3 years and I am very funny, I am ashamed of my feet. You're fine, even I like fingers like yours and I've always dreamed of normal fingers! :( but it seems impossible.
It was easy for many people to have it. Look at Nina Dobrev, she also has such a problem, but who impresses her is still beautiful. There are many serious disabilities, yours is not a concern at all. I wouldn't even pay attention to him. Honestly!
Don't worry I also have a toe complex. On my left foot, my 4th toe is smaller than my forefinger and even higher than my long toes. The first three are long for me and 4 and 5 are small. My complex is when I put shoes open in front and I have to see the 4 toes and I can see 3 and empty. And on my right foot my 4th toe is smaller but not strikingly like my left. And I have the same complex as you when I go somewhere I want slippers or I try to be with socks or almost always with closed shoes. It has already happened that someone who sees me will make fun of me. I am also ashamed of my toes.
Don't worry, most people have their fingers like that. ;)
Eh ... what can I say then - I hope you calm down after what I will share with you. I am a girl and for me the case is much worse. I have always been ashamed of my legs and I really have a reason. 1st: my toes are as thick as a man's - disgusting 2nd: on my right foot my middle toe is longer than the second one, and on my left it is not so and you can guess what the difference is .. 3rd : my toes on both feet are radically different as if you were looking at 2 different feet and one thicker with one nail shape, the other with another .... Freaky story-don't ask what's wrong with me ... girls are more vain I don't know if you can even imagine what a problem I have. I hope you have overcome this complex at least a little, especially after my example, I prefer to be like you than with my fingers, but ....
Haha, don't think you're the only one
Hello, I see that the topic is old and I still read about finger shortening surgery? Maybe you have heard of a woman who had such an operation, I do not remember from which country it was exactly there are photos on the net. I wonder if they really perform this service and then how it goes I do not know, but it sounds terribly painful and if they cripple ... wow ... My index and middle are longer than everyone else and I'm very disgusted and nauseous and even and from the length of the heel, obviously I have some problem with the feet in general because since I was little I have pain in them, especially in rainy weather. I wonder if they actually do this operation whether to take the risk. Would you or do you think it's crazy?
Wow ... She's really old. Who dug it out of the dust? !! Author, you can't change anything, but you know, every evil for good, you can be smarter!