Hello, about three years ago my best friend found a girlfriend. They were together for about a year and we went out together. Then she caught another and is still with him. I lost all connection with her, we didn't even say hello. Earlier this year, I enrolled in extracurricular classes and she was there. Little by little we started making friends again and going out with her company. Everything was great, I only had friendly feelings, but we started writing to each other every day and soon I fell in love with her. I also admitted my feelings, she accepted it quite normally, although she was disappointed that I was not the real friend she thought I was, but I liked her. We kept writing, I became more and more attached to her and I told her. She assured me that my feelings would stop, but on the contrary. I was very jealous when she spent time or wrote to her boyfriend. We went out with the company, but I couldn't stand it. Before I fell in love with her, I considered him a real friend, but it so happened that I hated him. Only the two of us knew about my feelings for her, but our other friends began to doubt that I liked her. I also said that I love her and will fight for her, but quite often I feel hurt and I feel super sick. It really means a lot to me, but it hurts a lot. I think all the time. My question is whether to continue my contact with her and fight or interrupt everything to forget her. but quite often I feel hurt and I feel super sick. It really means a lot to me, but it hurts a lot. I think all the time. My question is whether to continue my contact with her and fight or interrupt everything to forget her. but quite often I feel hurt and I feel super sick. It really means a lot to me, but it hurts a lot. I think all the time. My question is whether to continue my contact with her and fight or interrupt everything to forget her.
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This girl obviously doesn't like you and you have no chance for anything more than friendship with her. No matter how hard you fight, you will achieve nothing but annoy her and eventually she will block you and erase you from her life. Accept the refusal with dignity and direct your efforts to another object.
If you want I will write you a more detailed comment, but my advice is to stop trying it. First, because she doesn't see you like that right now, she has a boyfriend, and you're just making life difficult for both of you. Secondly, because life is strange, and just if you stop explaining yourself to her, then she may like you. Don't put too much hope that something will ever happen, but stopping explaining yourself to her is the absolute winning option right now. Go out with whatever company you want, watch other women, and enjoy life.