I am very shy. These days I'm starting to get more and more shy. When I walk the corridors of the school, I always walk with my head bowed, as if I'm afraid someone might offend me or something. Once, even while I was walking like that, I missed my VAT and I would have passed it if she hadn't pulled me aside. I walk everywhere with a fear and I have no self-confidence as if I am a rejected being from the world. I really feel that way and I feel super sick. In the old school I was ridiculed and insulted even though my mother was a teacher there and everyone was afraid of her. I responded to their insults and I didn't care, but now it's as if I've developed some kind of trauma and I'm ashamed or more afraid to lift my head and walk like normal people. Constantly, especially at school, I constantly look at the ground some time ago, I was even afraid to leave the room and go to the food bar. Sometimes I want to curl up in a ball and no one sees me, to be invisible. I don't want to be like that, but I can't, I try, but it doesn't work. Please give me some advice. I'm really sick. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like a geek.
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... I'm very glad that you are sick hahada, I want you to be, all Bulgarians I am a Bulgarian
I very much doubt that this is just shyness. In my opinion, this is an anxiety disorder, social anxiety (social phobia), perhaps in its infancy. It is best to consult a specialist as soon as possible, because it is very likely that you will soon fall into severe depression. I tell you from personal experience. The earlier you are treated, the more successful and better it will be for you. Otherwise you will not be able to live a normal and full life.
Dude, what are these dumb teen cuts? NDP? Do you know how I understood it? Don't Get Fat More !!! And she was my best friend ... Learn a culture.
From comment number 1 I am now comment number 4 delete my comments Thank you
Number 1 and number 3 were stupid, don't you understand that the girl wants advice, why did you go to attack her already? !! Dear girl, I understand you, I have the same problems and now, I walk without paying attention to anyone, if they insult me or something - I hide from shame - like you. I am a boy
Comment 5 I'm right I admit my mistake I apologize, the author I'm not insensitive like most Bulgarians aren't, I'm selfish and a user I can always, yes, I sympathize with, every person I've experienced the same at school I know how bad it is
From number 5 Well received.
Look in the mirror and speak positively about yourself. It has a great effect after a few days.
Girl, imagine climbing stairs you don't know the number of, you can't look at how many are left, but upstairs is the thing you've decided to be at the moment. You will do WHAT YOU NEED to do, whether you feel sick or not. You will move UP the stairs. You may even start to feel even worse. But you will not stop. Only when you get up will you understand the truth of many things. Know that you have to do it and think of yourself in the third person. Imagine being able to see yourself from a distance and see how bent you are. You will need time and energy. Maybe the people around you are used to seeing you so blown away. And it will be difficult to "rewrite". But first you have to rewrite the way you treat yourself. No treading on the same ladder. No descent to a lower ladder.