Hello to everyone who visits this site! I am a 15 year old girl and I go with a 19 year old boy. I'm very worried that he only wants sex, and I haven't done it before and I don't know how and what to tell him. Please give me advice !!!
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If he doesn't know that you are a virgin, tell him and when you are ready, give yourself to him. I'm your age and I did so and I'm not sorry.
I don't know how long you've been together, but if you're not ready, don't do it, if you're ready, just take a risk. Don't expect that when you grow up there will be no men who will want to be with you just for sex. And about how and what to tell him. I think the words are unnecessary, just give in to the moment.
If you don't want to do it, you decide whether to do it with this person or not. Really choose the boy who will be your first!
IF YOU ARE NOT SURE, YOU DON'T HAVE TO - YOU MUST DO IT. AND IF THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING FOR HIM, SO HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ENOUGH. I THINK SO, BUT YOU STILL DECIDE FOR YOURSELF. SUCCESS!
DEAR, IF YOU ARE NOT READY FOR THIS, DON'T DO IT FOR GOOD! LISTEN TO YOUR HEART, IT WILL TELL YOU HOW TO ACT.
Don't you think he's too big to be your first? Just explain your concern to him and he needs to understand you and if he really loves you he will be ready to wait for you until you ask him to have sex yourself.
It's not big at all, in my opinion, it's better to do it with someone who has enough experience than with a little bit of your age or a little bigger
If you are not ready yet then it will be much harder for you :)
If it's your first time, I think you should find a boy who won't talk about it, because it would suck for you otherwise if you're sure he won't tell anyone you're on the move.
How can you go with him and he only wants sex. He really only wants sex. He will take advantage of you and dump you. As usual. Don't let him, if he likes you, I won't break up with you because you didn't let him. But if you don't feel ready, but you want it, start with something like French love. Tell him you're not ready and you want to start with French love. Then go on your toes to get used to the pain and finally if you are ready let him go. But my advice is not to do it when you are young, but these are the steps so that it doesn't hurt so much and so the anxiety will slowly disappear.