I'm a girl of 15 :). My problem is that my girlfriends (3) all three have friends (boyfriends), and only I don't. Last summer we went out with one of my 3 girlfriends, because the other 2 had already found each other and still they hadn't forgotten not to look for me to go out, but I was stupid to go out with them, because they are with their friends. just to "annoy". But here that my other friend, with whom we were together all summer, found a friend. And I have no one to go out with. I feel disgusted. But just to say this friend, I don't just want him to have someone to go out with ... I want to know what it is because I haven't had one so far. I'm just blaming myself and maybe since September last year I'm not the same person. I accuse myself of being ugly, fat, etc. I started killing complexes. I started to treat people as if they were my fault, to ignore and repel people who were trying to help me in some way and give me advice. My friends used to tell me that falling in love didn't happen like that ... and that when I least expect it, it will happen to me and I will be very happy. But I can't go through it ... Please give me advice :(
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Until your man comes, take care of yourself. Try to look better, but not for your eventual boyfriend, but for yourself ... to feel good in your skin. There is a lot of information on the Internet on how to improve our appearance. Just do not follow drastic diets that threaten you and make you gain weight. Be yourself, smile and everything will fall into place.
First of all, you will change throughout your life, this is because we want different things at different stages of our lives ... and as for friends, I have no acquaintances, but I hope you are lucky .... and don't think that you are getting fat or whatever takes care of your body and at the same time enrich your brain (not that you are simple but you will just feel better)
If you don't like yourself, the expected friend won't like you either. It may sound strange to you, but I'm your parents' age and I know from experience that when you like yourself, your demeanor and manner of communication are such that they somehow attract men. Exercise, be careful with nasty things like chips, cola and similar foods, which make the figure and skin problematic and do not create complexes. I noticed that they were the first to make friends and get married to my uglier acquaintances at the time. They were afraid of missing their chance, which led to divisions and divorces later.
Darling, don't get too complicated, this is very bad. Be sure that your man will come when you least expect it.
I'm a girl of 15 and I behave badly with people I don't care they only cause me PAIN
And I'm the same ... all my girlfriends have had several boyfriends so far, and I ... I like them, but they don't like me, which makes me very complex: We beat up three girlfriends and asked a boy which of us is the ugliest and of course who won the first place - I! .. But I have already learned not to care at all to show off and that's it: D