Hello! I have a really big problem that eats me from the inside out. A year ago the topic started that we could move, I was very depressed because I didn't want to at all, even my mother was very worried about me at one time, because she saw me very sour and sad when it came to that. We talked to her and I told her not to worry about leaving, but to know that I didn't want him. We left. My sister is older and stayed in Bulgaria. It can be said that I have learned the language, but I can't stand being here, I cry all day, my parents don't see me, I don't want to show it much, but I can't stand it anymore. At 16, however, I think I can no longer live here, I really want to return to Bulgaria again. I know my parents think well of me here, about my education and the job I would have here, but I can't force myself, I don't feel good here, I only stay because of them. I wanted to hear your opinion. How to talk to my mother, I want to tell her something very promising, with which she would let me go to Bulgaria and lead a happy life, I can live with my sister, I am responsible enough and they can count on me
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Is it nice to write what you do there? Are you studying? For how long? You missed some of the important information for us, but I really see that it is hard for you there and you want to pour out your grief here, rather than looking for real advice. That's how I felt abroad. If you never even wanted to go there, it's the worst. Because it is just patience. There is nothing else. Try to endure legally making decisions about your life until you graduate and reach old age. This education in BG will be useful to you, if nothing else. Until then, try to get together with Bulgarians. It will be a little easier for you. Find a hobby on the Internet, it will take you away from reality, but time will pass faster. And when you're done, you'll be out of smoke. And don't care what yours tell you. I am convinced that the Bulgarian parent already thinks extremely materially and rarely raises his children well. I know a LOT of people who have returned from Germany and do not want to hear more about it. Most of them are capable and have a good job, both here and now they are satisfied and happy, despite the clichés that say how beautiful Europe was. Boldly forward and I wish you more patience. Everything will be fine!
At the age of 16 you already have the right to choose your education and change your school. Just leave school abroad and move to your old school. You will live in your old home. Just tell your this. In fact, they took you not to provide you with a good future, as parents usually justify (everyone forges the future for themselves), but so that they are not alone abroad. Let them earn well abroad, but you have the right to choose to live where you come from.
Girl, I've been an immigrant for 17 years. I have been in Bulgaria for ten years, and I do not stop thanking God for bringing me back here. The more you allow this torture to continue, the more you endanger your dignity and resilience as a person. It is wonderful in Bulgaria, do not listen to complaints and do not succumb to fears. My son, who had spent practically his entire life abroad, and who at first did not give a word to talk about returning, finally did it voluntarily (after staying with us for a year) and is now happy, rich and well-off. There is nothing better than the Motherland.
Find a way to motivate yourself. Each country will show you new things and enrich you. Take advantage, and when you graduate you will decide for yourself where you want to live. But your parents think the best of you and your future. Believe me, being a teenager in BG nowadays is very dangerous. My sister became a lazy egoist thinking only what new to wear tomorrow to impress her 5 former teachers and her grumpy classmates. I hadn't kissed at her age. Tell us which country you are in and we will offer you ways to have fun and learn new things. But do not return to Bulgaria for now. In time, you will look back and see how different and great a person you have become, a place where the police, the media, doctors, teachers are still people who inspire respect.
Hi, I didn't see you write. I am in Spain, I study here, in principle, my plans are at least to finish here, but I want to study psychology, and I know that this in Bulgaria is a little less serious and there is no development in this environment. Otherwise, they let me go home here and there on vacation. However, I just feel alive in Bulgaria. Do you think that if I finish high school here and return to Bulgaria for a university, it makes sense, because in principle people go to study abroad for the university. I know my mother won't let me go home now, but I told her that if I was 18 I would have packed up and left, and she told me that when I was 18 I would decide I wouldn't could ..