Hi, I'm a 26 year old girl. All my life I have never ended with a man or a woman, I only get orgasms when I masturbate alone. I've been with women more, they turn me on, but when they touch me I don't feel anything :( I'm angry that I can't cum, I have a girlfriend who doesn't masturbate and has the same problem ?! What could be the reason? , I really want it, but it doesn't work and that's it.
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It's in your gourd. Physically, there's no way you can finish by rubbing it, and someone licking you can't. Trying your girlfriend stimulates you clitoris with your tongue and vaginally with a finger or two. Be in the mood and keep it rhythmic and constant. You can't help but finish. See if you complained that you can't just come from vaginal stimulation, come and go, but the other thing is the same. Brother.
First girl of 26 years ???? Soon at 30, but girl, interesting ... Secondly - when women touch you you don't feel anything, in my opinion you are not the opposite. Try with an experienced man, let him play with you more time, then while you do it rub your clitoris and it should work.
Same with me. I haven't done with a woman and I haven't even thought about it. I had a relationship with about a dozen men. I have only been with my husband for 12 years. I've always liked sex, but I only finish alone, for a minute, at most two. I helped myself with alcohol, relaxed, tense, cheerful, anxious, it doesn't work and it doesn't work. I am already 43 years old. It could all be that I've been doing it since I was very young, maybe 5th, 6th grade. I experienced my first orgasm much later. I have come to terms with the attitude that this will always be the case and I am not unhappy about it. Again, sex with my husband brings me pleasure even without reaching the end, I do it separately, sometimes more often, sometimes less often.
Today my girlfriend ended up with a man (from me) for the first time. I'm her second. She was intimate with the previous one for 2 months and there was nothing he could do for her. It was obtained from the first attempt (we did it a few hours ago). It took about ~ 40 minutes in total (yes, I was looking at the clock, I had to drive it on time). The key point was that I made her be on top. She hadn't done it before, and at the missionary we just felt that we weren't comfortable (the dull mattress was too soft). So, she sat on top, started experimenting and caught a rhythm that grew into a trance for her (she started biting her lips, breathing deeply) and finally after 20 minutes she finished ... Finally we talked about it, I wanted to know what she felt. He said that when the missionary did it, there was not enough stimulation. When on top, the movements she made led her to the finals (and she even said it was tiring). De facto, as she is on top, she has complete control over the angle of penetration, and she herself can direct things and set the pace to finish. Author, I hope I helped with something!
№ 2 not so, do not confuse the girl! NOT all women can clit clitorally with oral stimulation! For example, the strength of my tongue or the sucking of my lips is not enough for me. Yes, it's very nice, but that's it - I can't do it. I just need stronger stimulation / rubbing / vibration / or whatever you want to call it there. So please do not speak so incompetently on behalf of all women!
Twinning, of course, is possible if the partner does not know how to stimulate. Or do you say that no matter how they swallow it, you will end up, even if it sucks in pain or clenches its teeth? Beyond that, I agree that it is very important to relax. Author, in order for the work to happen, you have to be excited, and this will not happen if you tighten up. From then on, understand that when you masturbate, you first feel where, how and how much you need to stimulate, and your partner does not have this orientation. Second, if you are used to ending up with a shower or something vibrating, it is very difficult for your partner to bring such a strong stimulus. Therefore, first start guiding your partner by reacting appropriately and directing his actions directly. Second, you need to compensate for the lower level of stimulation with higher arousal. However, you have another person with you and this in itself is much more exciting than a device or your fingers. Find out what excites you the most and try it. You can also try not to masturbate for a while, this will make you more aroused and it will be easier for you to cum from less. Success!
How do you finish, do you squeeze?
8, let's read in more detail. :) "To try your girlfriend stimulates you clitoris with the tongue and vaginally with a finger or two." Exactly because I wrote this to be double-stimulated so that there is no emptiness. Women who have been with more than 15 people have never cummed and thought that cumming with a man is an urban legend ... they cummed many times before me. So just because a woman can't cum does NOT mean that a woman can't cum. Anyone, as long as they are not frigid, can do it!
To number 8. I absolutely agree, with clitoral stimulation with the tongue I ended up with only one partner, and I was not with two or three. I love to be licked, but I only finished with him, he tried a hell of a lot, he licked me for 30 minutes! It brought me a supreme orgasm, unfortunately most men don't care for that long ...