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I Can't Be In A Relationship For Very Long

By asingleletter September 09, 2020 6 answers Last updated September 09, 2020

Hi, I'm a 17-year-old girl. I'm the type of person who likes to have fun and can't be with one person for a long time. That's how I feel it. There are a lot of guys who change their boyfriend very often. They last one month and then another. And I'm a girl and I wonder what the boys think of such a girl? Please answer honestly. PP: And I didn't do it. And without the haters calling. Please let the moderators post.

Answers 6

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stuivailala answered · September 09, 2020

   I'm not surprised, girls run away from serious relationships. You are not one of those who like to have fun, you are another slob.

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velma_as answered · September 09, 2020

   "and I wonder what the boys think of such a girl?" In a word "buzzer";) You will get a name (if you did not get it) then even if you want you will not have a long relationship;)

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dominvega answered · September 09, 2020

   You can't be in a relationship for long because you don't want a relationship, you want passion. If you really loved the one next to you, you wouldn't get bored. You just want kisses and pressure, people like you don't deserve a valuable man.

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ari_muffin answered · September 09, 2020

   Obviously, it will be difficult to start cutting your ax in one place twice. In my opinion, you are not a "buzzer", but you just haven't met the right person, you decide that you are "in love" too quickly and you want passion like chalga songs, and you probably prefer your friends and hobbies to the person next to you, and when you play with the person, you simply justify that this is not the person for you. It is neither embarrassing nor scary to be alone until you meet the right person, you can have fun in many other ways and you know it very well. In my eyes, this type of people are immature for a relationship (if you want to be 71, the years are not a certificate for anyone like that.) And they are too primary to deserve something real next to them.

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kimagloss answered · September 09, 2020

   From the author. Just to say about the haters. I'm a teenager after all. At this age one must try. I don't need a serious relationship because I'm only 17 years old. I prefer to try some things now. As long as I turn 50 and only then do them. Teenagers in general are like that.

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jeff_diaz answered · September 09, 2020

   It's just that no one has really liked you so far. It's good, at least, that you're not inclined to sleep with these boys / men. In my opinion, you should not get in touch with men who you don't really like, because they are human beings too, and when they find out that you didn't really like them, but you allowed your relationship to be defined as a 'relationship', with they certainly suffer a lot from this and get angry because they feel deceived, their ego is hurt. Here, the comments published so far sound just like boys affected by your topic, and this is an expected reaction, because it is part of human nature. It's best to look at your relationship with these guys as a 'friendship' rather than a 'relationship'. Just so you know, I'm not judging you, I'm just advising you.