Hello. M. writes to you at the age of 24, who needs advice or just to be heard. For as long as I can remember, I have always been "different" and I have had to fight many battles. On the playground, in kindergarten, at school, at university, etc. This way of life tired me a long time ago and I lost the spark that made me laugh. I experienced so many disappointments, betrayals and failures that I lost faith in people. Now I live only day for day, lev for lev and line for line. I am a void wrapped in Versace. Depression and loneliness became my best friends. Sometimes I sleep, but more often I don't. It's like I'm cursed not to experience any of the good things in life. Until 2 days ago, I thought I had found the "right" one, but it turned out to be another disappointment. I just deleted it from my life right now without giving any explanation, and inside I was torn into thousands of pieces. The pain was terrible. I'd rather be knocked down with a knee in my head and then have my arm torn off with an arm bar than have to feel that feeling again. Anyway ... and that's what I went through.
Why am I not like the others? So to accept betrayals, to forgive, to be soft, to be frivolous, to make compromises, to listen to chalga, to drink nasty alcohol, to take down stars and to drool. I can't be like that ... my principles don't allow it. I am clearly doomed to loneliness and pain for life. It is good that my business and training have ended my suffering so far. Even the fact that I have been the head of the family since I was 15 and without me they will not be able to cope in life would not stop me from doing so. Very selfish of me. Over the years, I realized that serious people have no right to happiness. How not to shake? How not to fight? How to trust people? How to sleep? How not to be lonely? Unfortunately, there is no way ... I am sorry for my complaint and I know that there are people with much more serious problems than mine, but there is simply no one to share it with.
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Just change your negative attitude towards the world, because otherwise you will still attract such garbage people to yourself. You don't have to be a drunk, a rascal or a drug addict, but no one has said that you still have to be the "strong". Why don't you just start doing the things you want? Train yourself, you probably have other hobbies, and if not - find yourself, that's how you will find friends with common interests! And one more thing, yes, for friends - I have a lot of respect for people like you, who instead of getting involved in intrigue, delete the garbage from their lives. Glad you're like that, not someone * !!! And just look for intelligent people with common topics of conversation, interests, views. Such people are not usually found in bars, but rather in interest clubs, libraries, etc. There are decent girls there, not cheap rags.
What does "like the others" mean? No one is like anyone else, everyone is unique. You make a mistake by looking for your happiness outside, from someone else. Happiness is never outside, it is not in other people and circumstances. It is in us, if we can find it ... Otherwise I understand you, and I have experienced it. Many times I thought, eh, why am I not like this ... then I saw that this and that are no better than me, nor happier ... and life made me realize that happiness does not located outside.
Work on the plots more so that they sound realistic and casual. ;) F 31
Over the years, I realized that serious people have no right to happiness. I liked this sentence very much, the more you are "firmly on the ground", the more you realize things, the worse and unhappy you are. I recently read an article in which you write, the smarter a person is, the fewer friends he has, and when I think about it, I remembered an acquaintance who constantly goes up and down with friends, her face is full of friends again, which it's not a guarantee, but ... he always talks on the phone, but it's so simple that I have no words. She doesn't even realize some things that happen to her in life and because she doesn't understand them, the woman is happy. Just calm down, for a start, look for your environment, your hobby, what makes you happy. There are really terrible people in Bulgaria, such as mentality, upbringing,
I fully understand you, it is not easy to be different from others. But, you don't have to be like them. Be yourself!!
Number 2, he said it well. Congratulations to her! As for you ... Ahhh ... "I'm not like others" - if I received 1 penny every time someone shook it ... Except for the fact that even the most stupid, backward and degraded have in something different and no one is like the others, people can be divided into several social groups and if that will calm you down, "different" stranger at 24, you fit perfectly into one of them. XD Yes, people who are not like others, those pessimists, vicious, depressed, angry, offended, disappointed, supposedly serious, constantly frowning man, to whom the whole "cruel" and "evil" world is constantly guilty of something, because he has appointed them and he wants to take away their happiness ... Well, they also have their own group. : D Anyway ... "For these years I realized that serious people have no right to happiness. "So you've wasted your life ... It's not scary! It's never too late. Just forget it and try again!" I'm obviously doomed to loneliness and pain for life. Well, obviously, once you've decided that. It's a little funny, but on the other hand, it's a little sad how people refuse to take responsibility for their lives, decide they're "doomed" to suffer, and so condemn themselves. And who am I to criticize them? If they like me, it shouldn't be a problem. And now the denouement! (I don't know what exactly the denouement I'm talking about, but it must be at least a little epic.) It's high time you got married in your hands. The situation you are in - you are to blame for it. People are not to blame, the world is not to blame. You can continue to blame them, but this will not solve the problem. No matter how angry you are, no matter how much you don't forgive, no matter how much you hate, no matter how much you get depressed, you will only harm yourself. I don't know what betrayals you are talking about, but if your friends avoid you, don't you think that the reason is not in them, but that you repel them with something? And no? You don't have to be frivolous, listen to chalga, snort like a dragon (even though they don't drink alcohol), etc. Just do what you like (unless you like torturing animals and people, and mass executions and serial killings XD). This way you will both have fun and you will not have to go against your principles. However, with negativity and a depressive way of thinking, you will get nowhere. So, you get to the bottom, you degrade seriously, you can go crazy and end up committing suicide. Maybe it's scripts for some base drama, however, it doesn't seem like a pleasant experience to me (it's almost the same as peeing against the wind XD), but to you? Well, Number 2, you hinted at the path to happiness, and whether you will be happy or not is entirely up to you. It's high time you took responsibility and took matters into your own hands, don't you think? By the way, I almost forgot towards the end what your story was and that's why I gave it to general stories. But most of these stories are similar and usually, I always have to repeat the same thing, so I guess it will work anyway. : D what was your story and that's why I gave it to general stories. But most of these stories are similar and usually, I always have to repeat the same thing, so I guess it will work anyway. : D what was your story and that's why I gave it to general stories. But most of these stories are similar and usually, I always have to repeat the same thing, so I guess it will work anyway. : D