I can't drink alcohol. Not that I can't, but I don't like it! That's why my friends ignore me, harass me in some way and hate me! Help me I want to stop this !!!
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I don't like it either and that's why I don't drink. I can't figure out what you want to stop - your intolerance to alcohol or bullying from friends? You cannot force yourself to do something you do not want to do, therefore even if you pour yourself, you will not feel any pleasure and you will become a laughing stock when you get drunk. And if they ignore - do not call these people YOUR friends.
Think about what kind of friends you have! I'm a girl of 15, my girlfriends are 16-17 or 18, they made me smoke because they smoke, some of them less often, they drink, but I don't want both. When I refused to do this, they accepted it, they do not ignore me. If they are real friends, they need to understand you. If they don't, just think about whether these are your friends.
Everyone can drink and smoke, then everyone is looking for the easy, you remember. The trick is not to be like the sheep, to run with the flock. If you were good friends, they would respect you. If you don't like it - you don't drink, you don't have to comply with sulo and pullo all your life just to fit into "society". When you're in company, make them pour for you, you don't have to drink, you pretend to give a toast and that's it.
If you don't like it and don't want to drink - don't drink. I don't see what the problem is. None of your friends can tell you what to like and what not to like. I also don't drink a drop of alcohol and my friends are used to it.
You don't have to do something just to please others. If you have a desire, start yourself little by little and you will get used to it.
If you can't drink, then it's not for you, if your friends don't like you, then they are not your friends, find others.
Change friends, it's simple. If they make fun of a person who doesn't drink, then they are complete losers.
Change friends! A friend is a person who accepts you as you are. If you have to change in order to be liked and to do something against your will, then these people are not your real friends. And learning to drink can only drag you down in the future. "Better alone than badly accompanied!"
Well, what's wrong with NOT drinking alcohol, on the contrary, it's even better for you, and when it comes to your friends, don't go with them anymore, they don't help you at all.