Hello, Boy, I am almost 21 years old and I have a huge problem in life - I can't fight. My last fight was a friendly fight with a friend in 6th grade and he beat me. I haven't fought anyone since because I can't. Basically, there were some nasty guys who were harassing everyone and no one dared to lean on them. There were also some idiots in high school who made fun of me, and I just put up with it. Hundreds of times I imagined how I beat them all and how the whole school and especially the girls started looking at me with different eyes, but unfortunately I was left with only dreams. Because I'm weak. I am 1.87 m tall and weigh 82 kg. but I am very skinny, I have no muscles and I am completely defenseless. And lately, bad things have been happening to me. Last year, some football hooligans started pushing me at the bus stop and asking me for money. Ok that my bus arrived on time and I got out. Last month, some drunk (probably shaken) guys in a car pulled out a bat for me and a friend. If they weren't having fun, they would come down and break our heads. Lately, some random guys with apparently criminal faces have been talking to me on the street. So far, I still miss it, but I know it won't always be like that. The time will come when I will eat my paint, but I don't know when it will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic. Last month, some drunk (probably shaken) guys in a car pulled out a bat for me and a friend. If they weren't having fun, they would come down and break our heads. Lately, some random guys with apparently criminal faces have been talking to me on the street. So far, I still miss it, but I know it won't always be like that. The time will come when I will eat my paint, but I don't know when it will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic. Last month, some drunk (probably shaken) guys in a car pulled out a bat for me and a friend. If they weren't having fun, they would come down and break our heads. Lately, some random guys with apparently criminal faces have been talking to me on the street. So far, I still miss it, but I know it won't always be like that. The time will come when I will eat my paint, but I don't know when it will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic. they would come down and break our heads. Lately, some random guys with apparently criminal faces have been talking to me on the street. So far, I still miss it, but I know it won't always be like that. The time will come when I will eat my paint, but I don't know when it will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic. they would come down and break our heads. Lately, some random guys with apparently criminal faces have been talking to me on the street. So far, I still miss it, but I know it won't always be like that. The time will come when I will eat my paint, but I don't know when it will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic. but I don't know when that will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic. but I don't know when that will be, and I'm going crazy with anxiety. So far I have not had a girlfriend, I am shy and if one day I have and she has problems, I will not be able to protect her. An oriental martial arts hall was opened next to us, but I don't have the money to enroll, and it will be years before I learn, and I don't have that much time. What to do? Give advice. Please edit the topic.
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Find video tutorials on self-defense on the Internet, and when you have the opportunity - enroll in such a course.
Hello - you have to train to become stronger, it's a matter of survival. If you do not strengthen and do not overcome this will have huge consequences for your psyche, it will hinder you on all fronts in life. You can't allow this, you have to train to be able to survive psychologically otherwise hard on you. You have no other option. Weight training and if you can't - buckets and dials, everything has to be done very, very slowly and with a full range of repetitions, no half movements, fast and ballistic repetitions enough to beat the numbers. Slowly and under control, such training is difficult, but will force the body to become stronger and healthier. Read articles about training and nutrition.
1, 87 m and weighs 82 kg. [...] completely defenseless There is a problem, but it is not in the muscles.
Wait, it's not said you have to be Jackie Chan. For people who do not master hand-to-hand combat, firearms have been created. Get a PM (Makarova pistol) because lead is heavier than anything :) And for those who have bullied you at school, I will tell you the following. The point was not that you can't fight, you're just afraid to do it because they will beat you. You could have stalked them one by one with a heavy blunt object on the head with a single blow. But you are not brave, my friend. Even if you wore a black karate belt, you wouldn't have the courage to use it. The battle is above all in the head, in being confident in yourself, in believing in yourself. They weren't MMA champions either, but they had a huge advantage. FEELING!
It's not normal that you should be able to at all, but there are guys who manage to get Darwin right with their behavior and that's why you have to enroll in martial arts. From it you will take not only fighting skills, it is the psyche that is being worked on. But even if you can beat someone, try to avoid them, we don't all have to be animals.