Hello. I'm a girl. I recently started masturbating, not with my hands, but with a massager. The problem is that I can't finish. I feel good for about a minute, but I can't finish. My question is how to prolong the pleasure?
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It is not enough to be stimulated, you must be excited. Try to fantasize about some things or watch porn. If it still doesn't work, the massager may simply not have a strong enough vibration. Turn the handset on the shower and try with the jet from the hose, so you can adjust the strength of the stimulation. But you will still have to think about exciting things.
I agree with number 1, you have to imagine different things and also find a pose. For example, my stomach is the fastest. For the vibrator it can be very strong or fast, it is mine and I do not amplify it as much as possible because I cannot finish. Don't worry no problem, you may just need more time. And yes, you can also try only clitoral stimulation.
Only porn helps, play something that excites you and start massaging your clitoris
Try it with your hands. Play porn, watch for a while until you feel aroused, start lightly touching from below, but not directly on the clitoris, but around it. And so, little by little, you start to stimulate him and him as you feel good. Put some lubricant, for example some massage oil, almond or specially bought for the purpose. You will see that orgasm will strike you quickly ... If you do not know exactly where the clitoris is, you are just wasting your time, google in a photo to find out where to touch. Personally, I don't like to get inside while masturbating, but every woman is different. Good luck and remember that you must first figure out how to do it yourself before you expect a man to do it for you.
Like others, I say - the most important thing is to think about something exciting. And as for technology - I am from the older generation and as a child I was scared that if I touch the front I will get inflammation and get sick. I had taken it very seriously and when puberty started to want its own, I started masturbating by stroking my anus and breasts (as much as I had them). As a matter of fact, I still like to do it sometimes. I had to go to study in another city, after high school, and only then did my roommate tell me that there were other ways. I have no experience with massagers or toys. Maybe the vibration is too strong and rough?
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