Two years ago I went with a man I still can't forget. Our relationship was very close and beautiful but with two obstacles - he was married with three children and was a Muslim. They started to suspect that I had a relationship with a person of this religion and I had a lot of problems, but nothing would make me break up because I loved him so much. I endured a lot of ridicule from everyone and I was very rejected but I didn't care because he was with me. One day he just told me - "I love you very much and I will always love you and that's why I want to separate. I want you to find a single man who will be only yours". These words pierced me and I knew that he did it out of love so that he would not see how I suffered when he came home to them every time. He proved that he loved me and that he still loves me. He called me recently and told me "I love you so much I couldn't forget you". But there is already a difference - I started a family with a child and a man from whom I was attracted and I thought I would forget the other and it turned out to be a temporary attraction but I already have a child and there is no going back. I love the other so much that I don't know what to do and he loves me but there are children who should not suffer. We met him at the wrong time and I believe that when we die we will be together in eternity. Please help me what to do. I can't stop loving him. Please help me what to do. I can't stop loving him. Please help me what to do. I can't stop loving him.
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A very complicated and sad story. But I think you have to fight for your love, not to suppress your feelings, because that way you will never be happy, and life is one ... I wish you success from the bottom of my heart, do not give up happiness alone, please!
Live your love with the man you love, let it be what it will be!
God, how much sorrow there is in this world, God. :(
Stay with your husband, you will not find a better father for your child. The other only offers you sex, and your husband offers you a home.
I agree that you will not find a better father for your child, but do you have to struggle all your life and turn your back on your personal happiness?
Hello, if you fight for love as everyone advises and you succeed, then you will hardly be happy for a long time because his children will hate you, his wife, wives and relatives. Think hard before you do anything. I'm 16 and you're unlikely to take my comment seriously but I have logical thinking, so the short-lived happiness of the two of you and the hatred of at least five other people is ridiculous. You are just late, but when you fall in love with a relationship, the consequences are nightmarish. Good luck!!! Still (and I apologize if there are any mistakes).
I would tell you to stay with your husband and child if the other used you. But he has proved to you that he loves you when he himself has asked you to seek your happiness elsewhere with someone who will be only yours. And you tried, but failed. This tells me personally that you shouldn't have given up on your love, but you wouldn't have understood it if you hadn't. It is very cruel to lie to your husband if he loves you and trusts you, very much! And I do not advise you to do so, you may have to tell him the truth, but you cannot predict the consequences, because this is a very serious step. And the person you love will obviously not divorce ... But I still think that a person should follow what his heart dictates, even if he is wrong! You cannot suffer in silence all your life! It's not just about your loved one, over time the feelings may go away and you find a new love, but whether you cheat on your husband or not, you cheat on him - he has the right to find a woman who is entirely his, and you obviously can not be. You may have to wait a while to see how your marriage will develop, but I don't see much future in it. You're ready to divorce if you have to, I guess. And would the other man make a sacrifice too, or does he expect you to ruin your marriage, to have everything poured out only on you and to be his mistress again? Because if so, I don't know if this man is worth it at all! but I don't see much future in it. You're ready to divorce if you have to, I guess. And would the other man make a sacrifice too, or does he expect you to ruin your marriage, to have everything poured out only on you and to be his mistress again? Because if so, I don't know if this man is worth it at all! but I don't see much future in it. You're ready to divorce if you have to, I guess. And would the other man make a sacrifice too, or does he expect you to ruin your marriage, to have everything poured out only on you and to be his mistress again? Because if so, I don't know if this man is worth it at all!
You have to fight for your LOVE, don't give up. There is always tomorrow and there is always great love.
"Love is a toothache" according to the German poet Heine. To stop hurting, the tooth must be extracted or the man must disappear forever from your life, not to see him and meet him at all. Then you will notice the person next to you, the father of your child. I advise you to read "Color Veil" by Somerset Maugham or watch the movie. Especially from the book there is something to learn. Do not fatalize the feeling, but look at the moments you miss every day.
number 4: I want to say that he did not offer me only sex, he brought the world down at my feet in every possible way, I never felt the second on absolutely all the holidays he was with me. And my husband lives with us, but I also answer to the others that when I sat down to talk to him on any topic, he changed because he reached out to hit.
Wow, dump that man right now! How am I going to hit you like that? By what right does he allow himself? Rogue! It is not enough that you have given birth to a child for him! ... Watch your personal happiness, dear, once you have found the love of your life, do not miss it! You will suffer all your life if you stay with your husband, who is also a rapist! Get him out of your life, but I think in your case, even your infidelity would be forgiven. You have nothing to regret!
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oh oh oh the story is very sad. :( I suggest you put the possibilities on the scales and check where it will lean. In one case you have love and in the other HOME, family child he will only prefer you to his wife but never to his children, his parents will never recognize you because of your religion, you are a fanatic.
It's been a while since your story, but I want to tell you that it's not worth ruining your family if the other person doesn't.
If he really loves her, then why, knowing that she has found her happiness, does he make her look back again? :))) Maybe he is not happy .. and wants to run away .. and she is the only way out.I believe in love ..., in my opinion religion can not prevent .. but how after they were separated for so long - she has found a man to love her, she already has a child, how only now did he remember that he still has feelings for her.
Love is for the simple!
You fall in love to death once in a lifetime only ... I die, I don't breathe and yet I don't forget you "Pain in minutes" Constantine and Desislava. Probably this is your great love in life. It hurts a lot, but try to be selfish and enjoy your life to the fullest.
It hurts a lot, like they tore a part of you off. I feel so sick looking at happy couples on the streets and wonder why my rice was never to be with him. I love him with all my heart and soul. I miss this geek a lot, a lot.
And I can't forget one person. He is also married with 2 children. I love him very much. I don't care about anyone else. It's been 2 years I haven't seen him, I haven't heard him, and my feelings are the same. I struggle a lot, I can't sleep, I cry, I have indiscriminate sex, I get drunk. Then I'm disgusted by the men I sleep with, I don't want to be hugged, I imagine him. If it was him, I wouldn't let him go. I never told him about my feelings, nor he about his, but love is not talked about, it is felt. I know that even if we see each other one day we will be like strangers, we have no right to love. That was my choice, not to break up a family, not to make children suffer. Make your choice too, but think carefully, because someone's destiny is in your hands.