Hello! I'm writing to you about a problem where I can't explain why it always happens and I can't get it out of my head. It's about a girl I liked for 4 years, we were together as friends and then we became boyfriends, but the point is that we broke up a year ago and I can't forget her, it's awful ... she deleted me from everywhere in her life and she didn't want. Is it normal in your opinion that I can't erase it from my mind for 1 year? Thanks in advance if you read and answer my story.
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Amii ... It's normal, but not quite. It is told to you by a person to whom it has happened. It was a long time before I realized that this was my obsession. Now that I am older and wiser, I realize how important it is to respect the other's decision to be without you. Worryingly, in a year and a half, my personal life had barely moved. It's a pity. I advise you not to get obsessed, because you have nothing to do. You broke up for a reason, your ex isn't perfect, and she's probably not your man. It is never the same.
Emmy, delete it and you, pretending to be very interesting, avoid seeing her at all, a little less nothing related to her will interest you, and if everything is perfect, she will not be interested either and you move on. This is normal.
I did not understand the chronology of the story at all, but on the other hand, your question was quite clear. Yes, it's normal that you can't just forget the love you've been feeling for a long time. You are not a robot, you are a human being, and there is nothing more human than to love and remember your loved ones. Give yourself time, suffer it. Relationships are usually remembered for a long time, but are overcome. Try to distract yourself more, keep busy and spend enough time on friends and hobbies. You will think of it, it will weigh on you, sometimes you will dream of it, but even that will pass.
I haven't seen her in 1 year and I can't see her because we are far away at the moment. And I have no friends
Just apologize