Girl, I'm 26 years old, I work. I had a friend, he replaced me with another girl secretly, but I understood and we immediately broke up. From that moment on, I feel terrible when I wake up and immediately want to fall asleep again just not to feel all this. I force myself to eat, I have no desire for make-up, going out, and I don't have time and almost no one. Just after we broke up, I went out and toured the places we went, old places and an awful lot of memories. I have photos and a bunch of presents from him at home, but my heart won't let me throw them away. I go to work with great reluctance, I don't like the people there, but I can't leave. Before, after every hard day I came home and I knew that there was a person waiting for me at home to talk a little, now when I come home it is empty, my phone also stopped ringing. We have mutual friends, they withdrew a little because of what had happened and stopped communicating with me. I had ended another relationship, 4 months passed and I met this boy, I rebuilt my happiness and self-confidence and now everything has collapsed to zero. I'm sad, but I'm more angry. I don't know how to distract myself, at work boring, annoying, and when I get home I start thinking about him again and what he is doing, is he trying to find another girl, because his logic is that he has to find another girl in order to forget the old. Ehh, how I find them all like that, horror. :)) and when I get home I start thinking about him again and what he's doing, is he trying to find another girl, because his logic is that he has to find another girl to forget the old one. Ehh, how I find them all like that, horror. :)) and when I get home I start thinking about him again and what he's doing, is he trying to find another girl, because his logic is that he has to find another girl to forget the old one. Ehh, how I find them all like that, horror. :))
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Well, stop being depressed on your own and feeling sorry for yourself, draw his line! It's not easy, but you're a 26-year-old woman, you have to tighten up. Start dating again, don't leave your friends - and see them, but if they have withdrawn, you can find new ones, be more sociable, keep in touch with people. Instead of going to work frowning, smile, be cheerful and you will see how this will change the attitude of colleagues towards you, they will feel your charisma and the ice at work will break. Stop looking at everything as a burden and an obligation, and do everything with desire and love. The right partner will appear alone ...
Hi, well, I'm a boy, but I can just tell you not to associate your happiness with someone else. In reality, everyone comes and goes. Years ago, I was shaking a lot, I was suffering, I thought that the end of the world was coming if I wasn't with someone I loved. Yes, but no - it turned out to be very simple. I recently broke up with a great woman, most of all in every way, my soulmate, I would say. I don't know, but I just accept it as a part of life - I didn't feel any disappointment or panic as before. I was just glad we had our time, and now it's over. But you never know what's coming. Everything that awaits us is always better than what remains in the past. The past is forgotten, only good memories remain in fact. They broke my heart so many times that at one point I just accepted it as something normal and now I'm very well. I advise you to just organize your life on your own, without connecting it with anyone. This, in my opinion, is exactly the mistake that many people make. Let me tell you, if I can, what happened to me before. 7-8 years ago, for example, there was a girl I adored, I made plans - for a shared home, car, dog, travel. At one point, she left me and it was as if the whole world was collapsing - precisely because all the plans were about her. Then it was repeated with another, with a third ... And so while in a long moment of about 2 years I was alone, absolutely alone. And just then I started to organize my life - house, car, work. Then somehow the lack of someone doesn't feel that way, simply because the plans aren't related to anyone - I have everything myself, no matter how selfish it is. Ah, yes. I also have the dog I dreamed of with that girl, a super cool Labrador. I advise you to get a dog if you don't have one. The less time you have to think about nonsense, the easier it will be to deal with such, in my opinion, insignificant problems. Good luck ;)
It will pass, calm down. We're all like that. Throw things away and play sports.
The sections are always heavy. Keep your head up! You are still young - you will find someone else. Just don't despair. Closing yourself is not good. On the contrary, now you have to go out, have fun, meet friends ... find a hobby. That way you will stop thinking about him. Good luck.