Hello! I'm 21, a student. A long time ago (about half a year) I liked a girl who initially played me. I made an awful lot of gestures for her and tried my best to "win" her until she finally gave me a chance. We went out for no more than a month and I realized that this is not the girl I want to be with. I didn't like her character and we quarreled almost constantly, when I told her I wanted to break up she started crying, insulting me and scolding me with whatever she could catch. After 2-3 days he called me to see me for the last time over coffee, I agreed and we went out. She started begging me to try again and when I refused she started crying out loud, and all the people stared at us. And that moment passed, we parted permanently, or so I thought. He keeps calling and writing to me. She comes home and when I asked her to stop she did not, she keeps track of who I see and where I go. I live in a dormitory with two friends and she asked them to tell her about every girl I go out with or take to the dormitory. I don't feel well and I don't know how to get rid of it. I asked her, but she didn't give up, and I don't want to go to the police and the like.
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So. Let's analyze you first - you like something, you make an effort to have it, you succeed, you try it, you don't like it and you throw it away .... Hmm. It's harder for me to analyze. Maybe a woman could understand her better. He seems to like you and cares about you. Maybe it's some kind of pampering who's used to getting what she wants. Either way, it's hard for her to break away from you and start thinking about her own life. You are the person who has decided that he wants to win it. You're the man who decided he didn't want her anymore. But she is human. It is not a subject. I don't understand many of these things, but that's what I see. Maybe you should talk to a friend or roommate of hers? Maybe after you have made an effort to win it, now you should try to get rid of it. But whatever you do, don't completely deny women and don't become gay. I hope I helped.
Male, doesn't this girl have a gram of dignity at least? If you want to hurt her and stop looking for you forever, I have a lot of ideas, but you hardly want just that.
I don't want to hurt her, but I'm willing (as long as it's not too much) to let her find me. It would be better for both of us if we ended any relationship forever. So if you can share any of your ideas, number 2? !! And I will already decide whether I would do something like that.
In almost all of these cases, the woman wants to return to the man with a single goal - to avenge him. She would twist him, meow at him, make him feel confident in her love, fall madly in love with her, and when he was most vulnerable, she would dump him in the most insidious way possible for him to give it back to him trampled. This has been a regular practice by women * for decades. * Those who are mentally weak, vindictive and can't stand that someone has rejected or disliked them enough.
If during this month you not only went out, but also had sex, her behavior is completely understandable - there is no woman who wants to be treated like a whore, there is no man who wants to be a doormat for someone's dirty feet. I know someone like you and in exactly the same situation - he didn't like small breasts, he didn't have time to bond, he just fucked. Yes, but with your shallow brains you don't realize that there is a person standing in front of you, not a toy that you can throw away after you play. You are still young and I hope you get smarter before you hurt more people! I don't wish it on you, but in life everything comes back, I hope you don't have to knock on a slammed door, peek through the lock and wonder why it's with that and not with me, what did I do so much, where I failed. Next time instead of dealing with "
The reason I was with the girl in question was not because I was fucked, but because I saw something in her that made me want to be with her. The reason I want to part with her is because I've seen more things I don't like than I like. I'm not talking about her appearance, but about character traits that I don't want the woman next to me to have. And you obviously didn't understand, but I said I didn't want to go to the police or hurt them in any way. I probably don't do the right thing according to some people, but he said it himself - I'm small, I haven't started to get involved so seriously, to think about living with someone, etc. I think I have enough time for that and I think that now it's time for me to "live". If I'm wrong, correct me!
Author, I read you very carefully, but you read me diagonally - I'm number 5. I don't need to emphasize at all that you want to "live" - we all want to, especially at your age, but you've had a short stick with a girl who doesn't want to put up with the thought that you're just someone. has lived. You don't even have to explain that you didn't get fucked - every normal person gets fucked, especially at your age and around your age. You say "I liked a girl", what exactly did this girl like, right the look, only then did you realize that "I saw more things I don't like than I like", "I didn't like her character and we fought almost constantly ... ". Think about it, it's only ONE month that kept you from seeing the "bad guys" sides of the character and before you start "going out"? I saw very well "that I do NOT want to go to the police" - the very fact that you are thinking about the police is already indicative that you are on the verge of calling 112, the same thing that the other mold did, only he was called the Danish police. Because you ask me "If I'm wrong, correct me!" I'll answer you - no you're not wrong, just prepare mentally that you will most likely marry a woman who has also "lived", who, like you, has decided that and enough indiscriminate sex and it's time to find someone to make her a baby, and then the old way. There is no insurance for these things in life, but as a rule, "whatever called - such a call", just keep one thing in mind and do not wear new slippers!
First he wanted to win her over, then he didn't like something about her and he wanted to get rid of her by screaming at his mother - Mom, tell her to leave me alone. Man, I'm sorry to tell you, but I think you're still extremely immature and infantile. When he wins it, does anyone ask how to do it? Now accept that this girl carries a soul and heart that are vulnerable and to get a chance to rehabilitate from your immature act - try to get out of her life in the most painless way, which is INTERRUPTION of all contacts, as before and you say you DON'T LOVE her. It sounds cruel, but it will be the most painless for her. Do not give her any hope with ambiguities, etc. M35
I have been in your situation and I understand you very well. Don't listen to others who don't know what it's like to be with a hysterical and neurotic woman. You made the right decision. I felt terrible almost all the time, we often quarreled, for the slightest thing (unrelated to me) I got depressed. At one point, I realized that instead of being happy, I was constantly nervous and unhappy. Unconsciously, I was looking to spend more time elsewhere just to escape depression. You are not a slave to the person next to you, and if he does not make you feel good, separate. Don't ruin your life just to please someone else. At 21, still young, a one-month relationship is nothing special. It is good that you realized in time that she is not what you are looking for. Unfortunately, these are traits of character that are not visible if you have not lived with one person for some time. What is expected? That once you make an effort to get to know someone, you must like what you see? !! Isn't this an 18th century marriage? People after 7-8 years of marriage and 2-3 children kill them that this is not the person they want to live with. That's why there are so many infidelities and divorces. You understood it in 1 month - feel lucky and go crazy. Usually seeing you seriously with another woman should turn her down. Unfortunately, you can't find another one just to get away from it. Time heals all wounds. Put enough distance between you and sooner or later he will forget you. That's why there are so many infidelities and divorces. You understood it in 1 month - feel lucky and go crazy. Usually seeing you seriously with another woman should turn her down. Unfortunately, you can't find another one just to get away from it. Time heals all wounds. Put enough distance between you and sooner or later he will forget you. That's why there are so many infidelities and divorces. You understood it in 1 month - feel lucky and go crazy. Usually seeing you seriously with another woman should turn her down. Unfortunately, you can't find another one just to get away from it. Time heals all wounds. Put enough distance between you and sooner or later he will forget you.
You did the right thing and listen to number 9 what he tells you, and leave the others. You are the most important, your life should go the way you want, and once you come to this conclusion, then so be it. You don't live to make happy someone you've met somewhere, and they've decided to have a drama. You don't have to pay attention to what she's doing, because that gives her wings to keep going. Forbid both calls and messages to you, and never read them and never meet her, she will lose interest very quickly, yet her life must also continue. This with the police is stupid, yet it doesn't chase you to kill you.