Look, I never thought I'd get this far. I was cheerful, successful, loved and loving. Now I am a shadow, not even a shadow, but a shadow. Mentally crushed, unbearably depressed. EVERY DAY something happens to me to finish me off. It all started last year - one after another lost. I was fired because I couldn't do it, and it was supposed to be a job in my specialty. Then they disapproved of me again. Now I work in a school. I teach. Can you imagine Needless to say, I am not appreciated. And they will probably remove me. And here's my problem - I can't do anything. Does it make sense to live then? There are certainly incompetents and incompetent people - well, I'm one of them. However, I can't stand it. And I better end my life. There's no point. There just isn't. Why is this happening? I have to accept that I am incompetent - is this the truth?
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Hey, you're a young man, tighten up! That you are incompetent, you think! Find a way to relax and shake off stress, motivate yourself for work, think of nothing else and success will come immediately! If you think you are incompetent, it is natural for others to think so! And you have no idea how many idiots and incompetents manage to shine in front of the boss every day! It's not about that ... It's just ... 1. Give yourself time to think. Learn to think positively, go out with friends every day, help someone, be helpful, this will help you feel more stable at first. If you don't have friends, go out with colleagues and make them your friends. This way you will have support at work and you will feel more confident. 2. Enjoy your job, if you don't like the job - leave it! You don't have to do something because you feel incompetent, and because you like it !!! This is noticeable a lot !!! If you like the job, everything will work out for you! 3. FORGET !!!! FOR THE THOUGHT THAT YOU ARE INCOMPETENT, HELL, HEALTHY, YOUNG, BEAUTIFUL, WHAT MORE THAN THIS FOR A GOOD START OF LIFE ??? :) There are so many people who dream of a bed or a wheelchair (and maybe not even among the living) to have your chance? !! So many unemployed and desperate people, and you complain that you are incompetent !! Come on! LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT! IT IS A PERMANENT BATTLE, AND IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO FIGHT, YOU WILL BE CRUSHED. AND ONLY THE WEAK ONE LEAVE TO BE CRUSHED VOLUNTARILY !!! And let me not read any more statements that you are incompetent, the fact that you have not been successful for some time is only because you have instilled in yourself that you are incompetent. REMEMBER !!! IT IS A SUCCESS TO LIVE, IT IS MITEROUS JUST TO COMPLAIN AND DO NOTHING! CHANGE THE CURRENT - BE AS YOU ARE! SUCCESSFUL, SMILING, AMAZING! BECAUSE YOU CAN DO IT !! AT LEAST TRY! AND DON'T GIVE UP EASY, ONLY THEN SUCCESS IS GUARANTEED !!!
Do you feel that you have any health problems? Maybe it's a good idea to consult a doctor.
If you really like this job, fight for it and give your best every day! Stable bosses value the desire and diligence to work. I have been fired many times. Subsequently, I started a job in which I did not like the way I worked, I was about to be fired, I was very naughty. Then I started to do my best, I put all my efforts - they appreciated me and I became their best shot. So head up! And there are many celebrities for whom the dismissal from one job was their luck to find the most suitable one to shoot them to the top! L.
Thank you, number 1 and number 3 !!! You gave me faith and I felt that I am not alone !!! Number 2, I thought, what exactly are your health problems?