I am a 15 year old girl. I've never kissed before and that worries me a lot. I will always have a friend and he will understand and I will become a laughing stock, because I think it is not very normal in these years not to be able to kiss, and until then it can happen even more. Others around me even think that I may not be a virgin, that I change boys like handkerchiefs, etc., because I'm not some kind of closed, non-contact or I don't know, that is, I don't show with anything that everything they think not so. Now that they understand, as I said, I will laugh. I'm very worried and I'm very afraid that someone might kiss me spontaneously in front of everyone and I will be shocked and not be able to kiss him and ... ooooooo I don't think so. Or even if it's not spontaneous, there just came a time when I would have to kiss my boyfriend, for example, not that it hasn't happened so far, but I always pull, but I can't always do that. What to do..
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There is nothing to do or think of him. I was like you, I had the same problem. I was afraid for the first time not to expose myself somewhere in the kiss :) But, believe me, when the time comes, everything happens by itself. You don't have to train and learn from someone. You just need to have desire and feelings :) Good luck
When you kiss a boy you don't like, everything is artificial and somehow you don't enjoy it. And when you like the boy, the feeling is amazing :)
Again from number 2 ... let me tell you something that I hope will help you. I was at a camp this summer and I liked a boy. We pretended to be stuck for 5 days, but nothing else. I really wanted to kiss him (then I found out that he also sneezed) and on the 5th day a girl had a birthday. The others had bought beer and vodka and we drank .. at 4-5 o'clock personally I was quite dizzy and somehow relaxed from the vodka (I was not so worried about anything) when everyone was pushing I went to say good night to him and he pulled at him .. At first I just lay next to him and we chatted something with the others in the room (half asleep) finally they fell asleep and before I felt it he kissed me then I ... for half an hour up and down we kissed and hung out. .the next night we were all dripping from the birthday and we went to bed at 12 on the other he came to say good night to me 2 however to 4 .... . ;) and so. My thought is that ... abe nz draw her own conclusion, since then I have not dealt with another boy, and if you want in Skype we can write zory_v I will be pleased. I am 14 years old :)
Everyone is learning !! everything will come of its own accord, believe me. and having a wrong opinion of you is ridiculous. of course you can keep your secret
It all comes naturally as they say you just have to relax and if you really like yourself the very attraction will make you kiss just when it happens don't think about it!
You're not the only one, I'm 14 and I haven't kissed, I don't know what I'm doing
I haven't kissed either, and thanks to you, I've learned that I don't have to worry. I'm 12 and I hope to try soon
what happened in two - three years is the topic of how he coped ???
Hi, I'm Gabby and I'll try to help you: you start turning your tongue counterclockwise and tilt your head so you don't hit your nose ... that's it, it's not hard :) if you want write to me to the e-mail who wants to write (or if anyone has questions). gabuun @ abv. bg is my mail, I hope it will be published :) good luck to the author :)
Hello, I'm 14 years old and until recently I couldn't kiss either, but this summer I met a boy we liked and that's right and then one night he kissed me I was stunned I thought well now I can't kiss I will do but I relaxed and we even started with language. Look, you don't have to use your tongue right away, I just had a simple kiss and then we started with my tongue ... So don't worry and good luck
Girl, just to tell you, don't make the mistake of saying that you can't kiss, he will hardly notice from personal experience, I know that :)
I tried with experience. I took a shallow glass, a ball and started chasing the ball with my tongue. And it happened! This way you can be prepared when the time comes! :))
I'm a boy and I can't kiss
After 6 months I am 17 years old. The truth is that I have a boyfriend, we have sex .... I recently started oral sex, and he from the beginning. I had never tried, I was scared. However, I have another problem. I've never kissed with my tongue before, I always go out with the number that I hate to do it, this is probably the most hated thing in my life. What to do?
I don't think I can kiss.
And I was like that, now I'm 14, I was worried and my first kiss was just on the mouth to say a child's kiss. After a while we started with language. It just needs to be in the rhythm of the kiss, it needs to be slow so it's overgrown.
Always follow your partner he learns best. If you don't start with French, that's it. Slowly and gently turn your tongue.
Dear girls! I'm reading your comments and I'm wondering how 12- and 13-year-olds can worry about not being able to kiss. At your age, I prayed that they wouldn't give us a lot of homework so that I could go out and play with the other children. Just for information, I kissed for the first time at 17 and I'm not ashamed of it, because I look after my education, but as they say, love when it comes does not ask. As for those who have exercised in different ways - a waste of time. Kissing the person you truly love has nothing to do with these stupid attempts you make. When he is with the right person, everything will be fine. For me, everything was like a fairy tale. I don't think it's a mistake to tell your partner that you can't kiss. If he loves you, it will help you learn and appreciate the fact that you share such information with him - it will strengthen your relationship. I shared that I couldn't, and that I hadn't done it until now, and he helped me learn. As for the tongue kiss, it's not so scary either. When the time came, I just stopped thinking, turned off the world, and built a new world that was just me and him. I do not deny that I have read 10,000 tips on this, but I dare say that half and more are exaggerated. No need to worry - the more you think about each action, the more likely you are to confuse something. Relax and let your partner guide you, and if you are both new to this endeavor, it will be even better, as you have the opportunity to explore this new world with each other. It is also desirable to close your eyes during the kiss, because as everyone understands, vision is one of the senses and when we eliminate it, the others intensify and the feeling is even stronger. I hope I have been helpful if there are questions or something unclear or if someone has something to say (addition or remark) to write under the comment. I accept any criticism. Good luck to all the ladies and don't rush with the kisses and sex, after all you are still children and the fact that you are a virgin at 14 or 15 is not shameful at all, but very nice. Live your life and have fun. There is time for boyfriends and everything else. All in good time.
If the boy is an expert at kissing, he will start with a dry kiss, and if you are withdrawn, he will do things more slowly until he sees that you like him, and from then on it will happen by itself. In short, if the boy knows how you will be able to kiss. My first kiss was at 8 (ha ha) and I can say it would be great.
You have a really big problem. So what are we going to do now?