Hello! A 14th, 8th grade girl is writing to you. A few days ago we started school and I am in a new class, with new people. I don't know anyone. I wrote to two girls in the summer, but it so happened that when I watched I was ignored at school, or so it seemed to me. I can't make friends, I can't say two words ... I notice that almost everyone started to find their companies and people, and I'm alone ... I cried a lot these days, I don't want to be an outsider. They look decent from my class, they have high results. But I just can't talk to them, and they don't talk to me. I stay in the classroom and that's it ... From my old class I had nice people for me, with whom I was friends and we still communicate together. I would like it to be so now. Please tell me how to change something, how to find friends, and then get in the right company. Any comment will be useful to me. I don't want to cry anymore that I can't find friends. Thanks a lot to everyone who took the time!
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Just be a pecan :) Everyone loves pecans and fun people.
If that calms you down - I'm also 14 years old and I'm in 8th grade, in a new school and I haven't found any friends either. Rather, I sit on the same bench with a girl, the first days we did not talk much but then we began to communicate slowly, etc., otherwise I do not know anyone else, but at least there is someone to talk to, and sometimes we sit on the number at some hours and I also talk to the girl next to me, but calm down, the first week and the first days are always like that - everyone worries, does not find many friends, but after a month everyone relaxes. Talk to a girl, introduce yourself, say your name, ask her if she has a brother / sister, and it's so easy to strike up a conversation. Success!
I'm sorry to ask you, but what school are you from? I am also in 8th grade and in the new class I have a girl who exactly corresponds to yours described. It may be a coincidence, but I just want to know.
Don't be in such a hurry, you need at least a month
Do something with others. Actions bring people together. And you have a topic of conversation. Sign up for a club if you have tequila, for example.
From the author: Thank you all, I expect more comments! I'm number 3 from Plovdiv, but I wouldn't want to mention the school, do you? If we are in one, I would share what it is. I hope for an answer. :)
My, I became 11th grade, but I never made friends. Sometimes we talk, but I remained a semi-aidesider: D. So talk to them, gather courage, because by the time you feel you will become 9th, 10th, etc. class. Don't make my mistake. Good luck
Just be yourself. The first days are always like that. After a while you will see how gradually everyone will start to communicate and thus become friends. If this will reassure you - I'm in 9th grade, for the second year in a new school, and almost no one likes me. In our class they smoke, drink, do not study. So just be patient or act - go to someone who befriends him and so on. I wish you to find new friends in the class, as long as they are good, and do not pretend to like them, just to like them and you (as with me;) Good luck!
Why do you have to make friends with them? Will they pay you money, then what?
I also have no friends at school for 7 years. I'm in 7th grade. I am from Plovdiv.
To the author: I'm number 3. I'm sorry, I hardly know you, I live and study in Sofia :)