Hi, I'm a girl of almost 13. Lastly, I feel like I'm unnecessary and weird. I'm going out in the city with a friend. I feel very good with her, but sometimes I avoid going out because I'm weak and I don't like myself. That's why I don't think others like me either. Many girls in my class wear pants that are on them and have nice figures, and I, like a skeleton, am 1.65 tall and weigh 40 kg. Once I ordered something to eat and while I was waiting for the one who takes the orders, he spoke to me, but I'm very smart, I couldn't tell him anything meaningful. At school my grades are good, at the end of the year I finished with 5.42 (I didn't have enough for 6). As always, my mother showed how disappointed she was and started talking to me, how lazy I am, that it is not known if I will finish 7th grade, the teachers wrote to me a lot, etc. I want to go to a language school, and she constantly cuts off my wings, saying that she studies a lot there, and I'm lazy and I won't do anything. Every day my mother repeats that I have great desires and ambitions, and I will not succeed. She's never been so cruel to my brother, who climbs on the roofs of buildings or watches TV all day. I try to show her that she underestimates and criticizes me in vain, and when I try to tell her, she starts with the words, "Well, is it so hard not to stay at the computer all day (which is not the case) and to run a vacuum cleaner, you will poison me already, you don't touch anything all day, you will see the language through crooked pasta, the children have already read their books and forgotten, you are only 2 "And when I talked to classmates, they are not yet soil. I want to learn acting, maybe it's pretty naive, but I'm sure I'll succeed. I asked our people to enroll me in courses, because they knew a woman, but it's better for me to do sports. Mom intervenes again "You, who are afraid of the book ... do you know how much the artists read, these works by heart know them" Luckily for me, there was a group at school that gave performances and I signed up. In 4th grade I played in the theater, and in 6th I toured the whole city, starring and was shown on TV. As for mom, I didn't admire her at all. She wants to send me to art high school because, according to her, I have talent. As for my father, he keeps saying to himself, "Let's enroll you in athletics, or volleyball there ..." and he keeps repeating it to me. I'M SICK!!! I want to enter Ezikova (she is in another city) and I hope
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Sorry, but I didn't see a direct link between the title and the content! You rather can't stand the fact that your parents are trying to make decisions for you. Well ... fight! Even if you make a mistake, it doesn't matter. The important thing is to follow your dreams and in time you will be happy with the decisions made. You need to convince your mother that you know best what you want. Emphasize that you already feel big enough, etc., and if that doesn't help, tell her that nothing else will make you happy. It is difficult for me to advise you something else, because I myself have always made my own decisions and believe me, I am VERY happy now. Fight to the end for what your heart whispers :) At the cost of everything. Your parents don't know yet, but one day they'll be glad they left you alone.
Male, male she is the prestigious language ... they took me with 4 in Bulgarian and 3 in mathematics. And you learn so much that ....... you go out without knowing the alphabet in English. This is Bulgarian education. You're just fooling yourself into doing something.
God, what a coincidence, girl, I'm just wondering how we have so much in common: A: Oh, no kidding, I feel like most of your speeches are like listening to myself !!! WOW Look for me on skype: vikent3eto I was even surprised if I didn't write it, I was so surprised for a moment: D: D Come on, I'll tell you on Skype :) I'm waiting for you! This is my favorite story here =]]
Number 2, she is prestigious in the language, the fact that you did not study does not mean that she is not. I also study in a language high school and I dare say that I know a lot. So it depends on the person, but I would ask you not to confuse the girl like that;)
I completely agree with number 4, because I'm in a language I know that you learn ... you learn a lot. I'm not in English, the level there is really lower, but German (at least the one in my city) and as far as I know in the whole of Bulgaria you are in a position. I don't think anyone who has gone through a German high school knows what learning is, because we were shocked by the preparations this year. All day at school and when you go home, you still study, and despite the busy daily life, my mother again thought that we are not burdened enough, that I do not study properly, etc. From time to time I start to think that some parents do not can be pleased. I finished with 5.71, first year, German, 6 in a language I had never even heard ... and my mother sat down again to argue with me (my mistress had misunderstood in German) that she didn't care if I had 6 or 5, the important thing is that the assessment corresponds to my knowledge ... calm down,
Follow your dreams . Let your mother talk on the wall. УСПЕХ !! 1
It sucks that your mother does that, but to tell you the truth, it's much worse with me ... I don't remember how many times I tried to commit suicide, but when I saw that it didn't work, I gave up ... It's always like that ... Whatever you do, your mother remains dissatisfied and runs to her beloved son ... I think that this will not change in the future and that the way is only one ... to get rid of them ... I will advise you. ..I plan to do it soon ... Good luck! :)))
Number 7, if you need a friend, a person to listen to you or something like that ... keep me in mind, if you feel the need to talk to a complete stranger who will hear your problem ... [email protected] Gray
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