Hello! I need to share something, and when you are incognito everything is easier ... I met a boy on the Internet a long time ago. We wrote to each other regularly but routinely. Until one day it happened that we met. First it was an accident, then he gave me his phone. It took a long time and I called him. When we met, it was as if I had known him before, as if we had been friends for a long time. For about a week we heard each other almost every day, and if not we wrote messages to each other. One night we went out together and ... I want to turn back time !!! I did not believe that beauty and incredible intellect, complemented by incredible sex appeal and masculinity, adding a sense of humor, can mix !!! I didn't have a better time alone with a man!
The evening ended with them, but not in the normal way! I was afraid that if I spent the night with him, I would be in the group of the "fucked" and everything will end there, and I didn't want to ... I left in an ugly way and nothing from him. After a while I called him - I missed him! We would see each other and see each other, but by accident. He acted as if nothing had happened, I wanted to see him, to go somewhere for a few days - he kept rejecting the topic. When we find ourselves on the net, it never says ... I can't stop thinking about it! I don't know if I'm in love with him, because neither he knows me, nor I know him ... But I definitely miss the way he makes me feel in his presence, the way I looked at the world around us, the way I who was holding my hand - I miss his presence! I miss them, after no more than 4 hours spent together - is it normal ?! He acted as if nothing had happened, I wanted to see him, to go somewhere for a few days - he kept rejecting the topic. When we find ourselves on the net, it never says ... I can't stop thinking about it! I don't know if I'm in love with him, because neither he knows me, nor I know him ... But I definitely miss the way he makes me feel in his presence, the way I looked at the world around us, the way I who was holding my hand - I miss his presence!
I miss them, after no more than 4 hours spent together - is it normal ?! He acted as if nothing had happened, I wanted to see him, to go somewhere for a few days - he kept rejecting the topic. When we find ourselves on the net, it never says ... I can't stop thinking about it! I don't know if I'm in love with him, because neither he knows me, nor I know him ... But I definitely miss the way he makes me feel in his presence, the way I looked at the world around us, the way I who was holding my hand - I miss his presence! I miss them, after no more than 4 hours spent together - is it normal ?! the way he made me feel in his presence, the way I looked at the world around us, the way he held my hand - I miss his presence! I miss them, after no more than 4 hours spent together - is it normal ?! the way he made me feel in his presence, the way I looked at the world around us, the way he held my hand - I miss his presence! I miss them, after no more than 4 hours spent together - is it normal ?!
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Apparently the man really only wanted sex, and you didn't give it to him. Try to make contact again, but I don't believe anything will happen
Falling in love at first sight is something normal, but in your case your destiny seems to send you a sign, firstly that you met by chance and secondly that you can't stop thinking about it. There are two options: either overcome it (you know that invisible eyes are forgotten), or keep seeing it and ... whatever happens ... I don't think you should have left so badly, but just you explain to him that you don't want to be one of the "fucked up", if he is honest he will understand you and will wait, if not - he will hardly look for you more, but even if she had slept with him on the first date and be one of those above, you would surely have experienced it. In the end, most men are looking for just that. I think in order not to be that kind of girl, you have to get to know him first and then decide for yourself, according to what you saw in his face. It's normal for me to miss you, but you're obviously very much in love with him, but first get to know the person to love him. :)
Congratulations on not allowing yourself to be another of the "fucked", and most men are looking for just that, I think you need to get to know the man better to know if it's worth falling in love with him and if he deserves it and barely after answering these questions to allow yourself to invest some feelings, because if it is not so it will be quite painful for you to love someone who can not appreciate this or does not need it, but only sex. Think hard before you do anything and I wish you happiness.
I understand you very well, I also fell in love with a boy from the net. We went out a few times before we made love, and we wrote to each other for hours every day. Shortly before we did, he told me that he was going abroad for a few months, and then the next day he hung up on me. In the end it turned out that he was not abroad at all, and I was just a number and nothing else. I know it hurts now, but believe me it will hurt you even more if you realize that you are just another trophy for him. I haven't seen him since because he doesn't want that, and I still don't stop thinking about him and keep writing, even though everything is just a chat and nothing more. Listen to my advice - forget it, if he was really attracted to you until now to look for you, I know it will be difficult for you, this is the reality.
If it was about sex, it's a pity! This is pure brainwashing to pretend to be great with another piece!
I have the same problem only that I have known the boy for almost a year and we did not meet on the net but by chance in a company. And I didn't give him what he wanted and I think that's why he stopped looking for me, but is there anything else that he told me before that he likes me and I think he got scared? Any advice?