Very difficult for me. I have problems with my father ... in the sense that he always expects the best from me and doesn't realize that I'm not perfect at all. I can't tell him who I'm in love with and that I want to share my life with him. He is 10 years older than me and has a child. There is no love for my father, everything is for me to have arranged my life as best as possible and for my bank account to be bigger and bigger. And I want love, I want happiness. He always tried to educate me that money is the most important thing, but I didn't give up. So if I get together with the man in question, I have to end my relationship with my father because he won't stop until he separates us ... I don't know people, help me ... are there people with similar problems?
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Don't pay attention to your father's prejudices - you won't live with him all your life after all, follow your love if you don't want to regret all your life that you haven't tried.
Parents are not always right. I was dumped a few weeks before the wedding because of the boy's father. His father wanted us to give them money and then there would be a wedding. In return, the boy would receive an apartment in Sofia. But we did not give the money. And so the boy holds a wedding for the fifth time in a row. He will not stop with women - he will always get the most out of a woman and dump her. From here you have to draw 2 conclusions - that parents are not always right and that if a man is with two women at the same time - just forget about him. Where it flows, it will always flow. Don't be fooled that it loves you. Try to forget, after it hurts more.
I don't think you should be influenced by your father's opinion. He can be your guardian, but he can't determine who you will be with and who you won't, you decide for yourself. Even if he is 10 years older than you, you know there are no branches for love
I want to ask if you think about what awaits you after you meet this person? After all, he is 10 years older with a child. Remember how you thought two years ago and think about what you will think and what you will want after 10. And your father is very right that now money is everything. In my opinion, family is the most important thing, if your father loves you so much and sees that you are happy with this man, I doubt he wants to be separated.
Understand him dear. He wants the best for you ... but if you want this person, nothing should stop you ... Good luck.