Hello, The problem is the following ... I soon met a girl and you can even say that we are friends ... we go out there as a group. When we go out, he hangs himself, sits next to me, hugs ala ball. I can't tell if this is friendly or trying to tell me something because she seems a little shy ... she's not some pervert. I like the girl in question a hell of a lot, but I'm worried that if I talk to her about feelings and they are not mutual, she will start looking at me with different eyes, and we spend a lot of time together .... What would you advise me to wait you a little more or do I act
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Act! Such things are not expected. I waited once and while I waited for another he snatched it from under my nose!
Don't hurry, wait like this for the first ten years, then things between you can start by themselves;)
When it's nice to be together, fun and there is a thrill, you are obviously on the right track and with your behavior and appearance you attract her and she likes you. Don't listen to sarcastic advice, don't listen to those who are in a hurry. Good things happen slowly, and we women like things to happen in an hour on a spoon, that is, slowly. You can move things a little forward by taking her to the movies, say, to be just the two of you, or somewhere where you choose, but don't rush her so you don't miss something. Look her in the eyes with a smile and interest and desire, she will understand and tell you what she expects from you. F43
If he reaches into your pants, know that it won't be because he wants ... eat what you are, and look for something lost.
Hang out with her - but don't talk to a woman about feelings first. The reason is that feelings bind and frighten. And if you talk about feelings, she will pull away. "But what happened - we had such a good time, and he fell in love with me. I think I should stop when he sees us as a couple. Why did he have to talk to me about his feelings? It ruined everything!" And come to another. Not because you don't like it. And because she is not ready to commit - when a woman is ready to be attached to a man - then she is ready to fight for him. And just THEN, but not before, the man has to submit - if he takes too much to pull, she can give up. Just when I saw that the girl who liked me was ready to give up on me - that's when I went to her. As a result, I have more than once aroused great affection for me. Today I heard from some girls - I both want to be with him and I don't want to. However, there would be something left when I just want it.
From the author, Thanks to n. 3 and 6 exactly such advice I wanted to see. Maybe I just need to find a way to hint to her without scaring her with feelings. Modest girls are my weakness obviously. PP If anyone has any further comments on the matter are welcome.