Hello! I am a 17 year old boy and I have a question for you. In the summer of 2019 I met a very good and beautiful girl, a friend introduced us and we became very close to her, we became super close - more than her bff to say. However, for about 1 month she has been behaving very strangely - she writes me sexual hints, sends me hearts, compliments me all the time, teases me, wants to CONSTANTLY talk to me, says that I am perfect, etc. She even said that she really wants to do sex with me and I had asked her after all if she wanted us to become a couple. whereupon she got angry with me and said she didn't want to because we were very good friends, she didn't want to ruin our friendship. I agreed, of course, because it makes perfect sense. Until yesterday. Yesterday, when we talked, she told me that we were together as boyfriends, that I was very close, and so on. n and sent me a very provocative picture of her ass (she is very sexy) and now I do not know what to do. I ask anyone who understands these things or has had a similar case to give me some advice below in the comments. Thanks in advance for your attention!
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Don't ask her because an explanation requires a rational explanation. There is no such thing, it's all about emotions. Maybe he just likes you for sex, not for a relationship, so be prepared for that. Otherwise, the solution is to act directly, and whatever happens will happen. You don't have a pure friendship anyway, because you already have an interest in each other as a man and a woman. Things like "staying friends" no longer have a place in this relationship. If she firmly refuses to develop your relationship further - it's time to whip yourself, because otherwise she will try to turn you around for years, if not a lifetime. For reference, the next topic with the family friend, who constantly asks the man for services and the like.
Talk to your mother to take you to the gynecologist. The doctor will best decide what painkillers to prescribe after examining you. And I sometimes have a hard time with these days, once as a child I felt sick outside and I would fail and my classmate was vomiting for the first few days.
You think about it a lot, go to her and start pushing her directly. It's okay if you don't sleep.