Hello, I thought a lot and decided to tell my story. I am a 14-year-old girl, and he is 17 from Varna. We have been together for 8 months. We met on Skype through a friend of his. We started writing to each other, we sent each other photos, but I didn't like it. I didn't want to have anything serious with him. To me, he was a boy I would never have anything to do with. I just wanted friendship and nothing more. But later I realized that he liked me. He was constantly looking for me. When we weren't writing to each other, we talked on the phone. And so a month passed. A month in which I got to know him as a character and I liked him. I told him and that's how our relationship began. We saw each other almost every day, we talked on Skype in the evening and everything was wonderful. For the first time, I felt really happy with a boy. Unfortunately, this only lasted two months. Then he seemed to cool down to me, he behaved in a very strange way. It made me feel insignificant and useless. He was telling me things that were depressing me, and day by day I began to shut myself in. He says that the way I behave no one will tolerate me. I myself don't think I'm doing anything wrong and I don't find anything wrong with wanting him to pay a little more attention to me, because I just love him a hell of a lot and I want to be together as long as possible. When we start talking about this topic, he tells me that what I am saying is nonsense and is not true, and we stop because whatever I tell him he does not take seriously. Every day we argue about insignificant things, but no matter how insignificant they are, I am saddened by this because I am a very sensitive person and he cannot understand it. I already think he doesn't love me, but when I tell him he denies it. He reproaches me that for me it means nothing, without even realizing that it is everything. He tells me that I don't feel anything for him and he doesn't know how much I love him. Because of everything that made me go through it, sometimes I hate it, but I also love it. We broke up yesterday (June 22, 2008) and I don't know what to do anymore. I want to be with him, but the way he treats me just kills me and won't last long mentally. Please give me some advice; (; (; (
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Girl, you are too small for such relationships and most of all to allow someone to treat you like that. Now is the time for you to have fun, to live, do not cling to such a tormented love, to think now that the world is over with its end, but it is not so, many more beautiful moments are waiting for you.
I think you should talk to him on Skype in private and tell him everything and if he doesn't understand you it means he doesn't love.
hmmmmmmm a very familiar story, and it was the same with me, but after we broke up he started behaving very badly or pretending he didn't know me. It's been 3 months since our separation, I've tried to get it back several times, but every time he hurt me, he said very badly that he no longer likes to leave me alone. I believe he still loves me, but he thought I wasn't happy with him. I still cry when I wake up at night, but I know it doesn't make sense. These are the boys: We can't with them, we can't do without them.
It's the same with me at the moment, and I sometimes wonder what to do, but I calm down in the fact that he seems to be like that, that this is his character. At the moment I am left in the hands of fate and if she has decided to be with him for a long time, so be it, if not - life must go on. way, even if I don't want to. But I feel that he has feelings for me, even if he doesn't show them. I hope I helped you. I wish you SUCCESS, you decide what to do.
oh, blink .. a familiar story to some extent .. with this difference, my friend and I love each other a hell of a lot and he doesn't hurt me verbally, but with actions. and it is sooooooooooooo strong on my psyche that it's just terribly unbearable to be with him, but I love him too much to leave him ... I just don't have the strength ...
Darling, while reading your story, I cried, because it's the same with me, but we broke up on August 9, 2008 ... it's only 6 days, but for me it's hell, I feel that with each passing day I close myself more and more. and sorrow engulfs me. Unfortunately, I don't have any real friends by my side to help me. I feel powerless. If you are strong you will overcome this!
Dear girls .. I am the same and I share everything that number 6 said ... The point is that we have not separated, but I am waiting for a convenient moment to end, because I feel that he no longer loves me and I want you to continue this, as much as I love him .. I'm tired of tormenting myself ... And he got cold after a month after 4-5 months of trying to win me over and finally I gave up ===