Hi, I'll start with the fact that my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over half a year. In the summer I was very attached to him. I was very jealous of him and generally wanted us to be together all the time. I caught him writing to someone a few times, but I didn't tell him, although I was very sick. Summer has passed and there are no more girls, but there are other activities. He doesn't pay any attention to me. We're together all the time, but he does other things. I'm like invisible. I'm telling him, he's supposed to be listening to me. This has been going on for several weeks. It's as if I'm not so attached to him anymore. I try to imagine that we broke up and I don't feel sick, but when I think about our memories I get horrible ... out of boredom that he doesn't pay attention to me, I cheated on him with one. At the same time, I wrote to 3-4 other guys, supposedly to arrange meetings, but I refused at the last moment, that he would not take to understand, but recently slept with a man who is married, with one child. I don't know if we will do it again, but if something happens I won't stop. I will do it because I want to and because I do not receive any attention from my friends, and I enjoy it more. The strange thing is that I don't feel bad about anything. The strange thing, however, is that this man has taken over my mind and I think about him constantly and everywhere, and so even a few times I forget that I have a friend. Everything is terribly confused. I love him and I want to be with him, but as I do not receive any attention and constantly make small remarks to me and quarrels occur between us, it's as if I change my mind and tell myself that I will abandon him a little more, but then I remember for all our memories and I refuse to discard it. It's very hard for me, I'm very confused and distracted because I think about it all the time. Friends say that since I already had thoughts about whether to dump him and that I had cheated several times already and I don't think about him, but about someone else (with whom I have no future), I should have left him. I try to think only of the other, so as not to think of my friend. I guess if I think about the other one for another 1-2 weeks, I will have forgotten my friend somewhat. I just want my mind to be elsewhere, I don't know if you understand me ... what should I do now ...?
P.S. And don't tell me to talk to him, because I've talked more than once and I get the answer that the things he does are more important to him than I am. that if I think about the other for another 1-2 weeks, I will have forgotten my friend to some extent. I just want my mind to be elsewhere, I don't know if you understand me ... what should I do now ...? P.S. And don't tell me to talk to him, because I've talked more than once and I get the answer that the things he does are more important to him than I am. that if I think about the other for another 1-2 weeks, I will have forgotten my friend to some extent. I just want my mind to be elsewhere, I don't know if you understand me ... what should I do now ...? P.S. And don't tell me to talk to him, because I've talked to him more than once and I get the answer that the things he does are more important to him than I am.
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Listen! Do whatever you want, but don't do it with married people. It sucks! Well, imagine that he doesn't pay attention to you, because he sleeps with another, will it be good for you to be the other. No, right? A man who does everything returns. Do you know what you are doing? You become a lowly person because you do not have the courage to end. Leave those memories, find another boy and be happy, not someone married, not someone who doesn't pay attention to you, marriages, what attention will he give you? There are men. Don't stagger like that!
Why, instead of cheating as you do, ask him why he is doing it, try to fix things if you can't just dump him? You are big idiots.
You didn't have to cheat on him .. you could just dump him and then do whatever you wanted with whoever you wanted .. it's normal to feel sick of remembering your good memories, but as you can see for yourself at the moment there is nothing nice in your relationship. The fact that he told you that other things are more important than you is a sign that he no longer wants to be with you ... he just doesn't want to leave you because he already feels sick. So make it easy for him and yourself and leave him :)
And here I will pat you with the hand of morality, good sun, dream woman, kill me with aggression and laughter at the same time.
Leave it for yourself, be a little alone, overcome this relationship and then think of other men ... just not to be married, because besides the wife of this other man, you will ruin the life of an innocent child!
Julie Zheko, it's not soap to rub off. If your parachute is opened, it will be clear to your friend as well. That's life.
Well, out of respect for yourself (it is obvious that you do not respect your friend) stop this relationship. Sleeping with a married man who has a child says a lot about you. He left his friend before he knew what his goods were. I tell you honestly, please, but I pray - never, never fall in love with a woman like you! Understand it as you wish. Good day.
So in half a year, you beat love through all its phases - from butterflies in the stomach, through boredom and boredom, and finally to infidelity and the end of the relationship. Well done, kids! This is called efficiency. We used to only court for half a year. My husband revolves around me for about 5 months before inviting me on a date. I can't give any advice here, because obviously these are connections that have nothing to do with those in which I have experience. I can only advise the author to use some precautions, because overnight sex is not safe.
<8> When you say "married with a child" it's like being stamped;) To me, being married means a real man with healthy pants. Being single and stretching chicks is easy. Cats like real men, not cowards :) Well done chick. Act! You will not listen to them. And we are married Ora;)