I Cheated And I'm Very Sorry!

   Tell him he deserves to know if he wants to be with a bitch or find a man.

   How many times does she have sex with the boy at sea? Would you repeat and triple? Well, one day, if you're married to a friend and you have children, would you cheat on him?

   Try it and forget it happened. Everyone makes mistakes

   NEVER tell him! It doesn't matter what happened, you don't have to mess around, you didn't go with the boy from the sea, you just had sex, accept him as if he gave you a massage. In my opinion, your floating contact with another man at that time was provoked by emotions and something you experienced or experienced with a member of your family or friend. The very thought that he left alone and may catch another or fall in love with another while you wait for him, which will bring you an awful lot of pain may have provoked your action. Even if your friend hadn't come back to you and fallen in love with someone else abroad, if he had called you and said we were breaking up, you would have told yourself that you weren't waiting for him. If it weighs so much on your conscience, tell him, for example, that last year there were masseurs on the beach and you paid for a massage and tell the real emotions of sex, only for a back massage and how this summer when you go to the sea you will give him a gift by paying a masseur to smear his back. Something like that.

   You felt somehow abandoned and because of that you were killed for infidelity. Think about whether this friend of yours really appreciates you, if you think you complement each other, don't tell him, except that you will ruin the relationship, you will hurt him, he may not be able to trust another woman afterwards. It was a mistake, but at least you know not to do that anymore.

   You saw yourself a little free and hop! at another. This is not your love. We know the glares at the sea and the summer flirtations. Apparently he loves you more than the two of you and he tends to be faithful, yours is just empty talk. And don't tell him you're doing him a disservice.

   Poor boy!

   I wonder how one doesn't remember how much he loves his partner before spitting on the other? You always post factum feel that you can't do without it, that you suffer, etc. If they tell you honestly their opinion about the lie and betrayal, you are offended. Do you expect to be applauded? Before going to bed with the other, did you ask what to do? You ask now. If you really love someone and respect them and yourself 1. you don't cheat 2. if you do, you acknowledge them. Whether he will swallow the infidelity and stay with you, he decides. As it was said in a comment on a similar topic - everyone has the right to know what kind of person he has allowed in his life in bed. The alternative is to remain silent and live in a lie until the truth ever comes to light. That's what cowards, mice, lower traitors do. Here the choice is yours.

   She was very sorry, but otherwise she was fucked for 1 night. As long as you were looking for excuses that you wanted to fuck different. Here they called me a complex, but the topics are one after the other with the same title. Fuck you with different, so you don't see two, women want a man so that they are not alone and have some security, but for sex as much as possible. Regrets and crocodile tears do not help darling and do not change the fact that you are a whore.

   I'm sure this isn't your only infidelity. From what you said, it is clear that you are a very light woman. How long has he been abroad that you can't stand. And I'm sure it doesn't weigh on your conscience at all. Such are the light women without morals.

   I watch some comments trying to justify the author. Why? Because sorry? That is why actions are done with reason and thought, and not just like that. At the moment she is selfishly thinking only of herself and then she decides to pretend to be a lily of the valley. Most likely you did it in vain, because he left, which is super childish, and so it turns out that if he is not with you for a while, you immediately shout and cheat, that is, they have to keep you on a leash. I understand, not everyone has long-distance relationships, but why continue to be with him as you will do nonsense? Author, I don't think it's true love, because if it was you wouldn't even look at this man. I have never cheated on my partner.

   From the author: I confessed to him, because not every woman has this dignity to admit. I do not say that I am a saint, nor do I justify myself in any way. What happened once happened and never happened again

   I'm a man, I won't judge you, but here I read some of the commenters that the boy is hardly to blame for your infidelity ... come on, please. But what happened happened. One of my exes cheated on me years ago, I didn't suspect anything at all, but she immediately confessed to me. Of course, I was very ill, but later I was glad that she still found the courage to admit it to me, and did not use me. Even at times we meet and greet each other and I respect her, precisely because of her recognition. Admit everything and it will be easier for you, no matter what happens.

   Now remember to blame yourself for something you did a year ago, or just now you want to check if he loves you so much that he forgives you? You don't love this man, you wonder how to ... his mother. Has your conscience slept all year, quo?

   Never tell him, you'll ruin your relationship. It is normal to be sorry, you will be more wrong if you say so. Then your confession will be the end of your relationship.

   Don't tell him! It's a mistake and you're sorry. You will hurt your friend a lot if you tell him. There is nowhere to learn about it, is there? Leave the past behind.

   Many moralists, only men. She was with a man, not an alien! So you can have sex with whoever falls, we can't! If no one you know knows, keep quiet. If he learns to deny it, they haven't caught you in the act. Make up an excuse, we watched videos in the tube. If you still want your friend, then you really care about him. Did he stay dry abroad?

   Oh, it was people. Me, read the last few hundred topics on this topic on this site and you will judge. Every second topic is already about infidelity, do you have these people for your mother and father, that you cheat as unseen? Tell him he doesn't deserve to live a lie. Sooner or later he will understand, of course, even after 78 years. If you tell him, the chance to soften the situation that followed your confession is greater.

   I won't judge you, but if you had broken up before he went abroad, and you at sea, if you thought your relationship would break down. So everyone would be free to do whatever they wanted, and then eventually get together. Your intuition correctly told you that things would go wrong. I think it's better to tell him and let him decide if he can forgive you. He deserves to know the truth. Would you like them to hide from you if they cheat on you? It will be a lesson for you not to cheat anymore. You can offer to open a relationship or tell him to sleep with someone he likes to be even. If he accepts, he accepts. I can't think of anything else. Black Sabbath

   Calm down, and he fucks abroad and regrets every day. Call him on the phone and tell him how you fucked with him and how sorry you are. Tell him that while someone is pulling you - you think about him and cry, but fucking is fucking.

   It has happened to me too and I do not regret it.

   Abe, what sea do you go to and relax to infidelity? !! I've been going to a normal public resort for 10 years, and once a woman didn't talk to me, let alone talk about anything else. That you even had a serious friend, and yet you threw yourself at the stranger. To your question: Welcome to real and disgusting life! People are born to suffer on earth. I will not list, you will understand them yourself. In addition, we make such films that the whole world turns to you. If your friend has had such an incident, you will send him to the bottom from which he may not come out. That it weighs on your conscience is the punishment you have to endure. It's up to you how long it will weigh on you. Stay and think well before you make a mistake again. If you tell him in order to strengthen your relationship and have no secrets, he will hate you. That crazy one

   The only thing that gives me any hope that not everything is lost in today's Sodom and Gomorrah is that normal people with human worldviews and values ​​are more than cattle, who consider it most important to scratch their genitals where and with whom. they will fall. Even in this small sample, ku-vites (of both sexes) are fewer than decent people.

   Abe, people, don't just attack her. Do you think that only one person can be to blame for a problem ?! First of all, it's not right to look at someone else at all while you're in a relationship, but I also don't think that 1 year ago your relationship was so serious, if a serious relationship at all in a few months. I guess you are also young when you go to work at sea or abroad and not together. The other thing is that if he is so cute, white, clean and good in general in their relationship and satisfies her in every way she would not look at another. And for admitting to him, well done. Even after a year, not everyone has the honor and courage to admit it. And the other thing you said was that it wouldn't be good if he left. Couldn't he appreciate your opinion so much? If he loves you so much, it will take some time and he will forgive you. However, you are now together at sea and I guess you come across it often. Good luck!!!

   PS The comment starting with "abe, people ..." is from her acquaintance. Because I know her boyfriend too. Also think about why people resort to infidelity. Although they managed to keep someone by their side for 2 years. And excuse me a lot, but I doubt that light women can strengthen a relationship even for 3 weeks

   22, regret requires humanity, which is above the level of a blood.

   I have found in my life that when it comes to infidelity, there is no difference between men and women. The difference, however, comes in the reaction when it is understood that someone of the opposite sex will have done such a thing. Or more specifically, men jump like stepped girls and scream as if infidelity is a female creation that they would never commit. Hypocrisy is the word. It is clear that the author is reprehensible, but it would be good for the gentlemen to condemn with the same will and dramatic existential cries the actions of their sexual friends in the neighboring topics.

   I don't see anything wrong. After all, one lives. Love and fidelity are concepts from classical literature, movies and series. I have the impression that sooner or later, they all want something else.

   How much you defend yourself with each other, and in fact everyone wants to fuck you and wear such mats: D

   Don't listen to the comments above. Sometimes a man feels scared and insecure, and the most important thing for a woman is security. What you have done is bad, but men can be obsessed when they pursue a goal so much that they forget the woman next to them. How are you sure he didn't do anything, even if he behaved well? Most relationships end when the person has been with you but has taken overseas, this is a big risk. I don't excuse you, but I also imagine the stress you went through.

   To the author> Hello, I do not feel sorry for people who live with utopian beliefs! They just don't have a thought, everything is an emotion with them. I'm not convinced that you know the meaning of the word infidelity. This oriental mentality imposed on us by the domination of the most unbearable understandings and regimes. My father calls him Turkish communist. Mixed with religious dogmas and laws created by egotists and unfortunates with the sole purpose of keeping to themselves what they have achieved. To free your conscience from this conservative-selfish imputation, you must distinguish between sex and love. In addition, you need to be clear about what connects you to this person and the perspective with him. If you've made a word about sexual fidelity, you're both fools. It's like making sure it never rains. I am married with a 40-year-old son and a 39-year-old daughter. When I got married many years ago, I was clear on a few things that I loved my husband, that I would do whatever it took to be well and not miss anything. I didn't expect him to have sex with me alone. And I wasn't mistaken that he thought so. Like myself for myself. A soldier left and only a week later I became depressed from the lack of sex. In the second week we went on a visit. Everything was happening on a meadow. The military had made a canopy with tables on which, separated from our soldiers, we opened home-made food. We then parted and stretched out on the lawn. By the time I touched him, he was done. Not to mention, I ran like a fountain. But there was no way we could have sex. We complained to each other about how hard it is without sex. At one point he said, "My darling, you are easier than me." You can catch someone to fix you, but I ... And beat him all night, all this. I'm really sorry. Two difficult years awaited him. He was right, it was easier for me. I didn't want to catch up with anyone. At first, for fear of getting cold to my husband, not creating conditions for conflict, etc. A few more weeks passed, I began to scroll. Then there was no internet, no cell phones. In order to be heard, we sent a telegram with a scheduled time for a telephone conversation in the mail. One day he called me to tell us when their oath was. By the way, he told me he was dying for a woman. I didn't know what to say to him, but I was shaking: - Oh! If you know how it itches me too ...

One thing followed: - I thought you had already stretched a friend. At least you don't bother. In fact, I had hints and even gropes from very close, but we did not get to sex. If he had asked, I probably would have. But it went away. I didn't think and told him: - There was an opportunity, but it went away. "If you can't stand it, at least make sure you don't forget me." His last words were sincere. I didn't answer anything. We only specified the details of the oath and finished. The oath came and the two families shook off there. After the oath, they were released. They were supposed to be in the unit for Monday morning's inspection. Then we went with him to a hotel next door. We had sex until three in the morning on Monday. He left for the unit at four, and later I caught the train for us. On the way I remembered the conversation we had during our stay at the hotel. I remembered that he said to me (quoting him): - This sweet pussy should not be tormented unfucked! Take advantage while I'm gone. These words were said in a moment of great excitement, and I could not accept them as true. At such a moment we say to ourselves what not. One day he came on vacation for two days. During sex he said to me: - There is a woman there, a sergeant. He works at headquarters. He keeps calling me about things. A week ago, the company sent me with her to Koprivshtitsa to bring some documents. In the evening we stayed in the headquarters of the unit there. She came to me and slipped into bed. I caught fire, something was waiting for me, but I quickly came to my senses and realized that at such a moment in his situation ... whether anyone would survive. My reaction was as calm as I could, and I said, "You're relieved, aren't you?" I hope it was nice? -

Yes, she is very experienced. I hope you're not angry? We didn't say another word about what happened. After he left, I thought a lot and realized that there are situations in which one cannot avoid things. My brother came home that night. This is my best friend and closest, I share everything with him. My mother-in-law, their father-in-law and daughter went to Leskovac, they would stay there for a few days with her brother. We ate something and he went into the bathroom. He had traveled almost a thousand miles. At one point I suspected he was asleep in the bathtub. I went and looked. God, he was lying in the bathtub, his member sticking out like the flagpole in my husband's ward. I thought about it another time, but now ... He looked at me and said, "Come if you want." You're going to take a bath, aren't you? Who thinks of you at such a moment. I took off my nightgown and boom in the bathtub. Believe it or not, I forgot who she was. That's how we got her to the home of her father-in-law and mother-in-law. Of course we were not surprised. My brother stayed for another two or three days. Things got a little easier. My uncle, my mother-in-law's brother, had come with ours. We had to thicken, and she offered to put our bedroom separately for my brother. My uncle was accommodated in my room. My bedroom is the furthest from the other rooms, and this gave me a chance to take full advantage of my brother's presence. Then he left. On Friday we went on a visit. My husband and I parted for a while, talking and groping. There were no other options. Then I told him about my brother. I wasn't sure how he reacted, but he accepted things, I would say with pleasure, he even said: - Well done to you, to your brother. I have to thank him. Preferably in front of a friend. I wondered, usually such connections are reprimanded. This made me take his words as irony at first. But he reassured me with the words, "In this country, and without fucking anyone, if you're a soldier's wife, there's a lot of talk." I'm glad you did!

So, darling, time passed and he resigned. Despite everything, in the beginning, I had some remorse. But all my friends told me one thing: - You love him, you have not abandoned him and you have no such intention, then everything is fine. It is not infidelity! He himself told me: - We are already together, we will do everything together. At first, I didn't understand the meaning, but later I understood. Even with a lover, but together. Not to hide from each other. We still love and rejoice together ... If your boy is smart, don't blame yourself. He would probably act like you.