Hello! I made a mistake that I will never forgive. I am not of the blood that does not keep the person next to me. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I haven't even looked at anyone else. We had a lot of problems, but I stayed with him because he is everything to me. I'm not an easy woman. Maybe I've been to a disco 5 times so far, and I'm 22. I don't know cigarettes, coffee, alcohol and drugs. But something inside me turned when I saw a friend of his. They are not so close, they are just from the same village, but because that boy lives in a city, they are rarely seen. This summer, I saw him for the first time. We were at the cinema and he sat down with us. Then we were at a party with my friend and he came to us again. He is an extremely good boy. He is handsome, he does not smoke, he does not drink, he is a football player, he is not like the others at all (at least I thought so). It so happened that my friend's birthday was coming and I wanted to throw a party for him and write to his friends, including him, but the writing with him didn't stop and we got to see each other word for word. I refused him for a week and he told me that my friend was lucky, but it so happened that my friend and I had a fight. He was terrible to me, and I surprised him. So I decided to see this boy, nothing happened, just kisses, I was not ready for anything else, it just hurt to cause it to my friend, but after the party, the desire intensified and I could not control myself. Two days later I cheated. It so happened that today is the third day after I was with this boy and he is not looking for me at all. I don't know what to call him ego or he just got what he wanted and I don't need him for more. And I'm so sorry I can't reconcile, and I don't know how I'm going to live in this lie. It's painful, but I can't afford to admit, I can't lose it ...
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People like you are for farts. - The crisis
He is obviously just like the others, pretends to be different and takes down your stars, sleeps with you and forgets about you (a typical crib). Think about it, are you ready to live with this in your head? To lie to your closest person? Break up with your friend.
Don't admit it to your friend, but leave him, definitely!
You have to tell your friend, at least that's for sure.
Well, if you look for solace with another in every scandal with your friend, where will it end? Now you are angry about one thing and you lift your skirts, and when you live as a family, your pants should always be taken off. Crazy work. You are emotionally and mentally unstable. Leave the boy and get out of his life.
Everyone makes mistakes. Don't tell him. You will meet reproaches here, but I will tell you not to blame yourself. Big deal. What happened happened. Go ahead. And don't tell your friend. That would be the biggest nonsense.
Yeah, he's a good boy ... A football player after all. You don't say how old you are, but reading it is probably a teenage story. And why do you write to the football player to organize a party for your friend when they are not so close, but rather acquaintances? So only in your imagination you are not a light woman, but your actions burden you differently and at the moment some moral torments but conscience have arisen. Peace will not be your first infidelity, there will be more with the next boyfriends and husbands, and with time and number your conscience will disappear and only selfishness and the desire for carnal pleasures will remain! This is normal nowadays.
Only women can do that, old lady :). How once a man did not write that he had slept with a good friend or with a friend of his girlfriend. But now that I write this comment, such a topic may pop up ... You made a mistake. Whether you should part with yours is not clear. You know best how you feel and whether you should. You were wrong - yes, I will not support you.
Off, it's nothing for men. Nothing like that has happened, he thinks like them. You just missed a nice man and that's it. You last and that's it!
The boy was no friend of 'your friend', and you stabbed him. You don't love him at all, because love is unconditional. Do not pretend.
Come on, come on "But I'm not such a girl", and at the same time someone who accidentally appeared needs only a few minutes to take off your panties, and you seem to have a friend of 3 years! You are disgusting! Your friend doesn't deserve you!
Take it as an adventure and forget it. You are young and you will still have similar situations. Don't tell your friend.
Now all moralists will jump to stone you. A similar story has happened to me, except that my friend and the other person do not know each other. You'll be sick for a while, but it will pass. Don't say no to your boyfriend while you're affected. Wait a while to calm down. And it's best not to tell him at all, even if you break up. You will only hurt him. The other person probably won't call you, but what is it for you - you can't be with the two of you. The sooner you accept that your relationship with him is over, the better for you.
You last. If by chance she brags to him, say "Well, he told me that he was better than you and I wanted to make sure that he is not better than you. Well, he is not;)" and cry. And then you will clap, hug and live happily!
You yourself, subconsciously or even semi-consciously, provoked your friend's anger to "quarrel" and have an excuse to cheat on him. You don't love it, you don't like it, it's just a convenient habit. Don't bother with your friend, be honest and leave him. He does not deserve such treatment.
Stop blaming the girl. Are you where you break up families and you are all sinless. There are no sinless ones. She has no family and no children now and it is time for such pleasures. The important thing is that you had a good time. Don't tell your friend under any circumstances. Do not think that he will not cheat on her all his life and that he will immediately run to tell her. As long as you get into the soaps !!!
Number 8. Open your eyes. The girl clearly and accurately wrote how old she is and it is not about puberty, but about big people who can start a family. Don't worry, everyone is wrong, so you were deceived, but don't make the mistake of looking for this user, but look at the boy next to you and run away from people like this "football player". You can see for yourself that he is neither a friend nor a boyfriend. A clean user!
Up to 18 The conditions are always three: - To have love. - No lies. - No infidelity. Two of the three conditions have already been violated. I don't know how much is left until the first one is missing, but that's not how you live.
There is a story, a bit vulgar, but it is the whole truth ... a woman once smelled someone else. wow, it will always repeat, and thrice, and so on. etc. So, darling, welcome to the club of k. tear! Fact! You are not the first, you will not be the last. The question is how you will do it and whether you are ready for the moment when your friend will learn, and this will happen sooner or later! If not, leave him alone, he will be a little hurt and you will save him lost time with you! If you really hold on to him and want him, admit it and he will show if he wants you despite the mistake!
This is not something so fatal. It would be uglier if you had children and you are just boyfriends. Don't worry, you are neither the first nor the last. Usually long relationships start to get boring and that's why one sex is looking for diversity. That doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend, you just needed a thrill.
You say you're not a whore, but you do whore things. When you're going to cheat, at least cheat on someone who deserves ... a football player. One has to spend a long time with a person to understand what a commodity it is, everything else is just a simple attraction - a whore's job. Don't tell him, as you described him, and your friend is not much of a flower to smell ... If you think you want to be with him and that he won't understand, shut up and that's it.
Say goodbye to the person next to you. Put yourself in his place for a moment and think about whether you need traitors.
Breathe calmly, have fun, because believe me, the day will come when you will regret that you did not do it. Men cheat sooner or later, so you're not the loser. Remember the good moment with gusto
You last! And he will cheat on you one day. Have fun.
I just can't believe it ... I read the comments and I want to explode ... Where is this world going? Listen to me now, darling. I will not blame you because you did not come here for this, but I will give you advice. By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive, because I'm sure you know what's right. Nothing but nothing in this world remains hidden. Sooner or later your friend will understand and believe me - I know from personal experience that it is MUCH better to be early. You made a mistake, no matter what some of the people here tell you, but since you love the boy so much, as you claim, it's best to tell him. You just ... you owe it to him. Don't let him live in ignorance. I'm not talking about destiny and things like that, but TRUST ME - when two people are really for each other, they will always find a way. If he decides it's better to break up, you will find someone who is right for you or in time your paths will cross again. No one knows. But I tell you honestly - tell him. You will only fall lower when he finds out in a month, two, a year or even ten ...
"He's handsome, he doesn't smoke, he doesn't drink, he's a footballer, he's not like the others at all" I managed to get this far, I think I know the rest.