A 17-year-old boy. I have a girlfriend that I am proud to own. To me, it is the definition of the word "angel." Recently I was tempted and slept with a good friend of hers, but in spite of that I had sex with the 3rd who was attracted only by my appearance. I feel disgustingly sick of my actions. I think she's starting to suspect him, too, because he's been getting colder lately. The infidelity happened 4 days ago. She is everything to me, but she clearly deserves better and faithful to her. If anyone has any advice, let them share it with me. :) Thanks!
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You have to admit it to her. It is very important how you tell her, rather show that she really comes first. You did wrong, first because you cheated on her friend and even more because you repeated the mistake. But it's not fatal, if you really love each other, it should pass. At least I would forgive if I saw that my friend really loved me.
Had he thought about that before you threw yourself into bed with some others. Here, apart from such comments as mine, you can't expect anything else. It's like writing, "People, I accidentally ran over a dog in the car, it died, now I feel dumb, how can I revive it?" your neighbor.
It's your own fault, friend. Whatever we tell you, you've already done it. Look, if he had consulted the people here before, things might have turned out differently, but ... what happened
Well, you screwed up and you know it. You better not tell her, because for sure. broke up with you. And even if she doesn't break, she will lose the trust she had in you and will always suspect you. You will have one mind and in the end you will lose it again. Think seriously about what you have done and think about whether you would do it again in the future. Is your girlfriend all for you? Since when have you been together? Are you willing to sacrifice some sexual pleasure for the sake of your relationship? If she is really very dear to you, promise yourself in the future not to lie to her and not to cheat on her. Always compare - did you deserve to hurt the person I love for 5 minutes of pleasure? It happened, it happened. People, we make mistakes. Especially if we are young. There is no ideal person. The important thing in the future is to try to be better.
What advice do you want? !? First - you do NOT own this girl! It is not a thing to own! You can't own any girl - you can only sleep with her! Is this clear? Second - you are just a crazy fool without morals and values. She must have only seen your appearance ... Because you have nothing in your head, boy! And third - tell her everything and let her break up with you! Just admit it, there's no point in lying to her anymore. And for the fact that she deserves better is so! And lastly - learn to respect women! They are neither accessories, nor things, nor toys! Is that clear too? !!! We are human too! And we are much above you! Don't think, like everyone else, that once you have dicks you are gods! Because you are not. ;) A girl, a year younger than you, writes it to you!
My advice is to first find out from whom what you want. The second is to get rid of the girl - obviously not for her. Fall in love with someone and it will not cross your mind to cheat.
"I own" ???? Haha ... success in life, boy;) p. s -no one owns anyone in this world! 169
First, you don't own it, second, it's not your time for a serious relationship. Count your girls as much as you want, but don't lie to anyone that you are faithful. It is not a problem to be a womanizer, it is a problem to be a scoundrel.
Yes, you really did wrong, but maybe once you see your own mistake, it's best to admit to the girl. It would be better for him to learn from you than from his "girlfriends". If you truly love her and explain how things are, she may forgive you (but it still depends on the person) not everyone is ready to forgive infidelity, especially when they have been badly hurt.
Leave her! I did so.
Tell the truth, because a serious relationship is built on this step! Admit that your conscience is bothering you - describe your emotional state, reveal yourself and fully reveal yourself. Even if he leaves you, he will remember your masculine behavior. Good luck
Thinking only with your lower head, you will push your upper head after that. It's best to admit it - at least for that be a man, she will understand someday whether this week, whether in a month or a year she will understand, so you better admit it yourself, have at least a small drop of dignity and don't lie to her. First, that she doesn't deserve such a person next to her - yes, you're right, you really don't deserve her, but it's even a pity to hide and lie to her in the most brazen way. If you love her, go and confess and then whether you will fall to your knees, whether you will pray, etc. It doesn't matter if you want her, you will apologize and I don't know if she will forgive you, but you did it yourself. Your behavior shows how much you care about her, so at least don't lie to her, because she will understand anyway and then you won't have a chance to explain and apologize anymore.
Tell her and give her a chance to find someone else who will really appreciate her, because you darling, you don't deserve this girl!
Oh, what a treat, then go tell this girl to expect something good. At least tell her how things are going, but if you don't, I don't know what you should be.