Hello. I will drive straight. I am 22 and he is 41. He has a wife and a child of 8 years. He has been like that for a long time, for the simple reason that the only conversations he has with his wife are to give her money. He says he finds everything else in me. We have been together for 4 months. I live alone. Over time, it started to hurt every time he left in the evening. I don't want to fall asleep and wake up alone. There is no one to say "good night" to, no one to hug in the morning. Actually, I have nothing. This loneliness began to weigh on me, because of which we quarrel quite often. I understand that he is coming home because of his child and I do not judge him for that. I understand that it can't be divided in two, but sometimes my nerves can't stand it. Apparently, because I keep everything to myself. Don't judge me, I know I don't belong there and I've told him many times. But he doesn't leave me. And I don't want to leave me. It also weighs on me to take it away from his child. And at the same time I want it, a lot. I do not know what to do. I tried to separate, he didn't stop calling and writing, he finally came home. His absence kills me. I see my girlfriends living with their husbands. They also think about children.
Something he won't give me. We have to hide, and I want to show it to the whole world, to show how happy I am with it. All this eats me from the inside, makes me indifferent to everything and erases my smile more and more with each passing day. We have to hide, and I want to show it to the whole world, to show how happy I am with it. All this eats me from the inside, makes me indifferent to everything and erases my smile more and more with each passing day. We have to hide, and I want to show it to the whole world, to show how happy I am with it. All this eats me from the inside, makes me indifferent to everything and erases my smile more and more with each passing day.
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4 months is a very short time to gather impressions about a person and get to know him. I don't know if you realize that he has hardly now found his true love in your face. That once the relationship with his wife is alienated, he needs sex and may lie to you that he loves you, just to get it. You are very young in his eyes and he hardly takes you seriously, he hardly thinks of taking a more serious step with you. Now it's you, then he'll find someone else and so on. He does not think of creating a new family. The fact that he is looking for you and calling you is also normal and does not mean that you are in his first place. And you are only 22 and you deserve a person, only for yourself, who will love and respect you.
That's how he's married. And you don't take it away from his child. He can be with you if he wants to, but he doesn't leave his family. His wife may irritate him and be like a vent to you. You are the one who saves their marriage. If you are not to break up, he may not be able to endure and divorce, or find another like you. Now you are in love with nrgo, but there are other cool men with whom you can have great sex and be by your side. Mani gl toya. When you get married one day, have two children and your husband gets bored, but you don't want to separate, because there are more important things about sex, you will call this married man and you will see each other once a month and everything will be fine. ok, no one will suffer.
Don't do nonsense and leave it on time!
I will not reproach you, you do it to yourself. -she in her ignorance of you, he in the chimera that spins 2 women. He will never leave her for you, but he will not let you go either, because he likes the lamb. The decision on how much more time you will waste from your life is yours personally.
Dear girl. Don't you understand that you want to show it to the world, but it doesn't want to. It's just that the realities are different for each of you, understand it. You sound like a woman full of love, but she blinds you. The man has a wife and a child, and you are just a delicious dessert after the main course. If his wife finds out about you, you will see him in a different light. There is always a chance that someone you know will see you. I wish you happiness.
From the author. Maybe number 5 will be right. Last night he told me on the phone that he would come, but for a while. When he came, he explained that his wife had hinted to him that she suspected something. Whereupon he told me "I will go home, to make kind eyes". Apart from the fact that I am alone every night, during the day because of his work he still does not know when it will end. We can't use the good weather, he always promises me and something always comes to him. I'm tired of being a toy, I'm already starting to see it in a different light. Once I was not in the first place for him, and he is always for me.
Numbers 2 and 4 told you the pure truth. But you pass it comfortably. You want to be first, and you have chosen to be second. How to do it? And not only are you second, you are the savior of their marriage. Not only does he sleep with his wife 1000%, you can be sure that he is wonderful at home now and behaves better with his wife than ever because he is a jerk. Now he would take her on vacation, buy her something nice, start spending more time with her and the child, startled that he might lose his family. Guess what will happen to you, you will become more and more invisible, or you will suddenly disappear from the good family idyll. And if his wife decides to leave him, your job is broken. He will not be in a hurry to commit to the newly acquired freedom, much less to create a family and children again, and from number 2, you will become number 3, 4.