Hello Boy I am 25 years old, and about 4 months ago I met a girl on the Internet. We communicated every day during these months, and we liked and liked each other a lot. The day came when I went to see each other live. As we expected, we liked each other a lot and live, and I can even say that we already love each other. Of course, we even got to have sex, but it didn't work out at all. She was my first. It excites me a lot, but when it's time for the essential act, when I insert it, I feel it start to fall on me in an instant. How many times we tried, it always happened. It was as if I was losing all desire for sex the moment I put it in. I even think that I didn't feel anything at all, I didn't even understand if I put it on ... there were also a lot of problems with the condom, how many times it fell on me the moment I put it on. We tried a lot of poses, none of them worked because I started to fall too quickly. And so how many consecutive days, nothing and nothing and nothing. For the last few days, I had no desire for sex anymore, because I knew it wouldn't work. What do you think is the reason for this? Do I have erectile dysfunction? I want to say that I have been masturbating quite often for years, I have decreased in recent days, but is it possible that this is my problem? She keeps saying she loves me and we'll go through everything together, but I'm sure she'll leave me if I don't learn these things. I have already reduced it in the last few days, but is it possible that this is my problem? She keeps saying she loves me and we'll go through everything together, but I'm sure she'll leave me if I don't learn these things. I've been down for the last few days, but could that be my problem? She keeps saying she loves me and we'll go through everything together, but I'm sure she'll leave me if I don't learn these things.
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I see that no one has answered yet, so I decided to be the first. I smoke my cigar and I read you the story and one thing I don't understand. Why do you call yourself a boy? And I'm 25 and I don't call myself a security boy of 5-6 years. First, you're not a boy, you're a 25-year-old man, or at least you should be. Second, how you love each other already, fuck. People after 10 years can not say that they love each other, after 2 chats you are convinced of that. You think infantile, this is a big mistake. One sex doesn't make the relationship and love doesn't come right after it. The problem is in your head, especially after the first failure. Masturbation also leads to similar problems, and porn seriously aggravates them. You have to change your attitude and attitude to what happened. Drink a small or large whiskey next time, but no more. Have a long game before the start, make it excite you a little more, especially if coiled and oral. Insert it once and you will calm down. You just think it a lot. But you are right about one thing. If you don't have sex with her, the TV will drop it, and don't take these rumors that she loves you seriously, because she's just trying to predispose you to nothing more.
In men, in 90 percent of cases, the problem is in the head - you find yourself wondering if it will happen again and you just lose concentration. Just relax and have fun.
Norman is usually going to deepen the problem, and is entirely mental. My first attempts at the set did not go well. Exactly the first 10-15 options with the same girl, in the end it did not work out naturally. The problem is that ... sorry at 25, it's your set, you rubbed it from a fight, your man. But don't give up, everything is in your head, you don't have any dysfunctions. All my friends, including me, have been through this journey. Usually the problem is either that you haven't done it until now and you don't know what to expect or you haven't done it for so long that you have forgotten what it is. you doubt various things. If the girl is understood, it will work. Good luck
The problem is in your head. You worry too much and you want everything to be perfect and that's not possible. Tip: Relax and indulge your feelings. Stop thinking about it. You can also drink a glass of wine before that, it has a relaxing effect.
That's right, you think about it a lot and it doesn't happen and it doesn't happen. Relax, don't sleep and things will happen naturally. The whole thing is about worry and a lot of thinking. It's best to make a French one without a tire, and then you put on the hood and act. Good luck. M. 32g.
It's just like they wrote to you - you've filmed too much. You can't relax or the situation is too adjusted (it also happens with long-term couples). And I was embarrassed the first time I had to score. Before that I had no problems with erection, but in the sublime moment - a shoot. Well, after half an hour we tried again, this time I managed to score it fast enough (it was a little hairy) and successfully and I finished after 3 minutes. It was quite exciting. When the emotion passes from the first time, then everything goes smoothly - you already know what to expect, etc. everything is more normal. Don't film yourself, it's not just you and the problem is only in your head. The chick likes you, you have an erection, you will manage! It's not who knows what, no special skills are required. Separately - buy a few condoms and try to put them on in private. At least the technical part should be successful ;-).
And, yes, I forgot to write that the first time the chick is usually dissatisfied. So it is with the second, the third, that it can be up to the tenth. If you want to be sure that you will satisfy her, leave her on top, so she will be satisfied herself (the surest way is for her to take responsibility / initiative for her orgasm). Only later, when you get to know each other, you will be able to have orgasms (it may take a year or more).
This is complete nonsense and reassurance for incompetent men. A woman CAN end from the first time if she LIKES the man next to her and of course - she is not some blown woman with complexes. What year was number 10? Either you are incompetent, or your wives are crazy, or both, but you do not write nonsense, research, it has been proven that with percentages.
What is "over the internet"? And is there an "internet"?
Up to 11. I don't know if you're a man or a woman. But if you are a man, well done, rejoice in your success. But I doubt it when you're in a mental waste forum. I don't know what kind of ability you're talking about, given that they're both virgins! They will gain experience, but this happens over time and does not accumulate from watching porn! I'm really sorry if you think you can satisfy your partner the first time (not that it's not possible, sometimes the emotions are quite strong, but it's not the merit in you!). It will be the merit in you if you have known each other for a year and you manage to excite her to the point that she will finish without making any effort. I don't know what studies and percentages you are talking about, maybe you are dreaming?
The first few times sex should be done with experienced partners. That's what prostitutes are for example.
Your problem comes from worry. I advise you to take 1 Viagra next time, so you will get over anxiety and everything.
I will tell you my story. And I made the set at a late age-24. Contrary to all expectations and writings, the first time I couldn't even finish, it probably lasted 40 minutes, and the girl had finished several times and had no strength in the end, so we stopped. I hadn't told her it was my first, but I'm sure she didn't even understand. In the morning we did it again and this time I managed to finish in 10 minutes maybe and everything was great. After all, we have been in a relationship with her for a long time and there was a period in which I ended up in the 2nd minute and I started to worry just like you that I did not satisfy her, etc. I thought about stimulants, even I avoided sex at one time, but we talked about it, she is quite understanding and loves me very much, and we found that everything is in my head and out of anxiety, just like with you. I'm relaxed now, I'm having fun, and she herself told me that she had never had better sex before. It was always difficult for her to finish, and it happened to me 3-4 times. So, brother, relax, have fun, try to make her happy first, then yours, and turn off all extraneous thoughts. Even if it happens gradually, every time it will be better, forget about worries. Good luck.
It's not scary, it's most likely out of worry. Take a stimulant such as Tribestan or even Viagra to overcome the condition. Then things have to take care of themselves. If not, then look for psycho-whatever you decide, analyst, log, atter, etc. Success!